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Financial Domination: hated, loved, studied… and here to stay.

Financial Domination: hated, loved, studied… and here to stay.

Guest post by Sonny

A few years ago we could have said that Financial Domination was the newest trend in the BDSM scene, but today things are radically different. Financial Domination is now a quite popular part of BDSM, even though many professional dommes still don’t consider it to be “proper” BDSM and, actually, insist to say it’s all just a big scam. But did Financial Domination change the BDSM scene? And how? Let’s find out.

A brief history of Financial Domination

What started as a few wealthy men hiring “submissive” women to give them cash gifts is now a multi-billion dollar industry, with thousands of women around the world doing this as a full-time job. As we have seen, the exact moment when Financial Domination started to be a thing is hard to identify. The late 1990s and early 2000s saw an increase in this phenomenon, with websites like My Path to Financial Domination gaining a large following. Around the 2010s, the scene had already changed noticeably. Forums like Fetlife were buzzing with discussions about Financial Domination and the number of women doing this as a profession was increasing. This is when it became clear that the phenomenon was here to stay.

How popular is Financial Domination today?

It’s still hard to say how long Financial Domination will last since it’s a fairly new trend in the BDSM scene. The most significant thing about BDSM is that it thrives on constant change and evolution, with people constantly trying to outdo themselves and come up with something new. But even though Financial Domination is still something new, it’s been around for long enough to change the face of BDSM. It has become a very popular part of the scene, with many submissive men making this their primary source of income. This is a clear sign that Financial Domination is here to stay and that it has become a significant part of the BDSM world. It has even become such a popular choice that some people have even called it the “new normal” of BDSM. It’s interesting to note that this is also the title of a book about Financial Domination and BDSM written by professional dominatrix and sex educator Princess Paris.

Why Financial Domination is so hated in the BDSM scene

As we have seen, BDSM is a pretty wild and controversial scene, with many people condemning it because they don’t understand it. But even so, it’s surprising that the Financial Domination part of BDSM is so hated. Because BDSM, in general, is supposed to be all about consent, communication, and mutual pleasure, abuse and exploitation are not supposed to be part of the scene. Things are especially tough for women dominating men financially, as, unfortunately, the world is full of men with toxic masculinity who are quick to say that being exploited by a woman is not BDSM at all. But why is it that men being exploited and abused by women are the only ones unable to see the beautiful BDSM relationship that is implied in all of this? Why are they the only ones who are unable to appreciate a woman’s desire to dominate them and to make them feel happy and satisfied as part of a consensual game? The answer is simple: toxic masculinity.

How BDSM changed because of Financial Domination

New trends are emerging all the time, and this keeps the scene interesting and exciting. But every now and then there’s a paradigm shift, and we find ourselves in a new world. And this is exactly what happened when Financial Domination became a significant part of BDSM. This wasn’t a mere trend or fad – it changed the very rules and principles of the BDSM scene. The number of women doing this as a profession grew so much that many men who used to get their pleasure by being submissive and serving their female dominants started receiving their pleasure and satisfaction from having their female paypigs give them money. And as we have seen, many people condemned this, claiming it to be a scam. But as all things in life, BDSM is dynamic and highly changeable. Even if there are a few scammers, most people are doing this as a part of their relationship, in which both partners get off on the act of domination and submission. And this is how the BDSM scene changes and evolves: with new trends, new fetishes, and new ways of enjoying sex and intimacy.

The future of Financial Domination

Many people condemn BDSM because they don’t understand it. We’ve already seen that it’s a pretty wild and controversial scene. But even so, it’s surprising that the Financial Domination part of BDSM is so hated. But as we’ve also seen, BDSM is dynamic and ever-changing, with new trends, fetishes, and ways of enjoying sex and intimacy emerging all the time. And as such, it’s unlikely that Financial Domination will ever go away completely. BDSM will always be there, and it will continue to evolve and change the face of society. And as long as two consenting adults are getting their pleasure from it, there is no reason to condemn BDSM and its many manifestations.

About the author
Sonny is a BDSM enthusiast who has been experiencing many different kinds of BDSM practices in his over 20 years of experience. He loves to go deeper into the understanding of fetishes, and from time to time enjoys writing about his passion. After he discovered YourMoneySlave.com, he offered to write some guests posts every now and then

7 Goddess Ishtar photos to make you even more addicted to Her

7 Goddess Ishtar photos to make you even more addicted to Her

It’s no secret that there are some Goddesses out there to whom I am more weak and loyal and, without any doubt, Goddess Ishtar is the one I am most weak for.  

The reasons for that are many, and I could go talking about them for hours but, for the sake of this article, I will only focus on her incredible beauty

I will show you 7 pictures that completely define her breathtaking beauty and power: 7 dangerous pictures, 7 pictures that will make you want to serve Her as soon as you look at them.

If you are ready to face this risk, keep reading.

1 – Flawless body

I have been serving Goddess Ishtar for ages now, and I yet have to find another Goddess with a flawless body like hers. You cannot find an inch of Her body that is not worth serving, worshipping, and going into debt for. 

2 – Hypnotic Face 

I could keep looking at her face for hours, not even noticing that time goes by. Her eyes are magnetic, when she stares at you it’s like you can feel them all over your body, you can feel what it means to be hypnotized. Her lips are naturally perfect, without any artificial job on them. And her long and beautiful hair only makes her face look even more stunning and beautiful.

3 – Superiority and power

I’ve selected this picture because it’s a perfect representation of how you feel each time you find yourself in a session with her. She knows her immense superiority and power and is not afraid of using them for her own pleasure. You will find yourself feeling small, insignificant, weak, and powerless: but don’t worry, it’s what makes every session with Goddess Ishtar a moment to remember forever.

4 – Perfect in pantyhose

Needless to say, what caught me in Her net was also her pure passion for pantyhose and the perfect way she wears them. Her figure was born to enhance the beauty of pantyhose, and her legs and feet are made to be inside the world’s most expensive pantyhose. And every time she moves wearing them, no man stands a chance.

5 – Feet to be worshipped

Her perfectly shaped, arched feet will be in your dreams forever. The way she uses them, either to dangle an expensive pair of Louboutin shoes or to wiggle her toes, will take your breath away. Her feet are a dangerous weapon: one of the many she has at her disposal.

6 – Her ass: only for the brave

She obviously knows the value of our time with Her, and how privileged we all must feel when she allows us to be in her presence. Therefore it won’t happen often that you’ll be lucky enough to have a look at her perfect and beautiful ass. It will happen only if you are brave enough to face the path to this privilege: total obedience and proper draining are the keys. But once it happens, you will never want to live without this privilege. 

7 – Her breasts: a sight of Heaven

First of all, don’t even think for ONE second that Goddess Ishtar is one that will allow anyone to see her breasts. She won’t. For no reason and for no one. But you may be lucky enough that have a few glimpses at them when she is wearing some little more revealing lingerie like in this picture. At that moment, you will know what Heaven must be like. And, at the same time, know that you will never reach that kind of Heaven. 

Do you have what it takes?

So, after reading this post, do you have what it takes to serve Her?
If you think so, here are all the ways you can serve Goddess Ishtar:
🔗 Her OFFICIAL fan page (live cam, videos, private messages and more)
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🔗 Skype

Click here and be Goddess Ishtar's moneyslave
When you need your “fix”

When you need your “fix”

Let’s face it: we, slaves, keep spending money on Goddesses because we need it, we crave it, we want it. Some call this a disease (a word that I hate) or, perhaps better said, an addiction. Maybe we can stay away for a while (usually just a few days), but then we always end up needing a session, needing to send a tribute, needing our “fix”.

According to the Oxford Dictionary, an addiction is “the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance or activity“. That kinda describes well what we are all going through…

And it even better fits when we look for the word addicted: “physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance”. Now, of course, we are not talking about a substance here, but for sure we keep doing this because it brings us pleasure, it gives meaning to our lives, and it makes us feel better.

So that’s why I think that a session (or a tribute) can actually be our “fix” for those moments when we start feeling down, even nostalgic about the last great session we had. We have all been through that: a few days passed since that fantastic session we had, and we start feeling in a bad mood, with a bit of sadness too. It’s like the world doesn’t smile at us anymore, it’s like nothing can make us feel better. That’s precisely when we need that medicine, the “fix” that can make us feel good and happy again with our lives. And a session with the right Goddess can greatly serve this purpose: She knows what we need, She knows what will make us feel better.

So there we are, in the end, we have one reason more to thank and appreciate what our Goddesses do: they really offer a social service in a way, for guys with this magnificent, unique, overwhelming illness that’s called Financial Domination.

Do you need your fix right now? Head over to the who’s live page, I can guarantee that ANY of the Goddesses listed there will take good care of your needs 😉

The PayPig Chronicles – Episode 2: “Back after 8 years”

The PayPig Chronicles – Episode 2: “Back after 8 years”

Introduction

I started this series of posts talking about a session I didn’t enjoy much, this time it will be different. It will be about a session that brought me back in time, making me remember how gorgeous She was, and making appreciate once more the beautiful Woman she is. [click here to read the other episodes]

Episode 2 – Back after 8 years

One of the consequences of these online-only relationships we have with Goddesses is that, of course, they can end from one day to another, without any form of warning. Since we usually know only the “online version” of our Goddesses, ignoring everything connected to their private life, as soon as they decide to stop pursuing this career, they disappear from our lives. Forever. Sad perhaps, but that’s how it is. And there is nothing wrong with it.

That is exactly what I thought happened to one particular Goddess, a gorgeous, elegant, blonde with a quite evident passion for nylons and pantyhose. I used to visit Her quite often for a few years, mesmerized by her elegance, her dangling of those heels, her sweet but evil smile, her small but erotic moves. I always ended up having a great time with Her, dropping my jaw more or less every time I saw her. 

She was a rare gem: always dressed in an elegant way, more or less each time dressed in a different way, always in nylons. Perhaps the three most exciting things a Goddess can have in my opinion.

Then, from one day to another, she disappeared. She didn’t log anymore into her account, leaving me with no option other than moving on.

But a few weeks ago, the unexpected happened.

I was browsing the online models, as I often do, looking for a “fix” when…I saw she was online. It has been 8 years since the last time I had a session with her: I couldn’t believe my eyes.

I looked at her photos and recognized her in a matter of seconds. Sure she looked a bit different (we all change in 8 years!), but her beauty, her style, and her elegance, were all still there. Exactly as I remembered.

Little problem: I now had a different nickname on that site. What to do? I wouldn’t dare to be as bold as pretend she remembers me: in the end, I’m pretty sure I was just one of the many slaves she had…and so many years passed by…

So I decided to get in, don’t say who I was, and pretend it was my first session with Her. 

The session was amazing. Her beauty and elegance got me in trouble in a matter of minutes, her attitude was as I remember. She was calm, relaxed, even nice at times…but with a quite specific goal in mind: make me submit to Her. Which of course happened. It was a great session, and that night I went to bed quite happy: she was back.

And if that wasn’t enough, an even bigger surprise was coming…

A few days later, I went back to her hoping for a session. I entered her free chat, and asked if she was available. I didn’t get an answer so, after a few minutes, I left. Probably she was busy or something, it happens. 

A few minutes passed, and I got a message on Whatsapp:

Hi, do you still have this number? You messaged me a few minutes ago

Boy, I was shocked (in a very positive way)! Not only did she remember who I was, but she also recognized me even under a different nickname! A big smile came up to my face, while I told her how incredible all this was.

She told me she recognized my style during our first session but pretended she didn’t. So we basically played the same “game” during that session…how amazing that is!? She also added that, from time to time, she kept reading my blog during all this time.

Of course, I didn’t ask her why she wasn’t online for so long (and never will ask): that’s none of my business. That night we of course had another session, and more in the next days and weeks… She is back, and I couldn’t be happier.

So, who is this Goddess?

I promised myself to don’t say names or put links in this series of articles, but since I am speaking nothing else but positively of Her, I guess it won’t harm to tell you who is she: click here and see her online. As usual, be careful..you know the danger…

Financial Domination music: 14 songs that speak to your soul

Financial Domination music: 14 songs that speak to your soul

How many times were you listening to a song and noticed the words could easily be applied to Financial Domination? The words in that song seem to be written with your situation in mind, your feelings, your emotions… or perhaps they end up describing the way your Goddess behaves or how you feel about Her.

I am also well aware of the other side of the coin: I’m pretty sure, as a Goddess, there are certain songs that seem to be describing your lifestyle, with its ups and downs or the power you feel while dominating one of your slaves, or even just some specific trouble you have with them.

So that’s why I started asking around Goddesses and slaves about these songs, collected them, and created the “Financial Domination Playlist“, a playlist with all the songs that somehow talk (or well, could talk) about the Financial Domination world, from various aspects.

Follow the playlist

I am planning to keep adding songs to this playlist, therefore I suggest you follow it on either Spotify or YouTube, links below:

The Songs

Ed Sheran – “Bad Habits

Every time you come around, you know I can't say no
Every time the sun goes down, I let you take control
I can feel the paradise before my world implodes
And tonight had something wonderful

IAMX – “Insomnia”

You awoke into my night
You could see the madness in my eyes
I've lost control, please save me from myself
I've lost control, please save me from myself

Slash – “Beautiful Dangerous” (feat. Fergie)

Now we're on this planet
I'm in love with all your dangers, dangers
We can live forever
I can be your pagan angel, angel
Beautiful dangerous

Wham! – “Everything She Wants

Somebody tell me, oh
Won't you tell me?
Why I work so hard for you
Give you money
Work to give you money 

Sasha Lopez – “Smoke Me” (feat. Misha Miller)

moke me inside you
Like I'm your sweetest drug and
Try to escape, but never could
Smoke me inside you
Like I'm your sweetest drug and
Try to escape, but never had enough

REYKO – “Set You Free”

Close your eyes and let it go
When the hesitation's gone
No counting anymore
....
There's no need to be afraid
Maybe you are wondering how?
But soon you'll figure it out

Rihanna – “Bitch Better Have My Money”

Bitch better have my money
Y'all should know me well enough
Bitch better have my money
Pay me what you owe me

Linkin Park – “Faint”

I am, a little bit insecure, a little unconfident
'Cause you don't understand I do what I can
But sometimes I don't make sense
I am, what you never want to say
But I've never had a doubt
It's like no matter what I do, I can't convince you

Cardi B – “Money”

Look, my bitches all bad, my niggas all real
I ride on his dick, in some big tall heels
Big fat checks, big large bills
Front, I'll flip like ten cartwheels
Cold ass bitch, I give broads chills
Ten different looks and my looks all kill
I kiss him in the mouth, I feel all grills

The Black Eyed Peas – “My Humps”

I drive these brothers crazy
I do it on the daily
They treat me really nicely
They buy me all these iceys
Dolce & Gabbana
Fendi and that Donna
Karan they be sharin'

Lisa – “Money”

Dollar bills, dollar bills
Watch it falling for me, I love the way that feels
Dollar bills, dollar bills
Keep on falling for me, I love the way it feels

Iggy Azalea – “Fancy” (ft. Charli XCX)

Said I get my money on time, if they not money, decline
I just can't worry 'bout no haters, gotta stay on my grind
Now tell me, who that, who that?
That do that, do that?

Rilès – “Pesetas”

I'm making pesetas while they're talking, talking shit
Nah, I don't give a fuck
Don't waste my time for this
I'm making my dollars, dollars while they're tweeting tweets

Iggy Azalea – “Kream” (ft. Tyga)

First you get the money
Then you get the power
Respect

Cardi B – “Everything”

I don't do nothing for free you know I got to charge
When I'm done, they be like you better
You better, you better, you better
When that check come I be like
You better, you better, you better
(Song not available on the Spotify playlist)

So…that’s it. What do you think about these songs? Do they “fit”? And please, if you know some more either left a comment on this post or fill in the form below, I will gladly add yours to this playlist. Let’s make it bigger!

Add yours!