Most Findommes Are Using Social Media Completely Wrong
From copying other findommes to obsessing over follower counts, many creators make the same social media mistakes. Here are the ones I see most often and why they hurt growth.
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From copying other findommes to obsessing over follower counts, many creators make the same social media mistakes. Here are the ones I see most often and why they hurt growth.
For the last few years, I have seen the same pattern repeat itself over and over again. A new findomme enters the scene, creates accounts on every social media platform she can think of, uploads a few pictures, writes a handful of captions demanding tributes and then waits for things to happen. Sometimes she gains a few followers. Sometimes she receives a couple of messages. Occasionally she even receives a tribute or two. At first, this can feel encouraging. It…
What is the best PayPig type? What kind of man is most likely to send large tributes consistently and stay devoted for years? After more than 15 years in Financial Domination, I’ve spoken with countless men who have indulged in this fetish. From college students barely making ends meet to successful professionals and retired men, I’ve seen it all. Some send recklessly, others disappear after a few months, and then there are those who never stop giving. But what separates…
Beyond my journey in findom, which started 16 years ago, I’ve also been deeply involved in the world of online camming for over 20 years. I started back when live streaming was nothing like what it is today—when video feeds were choppy, image quality was a far cry from even the lowest-resolution photos, and yet, the thrill of interacting with a model in real time was already something that fascinated me. Over the years, I’ve not only been a viewer…
I have never made a secret that, in my opinion, one of the most important things for an online Cam Model is the quality of your streaming. We all know that the image of a Financial Domination Model has to be the one of a spoiled woman, one who doesn’t need money from slaves but just gets them to show her power: a bad looking video gives the idea of a cheap camera and, in the end, of a not…
First of all, let me say that I’m not quite sure if I already wrote about this matter in the past, but I’m simply too angry to go and check. I just NEED to cool it off by writing it down. If you want to be considered a Goddess online, don’t look f***ing cheap. Don’t ACT cheap. Don’t DRESS cheap. Don’t TALK cheap. Don’t THINK cheap. Let’s stop looking at this from the slave/Goddess perspective point of view, and for…
Not all Goddesses are born equal: there is a large variety of them out there. Some may appeal to a certain type of slaves, some to another. Some may have a certain kind of beauty, some others a different one. It’s the beauty of life: to each his own. But there are some kinds of Goddesses that I really can’t stand. They just get on my nerves, making me almost want to kick them in the ass. I thought of…
If you read this blog since a while, you know how I HATE instadommes, especially for the waste of time they are for me and other real slaves that get flooded with identical messages on Twitter. Why I hate instadommes One of the things I hate the most about them is how they are acting ALL in the SAME way, like if there would be a rule “do this and slaves will magically pay you”. A typical instadomme will: Approach…
As you all can imagine, I often talk with other slaves about domination in general and about Goddesses. One of the things that always come up is: “damn I wish my Goddess would contact me now, and remind me how powerful She is”. That’s why I thought of writing about this..because hey… I love it as well! First things first: being chased by your Goddess is TOTALLY different than being chased by a Goddess you’ve never met before. A Goddess…
There are a lot of things that turn me on during a cam session with a Goddess. One of the biggest ones is how she speaks English. If she speaks it well, especially with a British accent, it hits hard. If she doesn’t, it completely kills it for me. That’s why I usually avoid turning the mic on. I already know that if her English isn’t good, I’ll lose interest. Last night was different. A Goddess I’ve been serving from…