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7 reasons why there is a new site I am spending lots of money on

7 reasons why there is a new site I am spending lots of money on

I have been a moneyslave (or a paypig? No idea what’s the best way to call us these days) since 2009, and one of the things that come with it is the frequent need to adapt to changes.

Many things have changed in 12 years, especially on the internet: to give you an example, 12 years ago Facebook had 300 million users, now they are nearly 3 billion. Our lives changed, our habits changed…and online Financial Domination changed as well.

Changing my mind about cam sites

I wrote an article a while ago where I’ve listed the reasons why I thought a specific cam site was the best out there for a slave: at that time I was 100% convinced of it. 

Well, I have changed my mind this year. And I didn’t just change the cam site I spend my money on, I actually didn’t spend most of my money on a cam site!

The thing is that, as I said above, time changes, everything evolves, people want different things…and slaves too, since we are people, right? 

If you follow me enough, you know how much I love cam sessions, and I still believe a cam session is the maximum expression of online Financial Domination: nothing can be better than the feeling of losing control while the Goddess uses all your weaknesses right in front of you, giving orders you can immediately follow. But why should our Financial Domination experience be limited to just the duration of a cam session?

A site that makes the whole Financial Domination experience possible

I want to be able to send a message to the Goddess whenever I am thinking of Her, at the same time being sure that I am not wasting her time doing so. I want to tribute Her anytime I feel the need to. I want to be more in touch with Her and, if She wants, perhaps spend money to see some special content from Her. A cam site simply isn’t enough anymore. 

That’s why I decided to write here what made me change my mind, what made me spend the most on this one instead of on cam sites this year: here are the 7 reasons why that happened.

1. You never waste your Goddess time

This, to me, is the most important one. I have the highest respect for the Goddesses’ time, and the least I want to do is waste even one second of it. If She gives me a tiny bit of attention, she deserves to be compensated if she wants to. That’s the beauty of this site. She can decide to get paid for text messages or set them free. She can post content to be unlocked with a fee or not. She has complete control of what she wants us to pay or not pay, and this makes me feel sure that I will never be wasting her time

2. It is not mandatory to subscribe to the Goddess page

I hate sites like OnlyFans on which, basically, you need to pay a subscription to every model you want to interact with. I want to be able to have a cam session with a Goddess without having to subscribe to a page first, I want the freedom of sending messages or tributes to anyone. And besides, as you know, I am not the loyal type so… it may happen that, sometimes, I just want to have a cam session with a Goddess I’ve never visited before. Being forced to follow her page in order to do so, makes the whole thing less appealing.

3. It helps you find new Goddesses

This is another “plus” to other sites similar to this one. You can easily browse through models present on the site and it gets super easy to look around and get intrigued by Goddesses you didn’t know before. They display models in various ways, including the classic “who is available for cam” one, which makes it super easy to find a Goddess to have a cam session with. 

4. You can easily call your Goddess

This is not just one of the many fan sites out there, which are basically just a way to buy pictures or videos from your Goddess. She can even have a page only to offer cam sessions if she wants to, and calling her is just the click of a button. The quality of the call? No need to worry about it, I have never had a single issue with it. It works flawlessly each and every time. I would actually be interested to hear other people’s feedback on this, just to see if I have just been lucky or…it just works.

5. You get the full experience

As I said above, our Financial Domination experience doesn’t have to be limited to the duration of a cam session: and this is exactly what happens here. Anytime you want to be in touch with your Goddess, you simply open the site and, even if she is not online, you can browse through the content she posted, send tributes, send a text message. More than once I’ve sent a text message to a Goddess that was offline on the site, and she answered right away, while she was either shopping or doing whatever other thing in her life. It’s more or less like having her WhatsApp contact: anytime you want to send a message you can, and most of the time you’ll get an answer at times where she usually isn’t available. This makes my Financial Domination experience way longer than a cam session…it can basically last the whole day if I need it to.

6. It’s super easy to use

This might be a minor thing at first since we more or less adapt to anything, but when using a site feels fast and easy, you end up using it more and more. And that’s what happened to me. Everything comes easy and fast, and the whole look of it is nice (in my opinion at least).

7. Lots of payment options

We get back to the thing I was talking about at the beginning of this article: if 12 years ago it would have been ok to only have Visa or Mastercard as payment options, that’s not the case anymore these days. We need to be able to use credit cards, Paysafe cards, PayPal, direct banking, and so on… and this site offers all these options (some with a bit of a cost though). 

So, is this site perfect?

Not at all, and I don’t pretend to have every one of you get so enthusiastic about it as I did. But this is how I am, I tend to get over-excited about products and sites when I think they bring something new and smart to the table, I guess it’s related to the fact that I’m a technology enthusiast, I don’t know. 

This site has of course many rooms for improvement, one for sure being the lack of ability to search models based on interests, and I’m sure you can easily find other reasons for this site not to be perfect. But the whole meaning of this post was that, for me, the time for a cam-session-only Financial Domination experience is over: it’s time to evolve, it’s time to add something more to it, it’s time for feeling closer to the Goddesses I spoil. 

Goddesses you can already find there

If I said I’m spending the most on this site, it obviously means that many Goddesses already have an account there. To save you some time, I’m listing them all here.

Needless to say…visit them at your own risk. As you well know, they are the best of the best…

Mistress Alexya in pantyhose: simply too much to handle!

Mistress Alexya in pantyhose: simply too much to handle!

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If there is one thing about me that i’m a bit proud of, is the fact that i am not on for quick sessions. I’m not one of those guys that enters into a chatroom already wanking and ready to cum. I like to take things slowly.

Or so i thought

The other night Mistress Alexya made me completely look like one of those guys. I went into Her chatroom and saw She was dressed in a superb way. A sexy top, a pair of magnificent tan pantyhose and high heels. Nothing else.

My breath was already starting to be heavy

It happened quickly, without too much control on my part. She started talking to me and, slowly, took a bit of a heel off. I kept spending. Then she got up, turned around…and did what made me immediately explode.

She removed her foot completely from the shoe, showed it on cam and then teased a bit with her fantastic and perfect ass in pantyhose.

She was simply too much to handle: i exploded like an idiot and left. I wasn’t ready for Her…and i better come back to Her only when i will be, or risk looking again like an idiot.

Interview with Mistress Alexya: a closer look into Her world

Interview with Mistress Alexya: a closer look into Her world

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Among those i had the privilege to serve, Mistress Alexya surely is the one that had the most amazing year in 2016, at least from what i can judge following her online. This year only (and it’s not even ended yet!) she won the award as Best Fetish Camgirl (atLiveCamAwards), worked as a model in Italy for an important fetish website (NylonUp.com), got an interview with Marie Claire magazine and started building her own house! All this in only the first half of this year…truly impressive!
That’s one of the reasons why i decided to ask for permission to interview her and, to my total happiness, not only she accepted, but also gave some truly amazing answers. So here how it came out, hope you enjoy it as much as i did ?
mistress-alexya-elegantFirst of all, thank you SO much for accepting this: means a lot to me and to all those slaves dreaming about you that, i’m sure, would like to know you better than what they can do online.
I saw you are building your own house: an absolutely great achievement, something many people can’t even dream to do ever in their lifetime. How does it feel? And when do you think you’ll be able to live there?

Yes I bought a land in 2015 an started the building in april 2016, I selected a project with exactly what i need. I’ve built a house with a big living room, kitchen, 3 bathrooms and 3 stunning impressive bedrooms. I hope sharing my plans will be an inspiration to those whom have the money to do the same and build their dream house. The construction is over now and i hope everything will be finished and ready for going to live there by summer next year.

And speaking about projects, are you working on something special at the moment? Something that perhaps you’ve never done before?

For the moment I’m taking a bit of relax, this year 2016 has been an ambitious, daring, tough year both on personal and business level. It has been by far the best one since i started with fetish cams, which is surely both my work and passion. The main thing is that i’m happy, fulfilled and ready for new challenges. My plans are now to keep being professional and work harder in promoting my personal website.

Now, if i may, please allow me to ask a bit of things that could make people know you a bit more, we are all eager to get to know our Goddesses a bit better.
What is your favorite movie?

My favorite movie…i don’t think i have one particularly since i don’t really have time to watch movies. But when i ever do, i love the good comedies that make me laugh a lot. If i want to put my brain a bit more at work while watching TV, then i choose a documentary.

Who is your celebrity crush, if any?

I love Sharon Stone, i love that woman, as well as Julia Roberts. All my boys know that i like women as well. But those two are more than women, are strong artists that are still dominating cinematography after long time. Two women that inspire me.

What are you really bad at?

Sex shows lol!!! I’m really bad, i can’t fake, i don’t feel any pleasure in masturbating on cam, i don’t like fake people, im allergic to all this hahaha! This is why i am dominant and love it because it lets me be myself, no role necessary. Feels so good to do what you love and even being paid for that.
I’m also really bad at being an ass kisser, i can’t do that, it’s a torture for me. I always say what i think about people in their face.

You’ve been an online Mistress for quite a while now, but what’s the thing you did when you started, and that you then understood was wrong or not for you?

When i first started let’s say that a good friend of mine said: “you need to smile, be nice, sweet”. To me that sounded a bit weird for the kind of person i am, but as i wanted to see how it feels making money with this and learn my own limits, i decided to try it like that.
I started as a test, but in a very short time i realized it was not for me, i didn’t enjoy talking to all guys asking for strip, sex shows etc. I didn’t fit in there so i changed into being a rude bad girl. Then i discovered i love to humiliate men, i felt so happy, so relieved that i had found my own way, and this is how my domination trip started: by  searching inside myself and find a strong character unable to submit to men’s desire.
I wanted to dominate men, have them at my feet, beg and pay for my attention, keep them dreaming about one impossible thing: to see me as a porn doll. I’m more than a regular woman, I’m special and unique! And i advice all women that want to start as a camgirl…just be yourself

When you go on cam, how do you decide what you are going to wear at first?

I think the first thing that comes to my mind is not to wear the same thing i did the night before. I have lots, lots of outfits so sometimes it’s hard to decide, but i always dress to feel comfortable. The style i choose mostly depends on my mood…and that often comes with the weather!!
Even so, i obviously keep in mind I’m dominant and my slaves expect to see some fetish outfits and not a t-shirt with a pair of jeans or a boring pajama. If they want some regular outfit like this, they obviously need a private session with outfit change. On cam I’m always the supreme woman, not the girl you can often see on street, not the one you meet in a bar or at a party. It has to be “Me, My style”.

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Moneyslaves are not idiots, they don’t pay to any girl. They feel her attitude, they see her lifestyle, her achievements, her slaves talk.

What’s the worst thing a slave can do to you?

Lie! If he lies to me, he is fucked up. This is all about chemistry and trust. It’s how it works for me. Break my trust and you are fucked.

Online domination, and especially findom, is becoming some sort of “the cool thing” at the moment. Even a mainstream movie will be done about this (“Ruin Me”, which i wrote about here). So now every girl thinks she can be a findomme, every girl thinks she can easily make money with this. What’s your advice for them?

Hahaha, so true! Lately i see all girls play as findom, even if they have no idea what this really means. But it’s something they all try just because they think it’s easy: you command a slave to pay and he pays, you call yourself a findomme and he believes so. Done.
The thing is that even become a true mistress is hard work: years of reading, learning, testing, exploring fetishes, testing your own limits and exploring the fetish world.
And when it comes to findom, i think you have to be born to do it and also prove yourself as a spoilt woman in every aspect of your life.
You can’t call yourself a findomme while you pay rent to a small flat or being a studio girl and having nothing to wear, to eat or having no money to go out to a fancy party.
I know i’m being mean but these girls should wake up!
Moneyslaves are not idiots, they don’t pay to any girl. They feel her attitude, they see her lifestyle, her achievements, her slaves talk. Experience is what this is all about, not hours online, not trained by some studio trainer that tells you findom is just draining wallets. Findom is a lifestyle not a role a camgirl can choose to play.

One last question, i think very important for any slave out there that’s dreaming to serve you. What’s the proper way to approach you online? How can a slave help you in making his session as perfect as he dreams that to be?

Best thing a slave can do is read about me, look at my reviews, see my profiles online, my personal website, my videos. That way he can have an idea if he fits or not to my demands: no point in wasting time coming in my chatroom asking my age, location, and other dumb questions.
First of all make sure as a slave you can afford to serve me, then make sure you’re really submissive since i don’t switch, i don’t play roles. If you are poor, better stay away as i’ll ignore you as soon as you come in no matter how submissive you are. You must be a rich sub to be allowed to serve me.
Even so, i have lots of men in my chatroom, men that are not slaves, but that at least have so many interesting things to say and entertain me. Respectful and normal men… let’s say i’m also a therapist as well as dominant.
Findom is my favorite fetish, and i know so many real moneyslaves search for a beautiful strong dominant spoiled women who’s like that naturally and she’s not playing it as a role.
I’m all that and i’m always ready to drain new wallets, can’t get enough and don’t think i’ll stop anytime soon. I’m addicted to help them spend it right: on Me.

So guys…you’ve been warned. Mistress Alexya surely is one of the top dommes out there: if you feel you are good enough for Her, go and serve Her…but remember…She is the one to decide if you are good enough.

Creating the perfect Goddess

Creating the perfect Goddess

There was a movie when I was a kid that always fascinated me (probably because I’m a nerd, and everything about computers gets me going).
It was called Weird Science and, basically, it was about two guys creating the woman of their dreams (Kelly LeBrock, nice choice by the way) with a computer.
Let’s say it was kinda a modern version of  Frankenstein…and boy I loved it!

Now…what if I could create the Goddess of my dreams? What ingredients would I put, if I could take something from each Goddess I had the privilege to serve? Let’s play…and I hope none of these Goddesses will get offended by my words..it’s just a game and believe me…I consider all of You amazing and powerful ?
Let’s go from head to toes, shall we?

Hair
I’ve never seen anyone with hair as long and beautiful as Goddess Ishtar. I don’t have a “thing” for long hair, but hers always fascinated me totally.

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Brain
All of the Goddesses I’ve ever served are smart, don’t get me wrong here…but if I could choose one, then I would surely choose OneGreatDiva. Her achievements in life speak for this, and my experience with her evil side completes the picture. Smart and evil at its best. Oh, and did I mention she can also be fun when she wants? Amazing.

Eyes
Goddess Kmy has a wonderful face, almost like a doll. She doesn’t show her face to everyone, but if you will be loyal and worthy enough you will be rewarded by the privilege to admire her incredible, beautiful, fantastic blue eyes.

Lips
In my opinion, it’s rare to find a woman with bad looking lips (i have a colleague that has almost nonexistent lips: that’s what I call ugly…but it’s rare!)…and it’s also very rare to look at Goddess’s lips and being unable to move away. And if She uses them at her own advantage…you are doomed.
So who has the best and most powerful lips ever? OneGreatDiva. No doubts about it…see them to believe it.

Voice
First of all: I didn’t have the luck to listen to every one of the Goddesses I’ve served. But among those I’ve had a chance to listen, I think OneGreatDiva is the one that, when she speaks, always puts you in your place (at her feet, basically). Beautiful and perfect English, clear and sexy voice.

Boobs
Well… Jessy Princess Bernini surely has been the one impressing me the most on this matter. Beautiful and big…huge I would say. In a word: amazing.

Ass
Many of the Goddesses I’ve served have a fantastic ass, but if I could choose the very best one I would go for Mistress Alexya. She has an incredibly perfect body, and her ass just reaches perfection.

Legs
Long, perfect, slender legs. Goddess Lana‘s fantastic legs are meant to make anyone weak as soon as she crosses them. That matches her love for short dresses and pantyhose…a killer combination for me.

Feet
I’ve always said it and I will never stop doing so: MsClassy has the most beautiful arched feet I’ve ever seen in my whole life. And believe me, being a foot fetishist I’ve seen a lot of them (virtually). Ever since I saw her the first time I was shocked by the arch of her feet, and today I still am each time I see Her.

Elegance
This kinda hurts me a bit, because she’s not a domme anymore. Goddess Adriana always had a different outfit, and each time it was elegant, sexy, and with awesome pantyhose or stockings. The way she moved was just awesome, like a cat I would say. Each step she took was meant to be admired and worshipped. Her shoes drove me crazy each time I saw a new pair. It was like a dream coming true finding a Goddess with a style identical to what I consider the perfect style any woman should have. And it hurts to think I won’t be able to worship her anymore.

Wow….now that I’ve finished…i’m starting to imagine this creature…and i guess She could easily rule the whole world…don’t you think?

Why camgirls are so hated in the BDSM community

Why camgirls are so hated in the BDSM community

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Recently i had quite a few discussions about this, and i still can’t understand all this hate. Some people in the BDSM world (both slaves AND Goddesses) simply… hate camgirls being findoms. They call them cheapfakes, prostitutes…and many many bad words more. They say a Findom Goddess should NEVER ever use her body to attract a slave, that She can’t be called a Goddess because it’s just a job for her, that she’s there in front of everyone doing everything slaves ask her to do.

To me, this is just total IGNORANCE of what a Findom Goddess in cam really does and, moreover, a way to cover the fact that they don’t do cams because they simply can’t….they need photoshop to look good.

As you all know, i’ve always served in cam…and there is just one simple reason: beauty makes me weak…and a webcam doesn’t lie (till a certain extent). You can’t post fake pictures, you can’t edit your image with Photoshop. It’s You, Your beauty, Your attitude…in front of me, in real time.

And that’s why i don’t think this is for everyone: the web is full of “cam findomme wannabe”, girls that i can probably visit once, maybe twice…then just stop forever even considering visiting them…because they don’t have “that something”.

And that’s probably why many “non cam Goddesses” hate Goddesses like OneGreatDivaAlexya, Ishtar or  MsClassy (to name a few that built their EMPIRE through cams): they know it’s impossible for them to be as gorgeous, as irresistible, as naturally dominant…so they prefer to hate them and say nasty things about them.

What do you think?