I have to admit, it always flatters me when I get some attention from some other site or magazine: it actually happened a few times already (take a look here), and this time it was an Italian magazine to interview me.
Frisson is a feminist magazine or, better said, a magazine that focuses its attention on sexuality and women: it comes out every three months and all its articles always go deeper into the subject they speak about, leaving nothing off the table. They speak clearly, freely, and openly.
The author, Melania Mieli, contacted me a couple of weeks ago, saying she was preparing an article about Financial Domination for the magazine and was gathering experiences and information from different people in this fetish. They were looking for a slave point of view, saw my blog, and asked me quite a few questions.
What came out from that interview is, in my opinion, one of the best Financial Domination articles I’ve read in a long time: they managed to put down clearly the pros and cons of Financial Domination, without ever being obvious and, even less, without using the usual clichè we are often hit by.
One thing I really liked is that they took the post I wrote about my encounter with Goddess Ishtar and created a short fictional story based on it, a really interesting approach.
If you want to read a preview of the article, click here. As I said, it’s an Italian magazine so the article is, of course, in Italian. If you manage to read a bit of it, let me know your thoughts!
Among all the magnificent Goddesses I’m lucky to serve and have served in these years of Financial Domination, there is one who surely stands out not only because of her beauty but also because of her uniqueness both in dressing style and in the way she dominates men. Hear laugh during sessions is the perfect combination of funny and powerful, her super colorful dresses are not to be missed, and her never-ending collection of high-quality pantyhose would make anyone with a nylon fetish drool in seconds.
That’s why I’m super happy that Goddess Resha accepted to be interviewed on my blog, and I’m sure all of you will love to know her a bit more through this interview.
How are you coping with this coronavirus situation? Did it impactyour life a lot? And what about your online work, was it impacted inany way?
It does impact emotionally and financially! So, I did listen to your advice to watch the news less: more porn and less news made me feel better!
What kind of music do you like?
I like Brian McKnight A lot! He is My go-to music when I need to relax.
And how about your favorite movie?
History, war movies, and romantic comedies!
Name 3 people you admire and why
1. Woman in Nylon 2. Woman in Heel 3. Dominant Woman
When you go on cam, how do you decide what you are going to wear at first?
It depends on how I feel. I always feel good and comfortable wearing My sexy Nylons epecially Wolford and Fully Fashioned Stockings!
What is the kind of session that you prefer: the one where you orderthe slave to do things on cam for you, or the one where you seducehim and drive him crazy?
I like to do both! Seduce him first and then make him do what I want.
How long have you been working online, and how did you start?
I think I started camming around 2008. A friend of mine got ME into this.
What are the things you did when you started, and that you thenunderstood was wrong or not for you?
I understand how valuable I’m now more than when I first started. I know from experience than you can cut out little noisy time wasters and “subs wanna be” by setting your price a little higher. And, no matter what, never bargain yourself.
Dominating men online and financial domination has becomekinda the “cool thing” at the moment. Every girl defines herself as aGoddess, a Princess, a Queen. What’s your advice for these newgirls that are coming to the scene? What do you think of them?
1) Be Smart enough not to wallet fish on Twitter and avoid Tweet bait! 2) A real sub will find you, so have your art ready for him when he comes to you. While waiting for him, work on your art. Add nice things to it. It will help you, in the long run, to invest in expensive nylons and decent outfits. 3) Study the fetish you are into. Bring your creativity into it. 4) Findom is not about sitting pretty asking money! Be good at something and work from there. Example: Feet
On the other hand, there are also lots of men that definethemselves as a slave. What’s the worst thing a slave can do whenapproaching, and what’s the proper way to be one of your slavesand live..happily ever after?
1) Always approach with manner, be respectful, and yes pay for MY time. 2) For the first-timer sub: you must be willing to work with ME with your fetish. I’m not a mind reader. 3) It also helps if you give it time for us to build chemistry and a relationship or “relationshit“… I like them both! Because if we understand each other and boundaries are clear, we can have a long-lasting Domme/Sub relationship. 4) If you’re into heavy humiliation, it’s better to act like a total loser in front of ME since our first meeting on video. 5) If not into Humiliation, you must let ME know. Not every fetish involves humiliation of course. I’m very creative once I know what kind of “brain juice” I’m melting on!
So that was it guys, Goddess Resha showed once more how unique she is, even just by answering these few questions. In the remote case you still didn’t bow at her feet, be sure to have a look here below, where all the places you can serve her are listed.
It has been a while since I last interviewed one of the amazing Goddesses I’m lucky to know (and spoil), so I asked the amazing Goddess Ambra to do one. With great happiness and honor on my part, She agreed!
I’ve sent her the questions a few days ago, and when She got back at me with the answers I was totally excited: needless to say, Her answers are absolutely smart and interesting. Be sure to don’t miss any bit of this because there are a few things that I’m pretty sure will come up as a surprise to you.
One of the things that distinguish You from lots of other Financial Domination mistresses, is your very active modeling job. Could you tell me a bit more about it? How long ago did you start? Which companies have you worked with so far? What do you specifically like about being a model?
True indeed, I am an active model and not just in the Fetish/BDSM world but also outside of it. I started working actively in this domain since 2016 when one of my good old friends became a photographer and asked if I could help him with his work and pose for his portfolio. Obviously, it was about casual, outdoor shooting, nothing related to nudity. From his work, I have been remarked by a few makeup artists and by the largest modeling agency in my city. Currently, I have 2 image contracts running with a makeup artist and a clothing boutique and a collaboration with the modeling agency mentioned above which involves professional shootings, catwalks and occasionally event hosting. so this is what I do whilst being offline. In front of the cameras I ”unleash” Myself, I love having all eyes on Me, all the attention and the spotlights empowering My beauty. In the online world, I bring to life all My darkest fantasies wich inspire Me into filming FetishBDSM clips and hosting sessions and with this, I must mention that I am very HAPPY about the fact that I am a fetishist, a kinky Woman and that I have the freedom to explore all My dreams and desires.
Catch your breath guys, I know all this made you jump on your seats (as I did)… You didn’t expect all this, did you? Neither did I! But let’s go back to the interview…
Back to Goddess Ambra as a Woman (with capital “W” obviously), I’m sure most of our readers will be curious to know a bit more of the “unknown” Goddess Ambra… so I’d like to ask a few personal questions.
On what do you spend the most? Shoes, Lingerie, hi-tech, or else?
Well, the benefits of being a Goddess is that I mostly never spend My own money into self-pampering. I have My devotees taking care of this aspect and they are doing a great job. But I must admit that one thing I am obsessed with shopping is pantyhoses :)))) also shoes, designer or not, if I like them, I will own them. And in what I most invest is in My biggest fetish and that is Me, My image, face, hair, body, feet, nails. I am a slightly narcissistic person.
What kind of music do you like?
My favorite type of music which I enjoy listening too in all circumstances is a deep house, electro music. It relaxes and in the same time it ”activates” Me.
Do you like to sing? If so… are you more a shower or a car singer? Or else?
No, this is an aspect on which I have no attraction towards, even though My devotees always say that My smooth, calm voice is like music to their ears. 🙂
I know You are a wonderful and smart woman but… Is there anything you are really bad at?
I am bad at time management, due to the fact that I am that type of ‘fixating’ person, I often find Myself being completely ”caught” into something and focussing too much on tiny details. But this is what helps Me perfection everything around Myself.
Judging from the videos you do as a model, your approach to BDSM surely involves many different kinds of kinky activities. Which one, if any, do you like the most?
Although Domination comes into many forms,strictly BDSM related, I have a very big attraction towards CBT (non stop teasing / denying, slapping, scratching and many others kinks related to torturing the male sexual organ:)….and all the above mentioned combined with a role-playing and spiced up with some Taboo..oh well, I will stop because there are soo many fetishes and kink I enjoy.
Do you prefer to see the slave during an online session?
Yes, I definitely prefer seeing My submissives while being engaged in an online private session. What’s the point on giving tasks if I don’t see the slave following them? In the end, it’s all about pleasing the Superior Lady in front of you, right?
What’s the worst thing a slave can do to you…something you will never forgive him for?
Honesty and loyalty, these are the MUST have ingredients once I have engaged in a Ds relationship. All Ds relationships vary a lot from one subject to another, each submissive needs different approach and behavior. I am not a jealous neither a possessive type of Woman unless the male in the cause is My property. Failing into being totally honest and loyal will automatically bring everything to an end and I don’t like being begged into forgiveness, I prefer being bribed into it, so if you’ve done a mistake you must PAY for it in its true meaning.
Imagine you are offered a trip to outer space, but you must go with a slave and have a session there. What kind of slave would you bring?
This is a very funny question.:))) How did you came up with it?:)))))) Not really certain of the answer as I’ve never imagined such a scenario but I might use a moneyfoot fetish slave to massage and pamper My feet non stop as I comfortably empty his credit cards or amuse Myself at making him count and guess the money bills in his hands while being blindfolded….weird question, weird answers;)
As this blog is about Financial Domination, there is one thing that I care a lot about: Financial Domination becoming too mainstream or, better said, too many people approaching this without really knowing what this is about. Every girl thinks she can be a findomme, every girl thinks she can easily make money with this. What’s your advice for them?
Real Financial Domination comes along with the ability of high-class manipulation skills and sensuality. From My point of view, it is not about ‘send for My coffee’ (though My close devotees cover it without Me mentioning it), it involves a psychological approach and a deep power exchange, the ability to use a submissive’s weaknesses into My advantage, transforming him into a real-life pleasing object for My comfort. Sometimes a male is not even into Financial Domination, but after breaking his limits and seducing him ”correctly”, he will automatically react to all My existing demands, and all this to please the Woman of his fantasies and dreams, his Goddess/Mistress.
Now, before closing this awesome interview, is there anything you’d like to say to those reading it? And also, what’s the best way a slave can get in touch with you?
First of all, to those who don’t know Me and would be interested into exploring unimaginable depths of sensual,refined and strict Domination, I recommend to visit Me on My online profiles (CamContacts, SkyPrivate) for online sessions or approach Me by Email, IWantclips or Twitter, obviously with a tribute before engaging into conversations scheduling real 121 sessions. I am polite and high educated so I expect this in return from My potential new submissives when approaching.
So that’s it guys: I really hope you found this interview interesting as much as I did, as it really revealed a few things about Goddess Ambra I wasn’t aware of…making Her even more attractive and powerful in my eyes.
Thanking once more Goddess Ambra for this opportunity, let me add down here all the ways You can use to be in touch with Her (and spoil Her):
As some of you know, from time to time I like to have a little chat with one of the amazing Goddesses I serve: something like an interview that can maybe let you all know Her a bit better. After my last interview with Mistress Alexya (two years ago!), I had the honor to be allowed by Goddess Ishtar to ask Her some questions.
She is without any doubts one of the greatest Financial Domination (and not only) Goddesses out there, and She recently got lots of exposure on Twitter after her legendary session with a slave: 13.000$ in one night.
I’ve been lucky to serve Her for quite a few years now, and I surely know very well how powerful, smart and beautiful She is. After this interview, my admiration for Her was not only confirmed but most probably increased (by far!). I hope it will be the same for you or, at least, that you will discover something about Her that you didn’t know before.
Before we go about other things, I would like to focus on something you did recently. I’ve noticed you went to the Live Cam Awards in Lisbon and to an event connected to it. Could you tell us more about it? How was it? Why did you decide to go? I had been considering attending such event for a while. I have always wanted to meet other Dommes and webcam models. But this year my friend Shezel was nominated as Best Fetish Model and so I went primarily to support her. But the trip exceeded my expectations – the summit was educational, I received many useful tips, met a number of potential partners and the Live Cam Awards ceremony itself was spectacular (and the food was SO VERY delicious!) One Great Diva organized the event incredibly well, but there is no surprise there, she is good at everything she does.
Now let’s talk about Online Domination: how long have you been doing this? And how did you start? I have been doing it for more than 10 years. A friend of mine told me about it and I didn’t think twice, but plunged right in It has gone well from the day I started. Do you enjoy looking at your slave during a session? Cam2Cam sessions are much more fun than text-only interaction. I like to watch as slaves become weaker, hornier and more anxious to follow my instructions without hesitation. There is something about that dissolution into pathetic lust that turns me on. Also, with Cam2Cam, it is easier to ensure that the slaves are following my instructions. But if a slave really wants to amuse me, they need to put some effort in as well. They need to use their imagination to make conversation with me in a unique and memorable way. Or they can use their bodies to perform for me. Failing either of those methods, compensate me for my boredom and PAY MORE.
What’s the worst thing a slave can do to you? Betray my trust. Fortunately, I have not met many dishonest slaves. I usually have good instincts when it comes to picking the right slaves. The few mistakes I have made is when I have gone against my intuition because a slave begs and pleads.
Online domination, and especially financial domination, are becoming some sort of “the cool thing” at the moment. Every girl thinks she can be a findomme, every girl thinks she can easily make money with this. What’s your thought on this? I have considered this question in depth and done my own analysis of the most successful Dommes. I think that a fundamental aspect of success is having a strong personality. Without a doubt, appearance, a sense of fashion, technical knowledge and skills are all important, but that strong, internal strength of will and personal entitlement is key. As one of my friends says, “true dommes are born, not made – the goddess is there from the start.”
If you don’t mind, I’d like to ask a few personal questions to let us all know you a bit better. What kind of music do you like? I mostly listen to electronic music: dance, house because it energizes me; and I need lots of energy to handle so many slaves. My friends think that I don’t have good taste in music, but to hell with them, it works for me.
Are you a bathroom singer? Or what’s the place you usually sing the most? I am not a bathroom singer. When I bathe I focus on taking care of my perfect body, and I do it thoroughly so as not to miss an inch. I can work on my body for hours and as I do, I forget about everything else. Oh God, I had better stop thinking about it….I was turning myself on.
What are you really bad at, if anything? I am bad at things that I really don’t need. Things that I think would be a waste of time doing or that just don’t give me pleasure. After all, dealing with these things is one of the reasons slaves exist.
Now, name 3 people you admire and why I don’t admire people from afar. I only admire those that I know well, friends that I have known for years. Obviously, I am not going to reveal their names for publication. I admire their personalities. They are successful, smart, professional, creative and most importantly STRAIGHT FORWARD. And I love them for having all these qualities and for supporting me all these years.
And… 3 people, you always disagree with? I disagree with anyone who is close-minded, who refuses to consider a different vision of the World; whose mind is full of stereotypes and brainwashed by ideology. I hate people who repeat words and ideas stolen from others in a pathetic attempt to be interesting. It is so easy to tell when someone is plagiarizing.
Thank you so much for your answers, but before we finish this I think it’s important to help those slaves that still didn’t have the chance (or the courage?) to serve you. What’s the proper way a slave should get in touch with you? And how can he help you in making the session with you his best one ever?
A slave can find me on my videochat, from the link to my profile on your website. He can also send me a message on Twitter and if I deem him worthy, he will be allowed to have an opportunity to serve me. Prospective slaves should remember, however, that to make a session efficient a slave must be completely open and honest. I am not a mind reader, so it is a slave’s responsibility to answer all my questions before we start a session. I need to know EVERYTHING: keywords that trigger a submissive response, fetishes, experience, limits, etc. I understand that some slaves are scared to open up because they know that once I get into their minds they are in big trouble. It is true and my slaves will confirm that once I have captured their souls there is no way back. BUT they will also confirm that their lives are so much better meaningful as a result of serving me.
That’s it guys, now be sure to let me know what you think about this interview and if you discovered something you didn’t know about Goddess Ishtar. And to those out there that still didn’t feel the excitement of a session with her…well you have no excuses now. She told you what to do and what to don’t do in order to have the best session of your life. What are you waiting for? Visit her in cam and feel what I have been lucky enough to feel since ages now…She is AMAZING.
Among those i had the privilege to serve, Mistress Alexya surely is the one that had the most amazing year in 2016, at least from what i can judge following her online. This year only (and it’s not even ended yet!) she won the award as Best Fetish Camgirl (atLiveCamAwards), worked as a model in Italy for an important fetish website (NylonUp.com), got an interview with Marie Claire magazine and started building her own house! All this in only the first half of this year…truly impressive!
That’s one of the reasons why i decided to ask for permission to interview her and, to my total happiness, not only she accepted, but also gave some truly amazing answers. So here how it came out, hope you enjoy it as much as i did ?
First of all, thank you SO much for accepting this: means a lot to me and to all those slaves dreaming about you that, i’m sure, would like to know you better than what they can do online.
I saw you are building your own house: an absolutely great achievement, something many people can’t even dream to do ever in their lifetime. How does it feel? And when do you think you’ll be able to live there?
Yes I bought a land in 2015 an started the building in april 2016, I selected a project with exactly what i need. I’ve built a house with a big living room, kitchen, 3 bathrooms and 3 stunning impressive bedrooms. I hope sharing my plans will be an inspiration to those whom have the money to do the same and build their dream house. The construction is over now and i hope everything will be finished and ready for going to live there by summer next year.
And speaking about projects, are you working on something special at the moment? Something that perhaps you’ve never done before?
For the moment I’m taking a bit of relax, this year 2016 has been an ambitious, daring, tough year both on personal and business level. It has been by far the best one since i started with fetish cams, which is surely both my work and passion. The main thing is that i’m happy, fulfilled and ready for new challenges. My plans are now to keep being professional and work harder in promoting my personal website.
Now, if i may, please allow me to ask a bit of things that could make people know you a bit more, we are all eager to get to know our Goddesses a bit better.
What is your favorite movie?
My favorite movie…i don’t think i have one particularly since i don’t really have time to watch movies. But when i ever do, i love the good comedies that make me laugh a lot. If i want to put my brain a bit more at work while watching TV, then i choose a documentary.
Who is your celebrity crush, if any?
I love Sharon Stone, i love that woman, as well as Julia Roberts. All my boys know that i like women as well. But those two are more than women, are strong artists that are still dominating cinematography after long time. Two women that inspire me.
What are you really bad at?
Sex shows lol!!! I’m really bad, i can’t fake, i don’t feel any pleasure in masturbating on cam, i don’t like fake people, im allergic to all this hahaha! This is why i am dominant and love it because it lets me be myself, no role necessary. Feels so good to do what you love and even being paid for that. I’m also really bad at being an ass kisser, i can’t do that, it’s a torture for me. I always say what i think about people in their face.
You’ve been an online Mistress for quite a while now, but what’s the thing you did when you started, and that you then understood was wrong or not for you?
When i first started let’s say that a good friend of mine said: “you need to smile, be nice, sweet”. To me that sounded a bit weird for the kind of person i am, but as i wanted to see how it feels making money with this and learn my own limits, i decided to try it like that. I started as a test, but in a very short time i realized it was not for me, i didn’t enjoy talking to all guys asking for strip, sex shows etc. I didn’t fit in there so i changed into being a rude bad girl. Then i discovered i love to humiliate men, i felt so happy, so relieved that i had found my own way, and this is how my domination trip started: by searching inside myself and find a strong character unable to submit to men’s desire. I wanted to dominate men, have them at my feet, beg and pay for my attention, keep them dreaming about one impossible thing: to see me as a porn doll. I’m more than a regular woman, I’m special and unique! And i advice all women that want to start as a camgirl…just be yourself!
When you go on cam, how do you decide what you are going to wear at first?
I think the first thing that comes to my mind is not to wear the same thing i did the night before. I have lots, lots of outfits so sometimes it’s hard to decide, but i always dress to feel comfortable. The style i choose mostly depends on my mood…and that often comes with the weather!! Even so, i obviously keep in mind I’m dominant and my slaves expect to see some fetish outfits and not a t-shirt with a pair of jeans or a boring pajama. If they want some regular outfit like this, they obviously need a private session with outfit change. On cam I’m always the supreme woman, not the girl you can often see on street, not the one you meet in a bar or at a party. It has to be “Me, My style”.
What’s the worst thing a slave can do to you?
Lie! If he lies to me, he is fucked up. This is all about chemistry and trust. It’s how it works for me. Break my trust and you are fucked.
Online domination, and especially findom, is becoming some sort of “the cool thing” at the moment. Even a mainstream movie will be done about this (“Ruin Me”, which i wrote about here). So now every girl thinks she can be a findomme, every girl thinks she can easily make money with this. What’s your advice for them?
Hahaha, so true! Lately i see all girls play as findom, even if they have no idea what this really means. But it’s something they all try just because they think it’s easy: you command a slave to pay and he pays, you call yourself a findomme and he believes so. Done. The thing is that even become a true mistress is hard work: years of reading, learning, testing, exploring fetishes, testing your own limits and exploring the fetish world. And when it comes to findom, i think you have to be born to do it and also prove yourself as a spoilt woman in every aspect of your life. You can’t call yourself a findomme while you pay rent to a small flat or being a studio girl and having nothing to wear, to eat or having no money to go out to a fancy party. I know i’m being mean but these girls should wake up! Moneyslaves are not idiots, they don’t pay to any girl. They feel her attitude, they see her lifestyle, her achievements, her slaves talk. Experience is what this is all about, not hours online, not trained by some studio trainer that tells you findom is just draining wallets. Findom is a lifestyle not a role a camgirl can choose to play.
One last question, i think very important for any slave out there that’s dreaming to serve you. What’s the proper way to approach you online? How can a slave help you in making his session as perfect as he dreams that to be?
Best thing a slave can do is read about me, look at my reviews, see my profiles online, my personal website, my videos. That way he can have an idea if he fits or not to my demands: no point in wasting time coming in my chatroom asking my age, location, and other dumb questions. First of all make sure as a slave you can afford to serve me, then make sure you’re really submissive since i don’t switch, i don’t play roles. If you are poor, better stay away as i’ll ignore you as soon as you come in no matter how submissive you are. You must be a rich sub to be allowed to serve me. Even so, i have lots of men in my chatroom, men that are not slaves, but that at least have so many interesting things to say and entertain me. Respectful and normal men… let’s say i’m also a therapist as well as dominant. Findom is my favorite fetish, and i know so many real moneyslaves search for a beautiful strong dominant spoiled women who’s like that naturally and she’s not playing it as a role. I’m all that and i’m always ready to drain new wallets, can’t get enough and don’t think i’ll stop anytime soon. I’m addicted to help them spend it right: on Me.
So guys…you’ve been warned. Mistress Alexya surely is one of the top dommes out there: if you feel you are good enough for Her, go and serve Her…but remember…She is the one to decide if you are good enough.
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