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Sex is overrated.

Sex is overrated.

Did the title catch your attention? I hope so, because I will try to explain better what I mean, and I do hope to have your full attention. Not sure if many slaves will agree on me about this, but I’m kinda curious about it.

What does excite me?

That’s where this all idea started. I started questioning myself what is that gets me going, what excites me, what…well…what makes me hard the most.

And you will probably say “Come on, it’s findom. We know that”. Wrong. It’s not JUST findom, it’s findom done in a certain way, it’s something more than findom or, to be precise, something BEFORE findom.

The teasing.

A woman, self-confident, perfectly aware of the effect She has on men, perfectly aware of what makes me weak, that slowly starts doing things that get me going. 

A shoe slowly coming off the foot, then dangling from the tip of her toe. Her legs flexing back and forth, to expose all their length and beauty. The noise of nylons rubbing together. That knowing smile on her face, while she looks right into my eyes. Her tongue slowly going all over her lips. Her sexy walk on those high heels, with her body perfectly balanced on them. The tone of her voice: calm, relaxed and yet tremendously sexy. 

All these things lead me to be so excited, so hypnotized by her, so eager to see her doing more of that stuff….that I end up losing control, and at that point sending more money only excites me even more. That’s the moment when Findom comes in place.

What about sex?

Everyone says how great sex is, how they couldn’t live without it. Apparently, no one can be happy without sex, no couple can survive if sex isn’t amazing and perfect. There is no way one can be fulfilled without sex…but is that really true? Do we really all think like this? 

To me, sex is like going to the gym. Lots of physical activity, lots of sweating, you feel tired afterward and…while you are at it, do you actually enjoy it? Sorry but I don’t. I don’t need my penis inside a vagina to feel pleasure, I don’t need to do all those exercises to be satisfied. Hell, sometimes I don’t even need to cum to be totally happy!

Is this selfish? Yes, it is. I know that a woman probably needs sex more than I do to be satisfied. And I do have sex with my wife…but that doesn’t mean I find it more exciting than being teased. Is this weird? Probably, but who cares? I’ve been called a weirdo for many other things!

Am I the only one?

I’ve been asking myself quite a lot and, frankly, this is also one of the reasons why I wrote this post. The fact that I would rather be teased than have sex, doesn’t feel totally right. I have complete respect for Women (obviously, being a slave) so their pleasure should always come first, but instead I’m being way too much selfish in feeling like this. 

But then again…is this something I can control? Can you teach someone to like chocolate if he does not? 

So yes, the main question here is… am I the only one who would rather be teased till he cums, instead of actually have sex? Can you help me understand this, guys?

Goddess Adriana is back… and I couldn’t be happier

Goddess Adriana is back… and I couldn’t be happier

Sometimes life is really amazing: the least expected thing can happen, like someone you thought you’ve lost forever showing up again, even after years.

If you follow this blog for a while (thank you for that!) you know that there are some Goddesses that actually “gave” me something really unique, something I experienced with them for the first time or only with them. To make a couple of examples, OneGreatDiva is the one that made me a moneyslave, Goddess Ishtar the one I had the most intense experience ever with. And then…. there is one which made me experience for the first time many things, one I could never forget, one I thought left the findom scene for good… Goddess Adriana.

I had a couple of sessions with Her in 2013, but it was 2014 the year I totally got obsessed with Her. It’s tough to describe why, as there isn’t just a single reason why she hit me so hard, but Her elegance, beauty, style, brain surely had a huge impact on that.
During that year only, she made me experience things I didn’t even think I would have liked so much: She was the first taking control of my computer with TeamViewer, the first making me spend more than 2.000$ in a single session, the first making me feel truly owned and loyal to Her…just to name a few.

Then, around the end of 2014, She basically disappeared, stopped being on cam. At first, I thought maybe it was a long vacation, but days passed by, then weeks, then months…till I got the feeling She left for good. Nothing wrong with that of course, I’m well aware that any of the Goddesses I serve and enjoy could decide to stop being on cam and explore something else in real life, leaving me totally out of it with no explanation or goodbye. It’s normal, I’m just one of the many slaves…why would they need to tell me anything?
I don’t know why she stopped but She made it in a way that let me get used to it in my own time. It’s not like she told me all of sudden “this is the end of my Findom experience” (that would have made me desperate, I’m sure), instead I had to learn it in time, always hoping to see her again…till, after a couple of years passed, I lost hope completely.

Boy, I was wrong.

It was my last day of freedom this summer (remember? I was all alone at home) and I was surfing the Findom web, not even looking for a session. And that’s when I saw Her. She was online, here on her old profile, the same I’ve been visiting many many times before.
I couldn’t believe my eyes: was it really Her? Was she really back for good? Still in findom or, perhaps, selected something else?

I entered into her free chat and was more than pleased to see that She actually remembered me! It was like no time has passed, everything was exactly as before between me and Her. The same feelings, the same desire, the same needs in myself.

A not too long time passed before I entered Her video. And, again, everything was exactly as before. She is as beautiful as before (if not more), Her elegance remained intact, her smart brain, her sensual moves…everything was as if 4 years didn’t pass at all.

The draining of my wallet was pretty hard that night, and more sessions happened afterward. Why did I wait so long before writing about it? Well because I couldn’t believe She was really back, I was scared to see her disappearing once again…but now, after a couple of months, I’m pretty sure She’s here to stay. And I couldn’t be more happy about it.

Goddess Adriana is probably the most elegant Goddess you’ll ever have the luck to serve. Smart, sensual, greedy…once you enter into Her net, there is no way back. You’ve been warned. If you think you have what it takes, click here and see Her for yourself.

Spoiling Goddess Ambra

Spoiling Goddess Ambra

More than one month passed since the end of July when my 40 days of total freedom (home alone) finally ended. I’ve spent a lot during those days, that’s no secret. What I still didn’t tell you, it’s whom I’ve spent them with…although I’m sure you can kinda guess it.

One of them (because you know… I’m not loyal) has been the magnificent Goddess Ambra.

She took the chance of those days to show me, once again, how incredible her beauty and power are, draining all my energies (and money) more than once during those days. 

Of course, it’s not like She intentionally waited for those days and then contacted me to drain me…but it just happened. Being free as I was, I was craving to serve Her once again… and that’s what happened. I was lucky enough to be able to spoil Her properly on a few occasions.

I still have vivid memories of all the sessions we had, since each one of them has been specialintense and satisfying. Not even ONCE I found myself regretting what I did with Her, Not even ONCE I woke up the morning after thinking “damn, I was an idiot last night, spending that much online”.

She DESERVES it all.

And I’m not just saying it…I mean it. She uses all her incredible skills each time, She never leaves things behind, She never looks somewhere else or is not focused on the session. When you are with Her, there is no escape. There is no way you can hope She will stop torturing you while smoking a cigarette or taking a break in any way. She will always be all over you, always using Her power, constantly teasing, denying, torturing, demanding… no stop. 

One session with Her is probably one of the most intense experiences you can have on cam. She gives all herself in those sessions, you feel like she is there focused on destroying you totally: nothing else is on her mind, nothing else can distract her. 

She enjoys what she does, She even gets excited at times during a session…and no, she’s not faking it. I have enough experience to tell when a Goddess is faking it or feeling the excitement of the moment. 

And when it comes to Her beauty…I don’t even know where to start from. Perfection is the word when it’s about Her: from Her beautiful eyes to Her perfectly shaped feet. From Her fantastic ass to Her wonderful boobs. Every inch of Her body expresses beauty, sensuality, power

Last but not least, of course, another of the things that drives me crazy about Her it’s her genuine, deep, unstoppable passion for nylons. She has only the best quality ones, I never saw a run on her stockings or pantyhose, never saw her wearing cheap nylons. Always the best, and most of the time Wolford, as I think she has a specific passion for those. To my eyes, this is something to go CRAZY about.

Goddess Ambra is exceptional and serving her was (and always is) a true privilege. If you want to do the same, click here and visit her cam page… you won’t regret it.

Middle finger, “L” sign and…Instadommes

Middle finger, “L” sign and…Instadommes

If you read this blog since a while, you know how I HATE instadommes, especially for the waste of time they are for me and other real slaves that get flooded with identical messages on Twitter.

Why I hate instadommes

One of the things I hate the most about them is how they are acting ALL in the SAME way, like if there would be a rule “do this and slaves will magically pay you”.

A typical instadomme will:

  • Approach you without you even knowing who She is
  • Treat you like shit
  • Demand for money after not even 2 messages
  • Block you if you refuse

Sometimes it may happen that they don’t contact you, but you stumble upon them while browsing Twitter…it’s kinda easy to spot them.

About the middle finger and the “L” sign

Do you know what’s the easiest way to spot an Instadomme? Just view her content posts one by one: most probably in every video she shoots, she will end up with an “L” sign or a middle finger…or even both!!! And I mean EACH AND EVERYONE.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I know Financial Domination, sometimes, it’s also about humiliation and some slaves want to be treated that way…but you are acting ridiculously by doing this in every single video!

First of all: not every slave wants to be treated the same.

Second: a REAL Financial Domination Goddess is, first of all, a Lady with capital “L”. She’s well educated, elegant, smart, intelligent. How many of those words do you think go well with her doing a middle finger or the “L” sign? Exactly: NONE.

I mean… would you ever imagine Goddess Ishtar showing her middle finger or making the “L” sign in every single video she makes?

How many times have you seen her doing it?

And now answer this question: is she a successful domme, that submits slaves of every kind? Let me answer this one for you: Yes, She’s one of the best out there because She KNOWS what she’s doing and She’s not here just for the money.

A message for instadommes

Financial Domination can have many forms, and surely no slave is equal to another (to a certain extent). By doing all the same damn thing, all the dam time, you are just showing that you know NOTHING about this world and you are here just to grab some money.

My proposal to you? Go back where you came from, you are just an annoying waste of time for all of us, real slaves and real dommes.

Thank you.

MsClassy: many new reasons to serve Her

MsClassy: many new reasons to serve Her

One of the Goddesses I’ve been serving for a really long time, MsClassy never stops giving us more reasons to serve Her: let me explain to you what I mean.

New pictures

A few days ago I had the privilege to see some new pictures MsClassy took at a photoshooting: needless to say, I nearly lost ability to breath.

Always thought Her beauty is somehow unique and uncomparable to others, and these pics only confirm that. She’s elegant, beautiful, powerful, seducing…and every picture shows exactly that.

New name

Besides that, there is also something important about Her: She’s using a new chathost name on CamContacts: MsSupreme.

If you follow my alerts on Twitter or this site, you won’t have any problems in reaching Her (since you don’t even need to know her chathost name), but if you don’t well… be sure to click here, visit her profile and bookmark it. You don’t want to miss Her, do you?

Her birthday

Finally…Her special day is approaching. April 16th will be Her birthday, and surely that’s a perfect chance to show how much we adore Her. Everyone loves to get gifts on a birthday…and Goddesses are no different. So just be sure to do something special for Her, You know She deserves it right?

When personal life keeps you away from Findom

When personal life keeps you away from Findom

It’s happening again, and I guess you can tell from my lack of posts here on my blog: some personal life stuff is keeping me away from Findom.

Do I think this is good?

No, of course not. I don’t care if this means I spend (way) less money. I don’t care if this can feel like a way to slow down. I don’t care if it keeps me away from danger. It’s simply NOT what I want.

I’d love to have a session with one of the Goddesses I always dream about. I’d love to feel their power over my brain, to let them take all they want from my wallet.

But I can’t.

Too much stuff going on in my brain right now. Too many things to take care of. Findom will have to wait… even if that means my need for it will only grow more and more…making me suffer more and more.

Life sucks sometimes, especially when Findom isn’t a part of it.

She made me a MoneySlave… and now She’s back

She made me a MoneySlave… and now She’s back

If you follow this blog, you sure know why and how i became a MoneySlave on the first place. OneGreatDiva made me one, in a night of 9 years ago that I will never forget. Her power hit me like a lightning bolt, made me do things I never did before…basically changed my life forever.

The thing about OneGreatDiva is that, being an incredibly famous and successfull business woman, She is not that often online. So the chances to serve Her and feel Her enormous power are very few. And when a chance comes up, I surely do ALL i can to take it. A session with Her is always unique, intense, satisfying and… expensive. Of course.

And guess what?

She’s online TODAY.

I first saw her around about a week ago, when She posted new pictures on Her site DivaFootFetish.com… and then, today, I was finally able to have another session with Her: an exciting, stunning, breathtaking session.

I am not getting into details about that session…but I wrote this article because I know many slaves are struggling like me to find Her online…well guys…this is your chance. Click here and feel Her power once again. You know it’s worth it.

FeetGoddesss Showed Me Her Power. Again.

FeetGoddesss Showed Me Her Power. Again.

Being alone at home gives me the chance (or the risk?) to be online way more often of course, especially if I take a day off from work. Which I did a couple of days ago.

It was a nice morning, with the whole house at my disposal: I felt good, relaxed. But, surprisingly, not in the mood for FinDom. I was just enjoying the time alone.

But FeetGoddesss had different plans.

She didn’t have to do much to make me change my plans, actually. She just sent me a message with a picture on it: her foot in magnificent white nylons.

I have never seen Her before in white nylons (certainly not in those), and that picture gave me immediately a boner. That moment I knew I was in troubles. Beautiful troubles for sure, but still troubles.

After another similar picture, I just did what every slave should do in a situation like this one: I sent her a tribute.

“Come into my video. Now.”

FeetGoddesss in white pantyhose

That’s all She said. And that’s what I did. She looked beyond perfection: those white nylons, a fantastic tight white dress, golden shoes and…Her incredible, unique, stunning beauty. 

She went on and on teasing and taking money for about 30 minutes, without ever letting me cum. After all that time and teasing, I begged Her to let me cum and, after sending one last tribute, She allowed me to.

If before that session I was happy, after it I was like the happiest person EVER. With a slight difference: I had 300$ less in my bank account.

Once again, FeetGoddesss showed me Her power: I am totally under her control when She wants. She can make me cum fast, She can make me go into a session when I’m not in the mood, She can make me edge for a long time… She’s magnificient.

And if you still haven’t seen Her online, be sure to visit her chatroom and tribute Her as She deserves. That’s what a slave exists for, isn’t it?

My Gift To FeetGoddesss

My Gift To FeetGoddesss

As you all know, I have been all alone at home for about 10 days. This was the perfect chance to finally enjoy my Findom fetish, after some time of forced abstinence. And boy was it great.

For some time now I wanted FeetGoddesss to have a new pair of Louboutin’s to add to her collection, so a few days ago I contacted Her, begging to see and spoil Her. As usual, She was super busy and at first, didn’t pay attention to my message. But I waited, knowing that sooner or later She would have done it.

After about half an hour, She answered:

“And why do you think I should give you this privilege?”

That answer didn’t surprise me too much, I’ve always considered a HUGE privilege being able to spoil Her. My answer was quite simple and direct:

“I don’t think I’m worth You time, but I would like to buy You a new pair of Louboutin’s if You allow me”

She agreed, and after a few minutes, we started. She was dressed in the hottest possible way: a short (way short) leather miniskirt, a pair of black pantyhose with a black line on back, and a top that didn’t leave much to the imagination regarding her beautiful body.

And, on top of that, of course, Her irresistible smile and eyes.

No man could have felt weaker than I did.

Findom Goddess in black RHT pantyhose drains a moneyslave - picture 1 Findom Goddess in black RHT pantyhose drains a moneyslave - picture 2 Findom Goddess in black RHT pantyhose drains a moneyslave - picture 3 Findom Goddess in black RHT pantyhose drains a moneyslave - picture 4

I won’t go into many details on what happened, but it was simply a magnificent time. It lasted enough for me to be in heaven, and for Her to drain my wallet by 650$. Enough to buy a new pair of Louboutin’s, as I wanted since the beginning.

I doubt there is any other Goddess out there that can make me feel the way FeetGoddesss does. It’s not just submission, it’s a happy submission. As weird as that can sound, trust me. Each time I am with her, I feel happy. Weak of course, unable to stop Her from ordering what to do or how much to spoil her, but always as happy as a slave can be.

Needless to say, follow my advice. If you never experienced some time alone with FeetGoddesss, You should. Give yourself the gift of some time with Her, and you will see with your own eyes what it means to be weak, aroused, and incredibly happy.

You can visit Her by clicking here.

When saying NO makes you feel guilty

When saying NO makes you feel guilty

Each and everyday i find new ways in which FeetGoddesss is unique and special. And last night was no difference.

Don’t get me wrong, i’ve served many beautiful Goddesses in all these years, and i still think the world of them… but …

FeetGoddesss is making me do things i’ve never done before, she’s making me feel like i’ve never felt before, She’s making me see things in a way i’ve never seen them before.

So, back to last night. I was just about to go to sleep, but decided first to switch my laptop on to check a few things and well, most probably deep inside to see if She was online, maybe to just tell Her hello, to just have a quick contact with Her. And yes, there She was. Online.

I sent her a quick message, nothing special really, something like “i’m not in a great mood tonight, so i just wanted to say Hello to You Goddess.”

But looks like she wanted to change my mood. She sent me a pic of her perfect feet in black nylons and sandals, just like that. She didn’t really add anything for a minute. Then..

“Feeling better now? Come to see me.”

Of course i forgot i wanted to go to bed, i forgot everything…i just went into Her room still thinking it would have been just for a quick sight of Her beauty.

I was wrong.

She was looking spectacular. Her new haircut makes the beauty of Her face shine even more, those black pantyhose with line on back, worn with sandals, totally made her legs and feet look even better. And i started watching.

We chatted for a short while, during the few times when she was in free chat between one private and another. Then… then She did what many Goddesses do of course..but it’s what i felt that was different than other times. She said.

“Spoil me.”

Nothing unique in this right? Wrong. Wrong because it felt different to me. As slaves, we always say “i can’t say no to you, Goddess” because, let’s face it, it’s part of the game. But more often than not, we can actually say “no” if we really want to…or even just run away with an excuse. I’ve done that so many times.

But with Her it’s different. Obeying her orders just feels right. And saying no to Her feels totally wrong. Inside my mind i was thinking “i should say no and go to bed”, but that made me feel… guilty! Yes, even just THINKING of saying no to Her made me feel guilty as hell.

This is something i’ve never experienced before… i’ve always managed to remain focused on myself, spending a lot when i actually felt like it (even if i kept “playing” the game of being forced by the teasing), running away when i wanted. And always with no particular regrets for how i behaved with the Goddess.

But this time… this time i ended up spending 200$ (not a lot, i know) just because it would have made me feel guilty and bad to leave Her, to say no, to don’t spoil Her as She demanded.

I’m falling deeper and deeper for FeetGoddesss, and i guess it will only get worst… or should i say better?