The Art Of Chasing Slaves

The Art Of Chasing Slaves

As you all can imagine, I often talk with other slaves about domination in general and about Goddesses. One of the things that always come up is: “damn I wish my Goddess would contact me now, and remind me how powerful She is”. That’s why I thought of writing about this..because hey… I love it as well!

First things first: being chased by your Goddess is TOTALLY different than being chased by a Goddess you’ve never met before.

A Goddess chasing an unknown slave is, basically, just looking for new slaves in the most pathetic way. Hint: this is WRONG and NO real Goddess will EVER do this. No one of the Goddesses I’ve ever served did this, …and certainly, I will never serve someone acting in such a pathetic way.

On the other hand, once a certain kind of “relationship” has been established, being chased at the right moment, in the right way, is exactly what we, slaves, always crave for.

The right way to be chased

Basically, it’s all a game of things like… often but not too often, sending pics but not all the time, in a sexy way but only every now and then, …in a few words? Something like a constant “tease and denial”.
A Goddess constantly showing the slave Her power, without giving him the impression that he actually matters to her. Making him know that he’s not forgotten, but that he might easily end up being like that if he stops doing what he’s supposed to do.
Because let’s face it: if the Goddess makes the slave feel he’s important for Her, he might end up losing interest. He will see her less powerful and start looking for other Goddesses.

There is a very thin line between feeling chased and feeling needed. Crossing that line might ruin the slave loyalty altogether.
Chasing him should also be done at different times of the day. I know this might sound stupid…but think about it. If the Goddess only gets in touch with her slave at a certain time of the day, the slave will start feeling “safe” during the rest of the day…and that should not happen. We need to always feel trapped, during the whole day. Receiving the casual message at work, for example, is always a huge turn on and, at the same time, a very scary thing: perfect chasing technique, basically.
Chasing should start slowly, increasing as the “relationship” goes on, as the intimacy increases…and as the ways to interact increase: first it could just skype, then it could be e-mail, WhatsApp…

Not all slaves deserve this

This is important, and I really can’t say this enough: only slaves that know their place and their role should have the privilege to be chased. Time wasters should never ever be contacted first by the Goddess (for obvious reasons), and even slaves that pay should start to be chased bit by bit as long as they keep spoiling the Goddess.
I really think being chased is a HUGE privilege, and only a few slaves actually deserve it.
That’s why I immediately wrote that only when a certain kind of “relationship” is in place, chasing should start.

Wrapping up

First of all, my words are not rules written in stone: this all just my opinion, and please feel free to write “this is bulls**t” in comments if you feel like it.
But one thing is true: being chased is part of all the most solid and longer Goddess/slave relationships. Because a chased slave is a slave that doesn’t escape, and because a Goddess that knows how to chase, is ALWAYS a truly powerful and dangerous Goddess.

What do you think?

Am i really a slave…or just a hopeless wanker?

Am i really a slave…or just a hopeless wanker?

Some would argue that the difference between a wanker and a slave is not that big: I mean, in the end, it’s all about getting pleasure here…isn’t it? But a few days ago I faced a situation that made me start thinking seriously about this difference and which of those two I belong to.

I just had finished a session with a Goddess (a really great session, to be honest) and, out of the blue, another Goddess sent me a message on Skype.

“this would be the perfect time for you to worship my feet in nylon”

I didn’t worship Her feet since a long time actually because I could never see her online… so yeah, this would have been a chance to don’t miss…. But there was a big problem. I had just exploded a few minutes earlier, I wasn’t excited at all (physically at least, if you know what I mean)…and I felt like it would have been a total waste to have a session at that moment.

What’s the point in having a session, if you are not excited? If she can’t keep you on the edge? If you can’t…well… be hard for Her? To me, it doesn’t make sense, or at least it takes away a huge part of the joy in the session itself… but… does this make me a wanker or a slave?

What would have a real slave answered? Would have he started a session just for the pleasure of making his Goddess happy? Does this make me a bad slave?

What do you think?

 

Goddess Ishtar Hits Me Like A Lightning Bolt

Goddess Ishtar Hits Me Like A Lightning Bolt

There are some evenings, for a slave like me, where you just don’t want to serve anyone. You are not in the mood, maybe too concentrated on your life problems, or you are just too tired. Last night was one of those nights for me.

I had a long day at work, and was just casually browsing Facebook…wasting time, basically, and more or less getting ready to go to sleep.

But then I got a message.

“Me and my black pantyhose want to be served by you tonight.”

Just like that, out of the blue, Goddess Ishtar turned my night upside down.

You see… doesn’t matter if you are in the mood or if you are not: when Goddess Ishtar sends you a message like that, there is NO WAY you can avoid being turned on by it. There is NO WAY you can ignore it.

Obviously, I answered in the only possible way: “Yes Goddess“.

Being one of the busiest Goddesses around, it wasn’t before a good 30 minutes that She actually allowed me to see Her. During all that time I just kept staring at the screen, waiting for her order to crawl in. Like a puppy waiting for his owner, basically.

When she finally allowed me in, I was stunned by the way she looked. A short black leather dress, black pantyhose, black spike high heels…and her legendary beauty.

It was a magnificent, long and expensive session. One I will remember for a while. She kept me constantly on the edge for about 60 minutes, taking money as time went by. Always with that knowing, seductive, irresistible smile She has. Then, after such a long time, She decided to allow me to explode…after a count down from 10.
But I lasted only till 3 (to my embarrassment)..she was just too hot…too seducing…too teasing.

How much did I spend? Better if I don’t tell you. But it was totally worth it. Totally. And you know that if you want to try something similar…all you have to do is show Her that you are worth it by visiting her chatroom. It will be worth it, you can take my word on it.

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Spot a Fake Goddess in a few easy steps!

Spot a Fake Goddess in a few easy steps!

Fake profiles are everywhere recently: fake Goddesses, fake slaves, fake friends…fake whatever! And what really puzzles me, is that it’s SO EASY to spot them and yet…many people seem to be trusting them! I mean come on… how can you trust a Goddess that’s using pictures from an Instagram Celebrity?

Oh wait…maybe this is the real problem: You don’t know how to spot them!

Let me help you… it’s VERY easy. All you need is laptop and Google Chrome.

Spot a Fake Goddess with Google Chrome

So, as I said, you’ll need to use Google Chrome. If you don’t have it, go and install it from here.
Now go on the profile that you want to verify, and use one of their pics. You don’t need to save it, you’ll just have to right click on it. To make a test, I’ve uploaded a pic on my Facebook Profile that you can use for practice: here it is.

If it’s not already opened in full screen, click on the picture. Now Right click on it.

You’ll see lots of options coming up, one of them being the magical… “search for this image on Google“. That’s the one you’ll want to click!

Chrome will use the Google Image Search option with that picture, loading up all pages that have it. If it’s a celebrity, or anyone already posted online, you’ll easily be able to get it.

Who’s the one in the pic in this case? An Italian celebrity, Maria Teresa Buccino. Of course, you can use this same “trick” on any site: Twitter, Tumblr, Facebook, whatever.

Hope this helps…let’s fight those bastards using fake pictures to get money from slaves!

 

A famous slave? Really?

A famous slave? Really?

I know what you are thinking by reading the title of this post, and it’s the same thing for me. WTF? A slave now can be…famous? Well…apparently that can happen.

Believe it or not, I recently got a message from two journalists that wanted to interview me.

First one was David Wilson, from the International Edition of South China Morning Post. He was writing an article about Financial Domination fetish in Asia, and he wanted to know a few things from a slave point of view.

The article went online in May, too bad he didn’t put a link to my site: The Findom Fetish in Asia

Next one was Natasha Fedorenko from Wonderzine, an online Russian Magazine. Her interview was longer than the one David made me. She asked way more questions, and at the beginning wanted to do it on Skype. Of course, I opted for an answer via email, considering I don’t have that much privacy at home.

Funny enough, even that article went online in May: “«Я заставляю мужчин голодать»: Кто такие финансовые доминатрикс и их рабы“. I don’t know Russian so I had to use Google Translator. Again, no link to my blog, but anyway…I guess that’s how it works…

So…with these two, now I had been interviewed four times since I started this blog: Vice.Com and the Italian forum “My Fetish Room” being the other two. What do I get from them? well…I can’t deny the fact that, somehow, things like this are actually making me feel good…kinda feeding my ego i guess…even if, obviously, none of those articles (with the exception of the one for the Italian fetish forum) are there to put the slave image in a good light.

For the rest of the world, we are, basically, a bunch of idiots throwing money at girls for no specific reason. But who cares… in a way it’s still a good thing that they speak about this fetish we have. What do you think?

P.S. if you want to read the other interviews, links are on my “About me” page.