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The surprising interview with Goddess Ambra

The surprising interview with Goddess Ambra

It has been a while since I last interviewed one of the amazing Goddesses I’m lucky to know (and spoil), so I asked the amazing Goddess Ambra to do one. With great happiness and honor on my part, She agreed!

I’ve sent her the questions a few days ago, and when She got back at me with the answers I was totally excited: needless to say, Her answers are absolutely smart and interesting. Be sure to don’t miss any bit of this because there are a few things that I’m pretty sure will come up as a surprise to you.

One of the things that distinguish You from lots of other Financial Domination mistresses, is your very active modeling job. Could you tell me a bit more about it? How long ago did you start? Which companies have you worked with so far? What do you specifically like about being a model?

True indeed, I am an active model and not just in the Fetish/BDSM world but also outside of it. I started working actively in this domain since 2016 when one of my good old friends became a photographer and asked if I could help him with his work and pose for his portfolio. Obviously, it was about casual, outdoor shooting, nothing related to nudity.
From his work, I have been remarked by a few makeup artists and by the largest modeling agency in my city. Currently, I have 2 image contracts running with a makeup artist and a clothing boutique and a collaboration with the modeling agency mentioned above which involves professional shootings, catwalks and occasionally event hosting. so this is what I do whilst being offline.
In front of the cameras I ”unleash” Myself, I love having all eyes on Me, all the attention and the spotlights empowering My beauty. In the online world, I bring to life all My darkest fantasies wich inspire Me into filming FetishBDSM clips and hosting sessions and with this, I must mention that I am very HAPPY about the fact that I am a fetishist, a kinky Woman and that I have the freedom to explore all My dreams and desires.

Catch your breath guys, I know all this made you jump on your seats (as I did)… You didn’t expect all this, did you? Neither did I! But let’s go back to the interview…

Back to Goddess Ambra as a Woman (with capital “W” obviously), I’m sure most of our readers will be curious to know a bit more of the “unknown” Goddess Ambra… so I’d like to ask a few personal questions.

On what do you spend the most? Shoes, Lingerie, hi-tech, or else?

Well, the benefits of being a Goddess is that I mostly never spend My own money into self-pampering. I have My devotees taking care of this aspect and they are doing a great job. But I must admit that one thing I am obsessed with shopping is pantyhoses :)))) also shoes, designer or not, if I like them, I will own them.
And in what I most invest is in My biggest fetish and that is Me, My image, face, hair, body, feet, nails. I am a slightly narcissistic person.

What kind of music do you like?

My favorite type of music which I enjoy listening too in all circumstances is a deep house, electro music. It relaxes and in the same time it ”activates” Me.

Do you like to sing? If so… are you more a shower or a car singer? Or else?

No, this is an aspect on which I have no attraction towards, even though My devotees always say that My smooth, calm voice is like music to their ears. 🙂

I know You are a wonderful and smart woman but… Is there anything you are really bad at?

I am bad at time management, due to the fact that I am that type of ‘fixating’ person, I often find Myself being completely ”caught” into something and focussing too much on tiny details. But this is what helps Me perfection everything around Myself.

Judging from the videos you do as a model, your approach to BDSM surely involves many different kinds of kinky activities. Which one, if any, do you like the most?

Although Domination comes into many forms,strictly BDSM related, I have a very big attraction towards CBT (non stop teasing / denying, slapping, scratching and many others kinks related to torturing the male sexual organ:)….and all the above mentioned combined with a role-playing and spiced up with some Taboo..oh well, I will stop because there are soo many fetishes and kink I enjoy.

Do you prefer to see the slave during an online session?

Yes, I definitely prefer seeing My submissives while being engaged in an online private session.
What’s the point on giving tasks if I don’t see the slave following them? In the end, it’s all about pleasing the Superior Lady in front of you, right?

What’s the worst thing a slave can do to you…something you will never forgive him for?

Honesty and loyalty, these are the MUST have ingredients once I have engaged in a Ds relationship. All Ds relationships vary a lot from one subject to another, each submissive needs different approach and behavior. I am not a jealous neither a possessive type of Woman unless the male in the cause is My property. Failing into being totally honest and loyal will automatically bring everything to an end and I don’t like being begged into forgiveness, I prefer being bribed into it, so if you’ve done a mistake you must PAY for it in its true meaning.

Imagine you are offered a trip to outer space, but you must go with a slave and have a session there. What kind of slave would you bring?

This is a very funny question.:))) How did you came up with it?:))))))
Not really certain of the answer as I’ve never imagined such a scenario but I might use a moneyfoot fetish slave to massage and pamper My feet non stop as I comfortably empty his credit cards or amuse Myself at making him count and guess the money bills in his hands while being blindfolded….weird question, weird answers;)

As this blog is about Financial Domination, there is one thing that I care a lot about: Financial Domination becoming too mainstream or, better said, too many people approaching this without really knowing what this is about.
Every girl thinks she can be a findomme, every girl thinks she can easily make money with this. What’s your advice for them?

Real Financial Domination comes along with the ability of high-class manipulation skills and sensuality. From My point of view, it is not about ‘send for My coffee’ (though My close devotees cover it without Me mentioning it), it involves a psychological approach and a deep power exchange, the ability to use a submissive’s weaknesses into My advantage, transforming him into a real-life pleasing object for My comfort.
Sometimes a male is not even into Financial Domination, but after breaking his limits and seducing him ”correctly”, he will automatically react to all My existing demands, and all this to please the Woman of his fantasies and dreams, his Goddess/Mistress.

Now, before closing this awesome interview, is there anything you’d like to say to those reading it? And also, what’s the best way a slave can get in touch with you?

First of all, to those who don’t know Me and would be interested into exploring unimaginable depths of sensual,refined and strict Domination, I recommend to visit Me on My online profiles (CamContacts, SkyPrivate) for online sessions or approach Me by Email, IWantclips or Twitter, obviously with a tribute before engaging into conversations scheduling real 121 sessions.
I am polite and high educated so I expect this in return from My potential new submissives when approaching.

So that’s it guys: I really hope you found this interview interesting as much as I did, as it really revealed a few things about Goddess Ambra I wasn’t aware of…making Her even more attractive and powerful in my eyes.

Thanking once more Goddess Ambra for this opportunity, let me add down here all the ways You can use to be in touch with Her (and spoil Her):

Online Sessions:
CamContacts
SkyPrivate

Her own ClipStore:
IWantclips

Social:
Twitter

Other sites:
House of Sinn (ClipStore)
Feet4Cash HD (ClipStore)
NylonUp (Pictures and Videos)

What my first real-time session taught me

What my first real-time session taught me

After about one year since my first (and only, so far) real-time financial domination session, I can surely say that my experience that night could be helpful to others who are considering having a real-time session.

It’s not like I can consider myself like an expert in real-time financial domination, or someone who knows everything about it. On the contrary: I only had one experience (this one), and I was lucky it all went amazingly with Goddess Ishtar. Many things could have gone wrong, many things I didn’t expect to happen as they did. I wish I would have been prepared somehow…so I can write down here a few things that could perhaps help others before their first real-time financial domination experience.

You will be nervous

Remember the first day at school? The first date with the girl of your dreams? The first day in a new workplace? The tension, the nervousness, your hands shaking, your breathing getting heavier and more difficult, your sweating increasing. Well, multiply that by a hundred times and you’ll be closer to how you will feel.

You can be the most self-confident man ever, you can try to be prepared to that moment for as long as you want…but when you’ll look at the clock and the time of your session with Her will be approaching… you’ll feel nervous. And it’s not like that feeling will go away easily even after she arrives. You won’t know what to do, what to say, how to move, how to stand or sit down. The moment you’ve been waiting for since a lifetime is right there, finally happening. The Goddess of your dreams is there with you. You can hear her, you can look at her, you can see her as you’ve never been able before. And that, trust me, is a sensation like no other.

So what do you do? Easy…let her guide you. If you selected carefully the Goddess to have this first real-time session with, she will surely be way more self-confident than you. She will most probably be having fun, a casual fun that she had many other times. She won’t be nervous at all, just enjoying that moment as one of the many similar moments she had before. Even if, perhaps, she’s not that used to real-time sessions, for sure she will be way more confident than you. Let her do the talking, let her guide you that night. Do what She asks, and as time goes by you’ll learn that this will help you relax a bit, and finally starting to enjoy the moment as you should.

You won’t be able to escape her

Forget about switching your computer off. Forget about pretending your wife is approaching and you have to go. Forget about all the excuses you created ever since you started having online sessions. It’s just you and Her now. If you run away now, rest assured that she won’t have anything to do with you anymore. You want to stay there with her, You want this moment to never end. There is no escape this time, no escape like never before. This is different from any sessions you ever had as there is literally no escape whatsoever.

It will be expensive

If you’ve read my post about that night (and how I managed to convince Her) you already know how expensive that was for me. I spent that night more or less the same I spent in one year only. And believe me…it will be the same for you. If your Goddess will ever agree to meet you, it will also be because She will get something special in return. We are money slaves remember? Money is what we crave to give Her. And if She gives us the privilege to meet Her…well then we must show Her our appreciation. Trust me, it will be the most expensive experience you ever had.

It will be intense

It took me months to start enjoying online sessions again after that night. No online session can ever be as intense as a real-time financial domination session. Nothing can be compared to being right there, in front of Her. Nothing can be compared to Her whispering in your ear “give me more”. Nothing can be compared to Her having your own smartphone in her hands while taking money from your bank account. Or your own wallet, your own credit card. Nothing can be as intense.

You will want to do that again

This is something I didn’t expect. I really thought that, after such an intense and expensive experience, I would have thought “ok it was just a one-time thing, not gonna happen again”. Well…ever since that day, I have been craving for that to happen again. Of course, I know that it will be almost impossible to do that again (way too expensive)…but the craving for it won’t stop. I did start enjoying online sessions again, and surely I’m back spending and having fun online…but that night. That night with Goddess Ishtar can’t be compared to anything else. The only thing it can maybe be compared with is…another real-time sessions.

I won’t stop thinking about that night, now or never. But these are all the things that came to my mind after one year. And I do hope some of you guys will find them useful, especially if you are considering having your first real-time financial domination session with the Goddess of your dreams (whoever she might be).

Are you considering having your first real-time session? Did you already have one? Feel free to share your thoughts here in the comments.

10 Years of Financial Domination

10 Years of Financial Domination

Today, 1st May of 2019, marks my first 10 years into Financial Domination.

10 years ago today, OneGreatDiva showed me what it means to be a moneyslave. She took out from me what probably has been hidden inside myself for a long, long time.

Had a session with Her for three nights in a row, and in each of them, She made me fall deeper and deeper into Financial Domination. It was a few months later that I decided to open this blog, believing it would help me stop and forget about it: boy I was wrong.

Financial Domination is a part of who I am, a quite big part. I can’t stay without it, as I would feel sad and unsatisfied otherwise. All I can do is try my best to keep it under control so that people I love around me don’t get affected.

And I am doing just about fine at the moment: finding a balance between my financial domination “needs” and my family ones. A balance I always stick to (with a few exceptions).

10 years in numbers

Another “fetish” of mine are statistics and data: I like to keep track of everything, including my Financial Domination experience. As you all know, on this page I keep track of all my spending but… how about some more data?

It has been now 3.652 days since I started in Financial Domination, and in all this time I had 1.557 online sessions, for a total of 34.392 minutes spent with those beautiful Goddesses.

As I’m guessing you all know, I had just one real-life session (this one with Goddess Ishtar of course) and I’m afraid I can’t tell you how much it really lasted…because She is so gorgeous that I totally lost track of time (and money…actually).

How many Goddesses did I serve? Well, it would be improper to say that I’ve really served all those I’ve paid a visit to (many times I visited them only once, and left unsatisfied)…but I can tell you that I visited 444 different Goddesses in these 10 years. And you all know which Goddesses I really served and spoiled for good, as I spoke about them over here.

And yes…there is one number I’ve left out so far. In the end, Financial Domination is (mostly) about spending money, and You all know I’m not shy to admit how much I spend. So I got the total from all my spendings.

In 10 years in Financial Domination, I’ve spent 174.137$

I don’t know if it’s too much or not, and I honestly don’t care. I know I didn’t make any harm to the people I love for this, I know I was a good moneyslave to many Goddesses, and I know I’m working my ass off in order to keep my Financial Domination fetish alive.

It has been 10 years, and I’m quite sure it won’t stop anytime soon. Financial Domination is a part of who I am.

Because I’m a moneyslave.

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The Voyeur Effect

The Voyeur Effect

There is a very common way of getting pleasure: looking at others doing things we like, especially if they do it better than us.

It’s quite simple: if you like soccer, for sure you’ll end up looking at Ronaldo and dreaming to be like him. If you like to sing, you’ll end up dreaming to be one of the biggest stars, and most probably you’ll do that by learning more of what they do, how they perform and so on.

It’s almost like being a Voyeur, it’s like looking into someone else life to get personal pleasure (even if in form of just a dream).

And what about Findom?

It’s exactly the same. We read about what another slave is doing and, especially if he is serving a Goddess we dream of, end up imaging to be him, to do what he did, to experience what he did.

More often than not this leads us to actually do our best to be like him, to emulate him, to feel what he felt: it’s natural, it’s obvious…and it’s exciting.

It happens to me as well, more or less everyday, thanks to Goddess Ishtar stories.

She posts them constantly on her Twitter and inside her cam profile picture Gallery (here). Some of her stories are quite common among Goddesses, as She basically just talks about what some slaves bought or sent her.

But what makes her really special is when she tells in detail how a specific session went. Her ability to write is exceptional (I personally think She should write a book) and, obviously, her sessions always have something incredible to say.

She will post a series of pics with herself and, by the side of each of them, a piece of the story. This makes the whole thing even more exciting because while you read it you can actually look at Her, see how She was dressed, how She teased the slave.

Below there is an example, but if you want to read more I suggest you to visit her Cam profile here…you won’t be disappointed!

OneGreatDiva: One look and you are doomed

OneGreatDiva: One look and you are doomed

It happened again…not that it really surprised me. It never does. OneGreatDiva caught me into her net once again, and once again She took even more than I ever expected.

I had not been able to see Her online since a while, with Her being busy on all those amazing projects she has going on in Her life as a business Woman, but recently I’ve noticed She started to be on cam more often. And the other night I got the final confirmation about it…directly from Her.

“I’m online, come and SPOIL me”

She wrote me…adding a picture of the way She was dressed.

As you can imagine… I basically ran into her chatroom, wanting to see Her, wanting to let Her power abuse me once more. And that’s exactly what happened.

The look in Her face, the one that always told me “yeah, I know you can’t resist me”, her moves, her fantastic body, her feet… all was perfect. All was lined up perfectly for a night to remember. And that’s what happened. She took my soul, my brain, my money. She totally abused my wallet. But…made me happy. Because each time I have the chance to serve Her, I’m the happiest slave around.

When she let me go She added one thing…

“Now go tell everyone I’m back… and I want ALL of them serving me these days”

She was serious… and determined. So when You see Her online these days… You’ve been warned.

I don’t usually cum fast…unless She is around

I don’t usually cum fast…unless She is around

I Don't Usually Cum Fast, unless she is around

I usually prefer to talk about the psychological aspects of Financial Domination, but we all know what this is about in the end. We masturbate over this, we get excited, and we cum.

And if there is something I always knew about myself (ever since I started masturbating, as a teenager), it’s that it takes me a LONG time to cum. Actually, most of the time, when I have sex, I don’t even cum.
Perhaps it’s a problem, perhaps it’s not. But I always enjoyed it, because it lets me enjoy those moments for a longer time. Sometimes I can edge for more than an hour…and believe me, it’s fantastic.

At least this is what I thought till FeetGoddesss decided to show me otherwise.

It all started one time when I told her about this…and she took it as some sort of challenge. That night, she managed to make me cum pretty fast…even if it was already more than half an hour since I was into her video chat. I didn’t really pay too much attention to that, I thought it was anyway normal to cum after a long videochat.

But two nights ago…I really don’t know what happened, I really don’t know how She did it…but it was unbelievable.

I was tired after a long day in office, and I also just had sex with my wife (and came afterward). But I decided to log on just to kill some time, not really expecting anything at all.
Then I saw Her, dressed in the best possible way for someone like me, with a fetish for feet in nylons and pantyhose.

She had a pair of Wolford pantyhose on, her Louboutin’s So Kate, and just a piece of lingerie. Nothing else. She looked exceptional, to say the least.

I wrote her a message, just a simple “hello You look awesome tonight”, as I many time do. Again, not expecting anything.
To my message She just answered in a very direct way:

“Tonight you will cum in 2 minutes, spoil me and start wanking”

I knew it wouldn’t have happened…but She was dressed in that way…that I, of course, sent her money and did what She ordered.
She started teasing me like only Her can do, in a way that must be seen to be believed. I kept wanking. Her teasing kept being hotter and hotter (if that’s even possible!). And I kept wanking. Afer what I thought was a quite long time, I exploded.
But it wasn’t. I looked at the time I’ve sent her my first message. Five minutes have passed. And considering I first spoiled her…

I came in two minutes.

Obviously, I spoiled even more after that, as a way of thanking Her for, once again, showing me Her immense power. Because if this is not a demonstration of power over men, I don’t know what else this can be. Again, let me say this once more: it never happened to me before. Never ever.

You all know already but in case you don’t, click here to visit her in chat and enjoy the best time of your life.

Sadly Back Online After That Night…

Sadly Back Online After That Night…

Almost a month passed since I had the most amazing real-life experience (and the first one actually). Meeting Goddess Ishtar, giving her a foot massage, kissing her toes in nylons while she was taking money from my bank account. A dream come true, to say the least. And as days passed by from that night, I found myself thinking…

How do you come back to the usual “online sessions routine” after you had such an intense experience?

 

I still need to find out how to do that. Of course, I did have a couple of online sessions in the meanwhile, but they always left me a different sensation than before.
After the session ends, I find myself missing something. I am not totally satisfied.

Touching Goddess Ishtar’s feet in nylons can’t be compared to looking at a Goddess foot in a cam. Having her using my smartphone can’t be compared to sending money to a Goddess. Not even TeamViewer has the same feeling. She is not there with me. I am alone, at home, watching a computer screen. And it feels so cold. So damn cold.

And before you ask, no I didn’t have any online session with Goddess Ishtar since that night. I just don’t think I’m ready for that yet… I mean, if it feels cold having a session with a Goddess that I never met in real life…how would it feel to see her just online? Not able to be closer to her, not able to look at her up close…as I did just a month ago? Will I actually ever be able to pull myself together and beg her for an online session again?

I don’t know guys. I’m pretty sure I’ll get over this sooner or later, but when? Online sessions have always been the way I enjoyed Financial Domination, so I’m sure I will get back finding enjoyment in them… but I’m also sure I will always crave for more. I will always crave for something similar of that night. Online sessions will never be as awesome as that night. Never.

 

 

No Way To Spend: And I’m Furious About It!

No Way To Spend: And I’m Furious About It!

It’s another one of those moments of my life. One of those that result in a simple thing: No money to spend whatsoever on Financial Domination.

Of course, I had similar moments in the past: lack of money, guilt feeling, fear of pushing it too far..and similar things. But well, this time is kinda different and it DOES make me feel REALLY mad.

As you probably all know (or you should, if you’ve read how i found my balance), I basically have two jobs (well, almost three actually). That’s the only way I found to be able to enjoy my financial domination fetish and still be able to go on with my normal life, taking care of my family as they deserve.

And this is where the issue I’m facing these days come out. The credit card I use for Financial Domination has been blocked. The reason? Some stupid bureaucracy stuff connected to my recent change of bank account. I’ve spent hours on the phone with those idiots, and they keep saying “we are working on it”…but 3 weeks passed, and NO NEWS. I am still waiting for a new credit card and, basically, all my Financial Domination funds are frozen!

And this time I really HATE this situation even more than before. I mean…when I didn’t have money, I was sad but well… I knew there was no easy solution. Same thing when I stopped because i felt guilty. Sad, but then again…it was my decision.

But this time? NO! Money is there. My NEED to spoil Goddesses is there. I don’t feel guilty AT ALL…and I still can’t spend a single damn cent!

P.S. If you feel this post was kinda useless…I do agree, but I had to throw out my anger somehow.

Goodbye Financial Domination!

Goodbye Financial Domination!

Ok, I admit…title is a bit too drastic, but I do believe I’m going to face a quite long period of forced abstinence from Financial Domination, and the reason is quite simple.

No More Privacy

You see, when you have a special someone in your real life (a lovely wife, in my case), the times when you can actually be alone are always directly connected to her habits. If something changes, you may as well end up in a situation like the one I am now.

She has no work, meaning she’s always home. But that didn’t stop me from going online till now because she usually goes to bed way earlier than me. Late night was my “privacy time”, the moment of the day when I can be on my own and…well… make the usual damage to our family finances.

Unfortunately, this is changing. More often than not, she goes to bed VERY late, making it for me impossible to stay up after that (considering I need to wake up at 7 am for work). Will this be the end for me in Financial Domination? Probably not, as it’s in my nature… but I am quite sure it will put quite a big STOP on my spending.

Am I happy for this? Absolutely not. I’m actually kinda angry about this…but I doubt I can confront her with something like “hey, go to bed so I can wank and give our money to my Goddesses“…right?

The Art Of Chasing Slaves

The Art Of Chasing Slaves

As you all can imagine, I often talk with other slaves about domination in general and about Goddesses. One of the things that always come up is: “damn I wish my Goddess would contact me now, and remind me how powerful She is”. That’s why I thought of writing about this..because hey… I love it as well!

First things first: being chased by your Goddess is TOTALLY different than being chased by a Goddess you’ve never met before.

A Goddess chasing an unknown slave is, basically, just looking for new slaves in the most pathetic way. Hint: this is WRONG and NO real Goddess will EVER do this. No one of the Goddesses I’ve ever served did this, …and certainly, I will never serve someone acting in such a pathetic way.

On the other hand, once a certain kind of “relationship” has been established, being chased at the right moment, in the right way, is exactly what we, slaves, always crave for.

The right way to be chased

Basically, it’s all a game of things like… often but not too often, sending pics but not all the time, in a sexy way but only every now and then, …in a few words? Something like a constant “tease and denial”.
A Goddess constantly showing the slave Her power, without giving him the impression that he actually matters to her. Making him know that he’s not forgotten, but that he might easily end up being like that if he stops doing what he’s supposed to do.
Because let’s face it: if the Goddess makes the slave feel he’s important for Her, he might end up losing interest. He will see her less powerful and start looking for other Goddesses.

There is a very thin line between feeling chased and feeling needed. Crossing that line might ruin the slave loyalty altogether.
Chasing him should also be done at different times of the day. I know this might sound stupid…but think about it. If the Goddess only gets in touch with her slave at a certain time of the day, the slave will start feeling “safe” during the rest of the day…and that should not happen. We need to always feel trapped, during the whole day. Receiving the casual message at work, for example, is always a huge turn on and, at the same time, a very scary thing: perfect chasing technique, basically.
Chasing should start slowly, increasing as the “relationship” goes on, as the intimacy increases…and as the ways to interact increase: first it could just skype, then it could be e-mail, WhatsApp…

Not all slaves deserve this

This is important, and I really can’t say this enough: only slaves that know their place and their role should have the privilege to be chased. Time wasters should never ever be contacted first by the Goddess (for obvious reasons), and even slaves that pay should start to be chased bit by bit as long as they keep spoiling the Goddess.
I really think being chased is a HUGE privilege, and only a few slaves actually deserve it.
That’s why I immediately wrote that only when a certain kind of “relationship” is in place, chasing should start.

Wrapping up

First of all, my words are not rules written in stone: this all just my opinion, and please feel free to write “this is bulls**t” in comments if you feel like it.
But one thing is true: being chased is part of all the most solid and longer Goddess/slave relationships. Because a chased slave is a slave that doesn’t escape, and because a Goddess that knows how to chase, is ALWAYS a truly powerful and dangerous Goddess.

What do you think?