If you read this blog since a while, you know how I HATE instadommes, especially for the waste of time they are for me and other real slaves that get flooded with identical messages on Twitter.
Why I hate instadommes
One of the things I hate the most about them is how they are acting ALL in the SAME way, like if there would be a rule “do this and slaves will magically pay you”.
A typical instadomme will:
Approach you without you even knowing who She is
Treat you like shit
Demand for money after not even 2 messages
Block you if you refuse
Sometimes it may happen that they don’t contact you, but you stumble upon them while browsing Twitter…it’s kinda easy to spot them.
About the middle finger and the “L” sign
Do you know what’s the easiest way to spot an Instadomme? Just view her content posts one by one: most probably in every video she shoots, she will end up with an “L” sign or a middle finger…or even both!!! And I mean EACH AND EVERYONE.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I know Financial Domination, sometimes, it’s also about humiliation and some slaves want to be treated that way…but you are acting ridiculously by doing this in every single video!
First of all: not every slave wants to be treated the same.
Second: a REAL Financial Domination Goddess is, first of all, a Lady with capital “L”. She’s well educated, elegant, smart, intelligent. How many of those words do you think go well with her doing a middle finger or the “L” sign? Exactly: NONE.
I mean… would you ever imagine Goddess Ishtar showing her middle finger or making the “L” sign in every single video she makes?
How many times have you seen her doing it?
And now answer this question: is she a successful domme, that submits slaves of every kind? Let me answer this one for you: Yes, She’s one of the best out there because She KNOWS what she’s doing and She’s not here just for the money.
A message for instadommes
Financial Domination can have many forms, and surely no slave is equal to another (to a certain extent). By doing all the same damn thing, all the dam time, you are just showing that you know NOTHING about this world and you are here just to grab some money.
My proposal to you? Go back where you came from, you are just an annoying waste of time for all of us, real slaves and real dommes.
Remember when I wrote that I was going to be alone for more than one month? At that time I was looking forward to it, defining it “dangerous and exciting“.
That month ended at the end of July… care to know how was it? If you don’t, stop reading and move on because that’s what this post is about! If not…let’s have a look together at what I learned during this month of “freedom”.
Being alone is EXPENSIVE
This is kinda obvious, and I surely expected that. I’ve spent nearly 2.000$ this month, one of my most expensive months so far. When you are home alone, you have all the chances in the world to go for a session. No one can stop you, no one can limit you, no one can catch you. Least that can happen is…spending a lot. And yes, it happened.
Being alone brings MISTAKES
This is connected to the point above: you have so much freedom, so much chances to go and have sessions that, especially at the beginning, you throw money in the trash. It has been a while since I felt angry after a session…but I sure did after one I had last month. As soon as it finished (kinda expensive too) I started feeling angry with myself, regretting all the money I’ve spent, thinking whom I could have spent them with and have a WAY better time. Because ok chances to have a session were endless but…money was not!
Being alone makes you SLEEPLESS
Damn, I never slept LESS than I did last month! At one point I was almost like a zombie… in front of a computer screen till VERY late at night, every night. Always on Twitter, Camsites… everywhere Findom was, I was. For many hours a day. Was it a good decision? Hell NO! Lacking sleep made me enjoy even less the free time I had. So that was the worst decision ever!
Being alone is FUN
At the end of the day, all those bad things apart, I damn had a nice time (especially online of course). I needed that. Be able to do whatever I wanted, at whenever I wanted, for however long I wanted. Damn, it felt good! Having a session without being scared of someone hearing me or catching me, without having to think about the noise I made. Just logging on, having fun. That’s all!
Being alone is SAD
This came at the end of this long month… like last few days. I started missing my wife A LOT. Of course, we’ve been in touch a lot through WhatsApp, Skype and so on…but holding her in my arms, talking to her during lunch and dinner…well…that’s priceless and I did start missing all that A LOT. That’s also why I didn’t even think of having a session ever since she got back. Of course, I will (very soon lol)…but these days all I wanted was to enjoy her company. Be with her and happy with her. Findom wasn’t part of my life at all (apart from the casual twit now and then).
All in all, it has been a rough month. The longest period I’ve ever been alone since I got married. Don’t know if or when it will happen again but… It surely was fun 🙂
It has been a while since I last interviewed one of the amazing Goddesses I’m lucky to know (and spoil), so I asked the amazing Goddess Ambra to do one. With great happiness and honor on my part, She agreed!
I’ve sent her the questions a few days ago, and when She got back at me with the answers I was totally excited: needless to say, Her answers are absolutely smart and interesting. Be sure to don’t miss any bit of this because there are a few things that I’m pretty sure will come up as a surprise to you.
One of the things that distinguish You from lots of other Financial Domination mistresses, is your very active modeling job. Could you tell me a bit more about it? How long ago did you start? Which companies have you worked with so far? What do you specifically like about being a model?
True indeed, I am an active model and not just in the Fetish/BDSM world but also outside of it. I started working actively in this domain since 2016 when one of my good old friends became a photographer and asked if I could help him with his work and pose for his portfolio. Obviously, it was about casual, outdoor shooting, nothing related to nudity. From his work, I have been remarked by a few makeup artists and by the largest modeling agency in my city. Currently, I have 2 image contracts running with a makeup artist and a clothing boutique and a collaboration with the modeling agency mentioned above which involves professional shootings, catwalks and occasionally event hosting. so this is what I do whilst being offline. In front of the cameras I ”unleash” Myself, I love having all eyes on Me, all the attention and the spotlights empowering My beauty. In the online world, I bring to life all My darkest fantasies wich inspire Me into filming FetishBDSM clips and hosting sessions and with this, I must mention that I am very HAPPY about the fact that I am a fetishist, a kinky Woman and that I have the freedom to explore all My dreams and desires.
Catch your breath guys, I know all this made you jump on your seats (as I did)… You didn’t expect all this, did you? Neither did I! But let’s go back to the interview…
Back to Goddess Ambra as a Woman (with capital “W” obviously), I’m sure most of our readers will be curious to know a bit more of the “unknown” Goddess Ambra… so I’d like to ask a few personal questions.
On what do you spend the most? Shoes, Lingerie, hi-tech, or else?
Well, the benefits of being a Goddess is that I mostly never spend My own money into self-pampering. I have My devotees taking care of this aspect and they are doing a great job. But I must admit that one thing I am obsessed with shopping is pantyhoses :)))) also shoes, designer or not, if I like them, I will own them. And in what I most invest is in My biggest fetish and that is Me, My image, face, hair, body, feet, nails. I am a slightly narcissistic person.
What kind of music do you like?
My favorite type of music which I enjoy listening too in all circumstances is a deep house, electro music. It relaxes and in the same time it ”activates” Me.
Do you like to sing? If so… are you more a shower or a car singer? Or else?
No, this is an aspect on which I have no attraction towards, even though My devotees always say that My smooth, calm voice is like music to their ears. 🙂
I know You are a wonderful and smart woman but… Is there anything you are really bad at?
I am bad at time management, due to the fact that I am that type of ‘fixating’ person, I often find Myself being completely ”caught” into something and focussing too much on tiny details. But this is what helps Me perfection everything around Myself.
Judging from the videos you do as a model, your approach to BDSM surely involves many different kinds of kinky activities. Which one, if any, do you like the most?
Although Domination comes into many forms,strictly BDSM related, I have a very big attraction towards CBT (non stop teasing / denying, slapping, scratching and many others kinks related to torturing the male sexual organ:)….and all the above mentioned combined with a role-playing and spiced up with some Taboo..oh well, I will stop because there are soo many fetishes and kink I enjoy.
Do you prefer to see the slave during an online session?
Yes, I definitely prefer seeing My submissives while being engaged in an online private session. What’s the point on giving tasks if I don’t see the slave following them? In the end, it’s all about pleasing the Superior Lady in front of you, right?
What’s the worst thing a slave can do to you…something you will never forgive him for?
Honesty and loyalty, these are the MUST have ingredients once I have engaged in a Ds relationship. All Ds relationships vary a lot from one subject to another, each submissive needs different approach and behavior. I am not a jealous neither a possessive type of Woman unless the male in the cause is My property. Failing into being totally honest and loyal will automatically bring everything to an end and I don’t like being begged into forgiveness, I prefer being bribed into it, so if you’ve done a mistake you must PAY for it in its true meaning.
Imagine you are offered a trip to outer space, but you must go with a slave and have a session there. What kind of slave would you bring?
This is a very funny question.:))) How did you came up with it?:)))))) Not really certain of the answer as I’ve never imagined such a scenario but I might use a moneyfoot fetish slave to massage and pamper My feet non stop as I comfortably empty his credit cards or amuse Myself at making him count and guess the money bills in his hands while being blindfolded….weird question, weird answers;)
As this blog is about Financial Domination, there is one thing that I care a lot about: Financial Domination becoming too mainstream or, better said, too many people approaching this without really knowing what this is about. Every girl thinks she can be a findomme, every girl thinks she can easily make money with this. What’s your advice for them?
Real Financial Domination comes along with the ability of high-class manipulation skills and sensuality. From My point of view, it is not about ‘send for My coffee’ (though My close devotees cover it without Me mentioning it), it involves a psychological approach and a deep power exchange, the ability to use a submissive’s weaknesses into My advantage, transforming him into a real-life pleasing object for My comfort. Sometimes a male is not even into Financial Domination, but after breaking his limits and seducing him ”correctly”, he will automatically react to all My existing demands, and all this to please the Woman of his fantasies and dreams, his Goddess/Mistress.
Now, before closing this awesome interview, is there anything you’d like to say to those reading it? And also, what’s the best way a slave can get in touch with you?
First of all, to those who don’t know Me and would be interested into exploring unimaginable depths of sensual,refined and strict Domination, I recommend to visit Me on My online profiles (CamContacts, SkyPrivate) for online sessions or approach Me by Email, IWantclips or Twitter, obviously with a tribute before engaging into conversations scheduling real 121 sessions. I am polite and high educated so I expect this in return from My potential new submissives when approaching.
So that’s it guys: I really hope you found this interview interesting as much as I did, as it really revealed a few things about Goddess Ambra I wasn’t aware of…making Her even more attractive and powerful in my eyes.
Thanking once more Goddess Ambra for this opportunity, let me add down here all the ways You can use to be in touch with Her (and spoil Her):
It surely isn’t the first time that I’m home alone, but the feeling never changes, the results never change. My wife left me alone till the end of July: I am now home alone.
Remember the movie with Macaulay Culkin, “Home Alone“? Well…somehow it’s the same. He starts being totally happy and excited about it, being able to do everything he wants, whenever he wants. Then… he discovers the risks of being alone: people trying to enter his house to steal stuff and money.
I’m vulnerable
In a way… I feel kinda the same. I am now able to do whatever I want, whenever I want. Online and offline. No limits, no pressure, no second thoughts. But I also feel…totally vulnerable.
The chances of being online with the right privacy were not that much till a few days ago, somehow protecting me from spending too much… now it’s totally the opposite. I always have privacy, I can always do whatever I want… in a few words… I’m an easy target.
How am I supposed to resist if a Goddess comes to me giving orders, teasing me as She knows I’ll fall? No way I can escape, no way I can say no… I don’t want to, actually.
The result of all this? Well… I suppose I will see at the end of July when the wife will come back…a quick look at my bank account will probably answer this question pretty fast… meanwhile… all I can do is… enjoy these days.
After about one year since my first (and only, so far) real-time financial domination session, I can surely say that my experience that night could be helpful to others who are considering having a real-time session.
It’s not like I can consider myself like an expert in real-time financial domination, or someone who knows everything about it. On the contrary: I only had one experience (this one), and I was lucky it all went amazingly with Goddess Ishtar. Many things could have gone wrong, many things I didn’t expect to happen as they did. I wish I would have been prepared somehow…so I can write down here a few things that could perhaps help others before their first real-time financial domination experience.
Remember the first day at school? The first date with the girl of your dreams? The first day in a new workplace? The tension, the nervousness, your hands shaking, your breathing getting heavier and more difficult, your sweating increasing. Well, multiply that by a hundred times and you’ll be closer to how you will feel.
You can be the most self-confident man ever, you can try to be prepared to that moment for as long as you want…but when you’ll look at the clock and the time of your session with Her will be approaching… you’ll feel nervous. And it’s not like that feeling will go away easily even after she arrives. You won’t know what to do, what to say, how to move, how to stand or sit down. The moment you’ve been waiting for since a lifetime is right there, finally happening. The Goddess of your dreams is there with you. You can hear her, you can look at her, you can see her as you’ve never been able before. And that, trust me, is a sensation like no other.
So what do you do? Easy…let her guide you. If you selected carefully the Goddess to have this first real-time session with, she will surely be way more self-confident than you. She will most probably be having fun, a casual fun that she had many other times. She won’t be nervous at all, just enjoying that moment as one of the many similar moments she had before. Even if, perhaps, she’s not that used to real-time sessions, for sure she will be way more confident than you. Let her do the talking, let her guide you that night. Do what She asks, and as time goes by you’ll learn that this will help you relax a bit, and finally starting to enjoy the moment as you should.
You won’t be able to escape her
Forget about switching your computer off. Forget about pretending your wife is approaching and you have to go. Forget about all the excuses you created ever since you started having online sessions. It’s just you and Her now. If you run away now, rest assured that she won’t have anything to do with you anymore. You want to stay there with her, You want this moment to never end. There is no escape this time, no escape like never before. This is different from any sessions you ever had as there is literally no escape whatsoever.
It will be expensive
If you’ve read my post about that night (and how I managed to convince Her) you already know how expensive that was for me. I spent that night more or less the same I spent in one year only. And believe me…it will be the same for you. If your Goddess will ever agree to meet you, it will also be because She will get something special in return. We are money slaves remember? Money is what we crave to give Her. And if She gives us the privilege to meet Her…well then we must show Her our appreciation. Trust me, it will be the most expensive experience you ever had.
It will be intense
It took me months to start enjoying online sessions again after that night. No online session can ever be as intense as a real-time financial domination session. Nothing can be compared to being right there, in front of Her. Nothing can be compared to Her whispering in your ear “give me more”. Nothing can be compared to Her having your own smartphone in her hands while taking money from your bank account. Or your own wallet, your own credit card. Nothing can be as intense.
You will want to do that again
This is something I didn’t expect. I really thought that, after such an intense and expensive experience, I would have thought “ok it was just a one-time thing, not gonna happen again”. Well…ever since that day, I have been craving for that to happen again. Of course, I know that it will be almost impossible to do that again (way too expensive)…but the craving for it won’t stop. I did start enjoying online sessions again, and surely I’m back spending and having fun online…but that night. That night with Goddess Ishtar can’t be compared to anything else. The only thing it can maybe be compared with is…another real-time sessions.
I won’t stop thinking about that night, now or never. But these are all the things that came to my mind after one year. And I do hope some of you guys will find them useful, especially if you are considering having your first real-time financial domination session with the Goddess of your dreams (whoever she might be).
Are you considering having your first real-time session? Did you already have one? Feel free to share your thoughts here in the comments.
Not my usual post this one but… thing is that I like Manga, Anime and related stuff…especially when it’s about Femdom.
A few days ago, I came across the work of an artist that caught my attention for his unique style and for the subject of his work.
Neocorona is his name (check out his profile here on Hentai Foundry), and he basically draws only about femdom. His style is, as I said, rather unique: I would say middle way between Anime and Videogame art… wouldn’t really know how to better describe it, since I’m really not an expert but just a fan.
I took a few of his pictures that made me dream the most, wondering if they will do the same to you.
Receiving a footjob in pantyhose in a public place…isn’t that hot?
An office, a business meeting, feet in pantyhose…what else?
This is a bit more extreme but still… isn’t that hot?
Today, 1st May of 2019, marks my first 10 years into Financial Domination.
10 years ago today, OneGreatDiva showed me what it means to be a moneyslave. She took out from me what probably has been hidden inside myself for a long, long time.
Had a session with Her for three nights in a row, and in each of them, She made me fall deeper and deeper into Financial Domination. It was a few months later that I decided to open this blog, believing it would help me stop and forget about it: boy I was wrong.
Financial Domination is a part of who I am, a quite big part. I can’t stay without it, as I would feel sad and unsatisfied otherwise. All I can do is try my best to keep it under control so that people I love around me don’t get affected.
And I am doing just about fine at the moment: finding a balance between my financial domination “needs” and my family ones. A balance I always stick to (with a few exceptions).
10 years in numbers
Another “fetish” of mine are statistics and data: I like to keep track of everything, including my Financial Domination experience. As you all know, on this page I keep track of all my spending but… how about some more data?
It has been now 3.652 days since I started in Financial Domination, and in all this time I had 1.557 online sessions, for a total of 34.392 minutes spent with those beautiful Goddesses.
As I’m guessing you all know, I had just one real-life session (this one with Goddess Ishtar of course) and I’m afraid I can’t tell you how much it really lasted…because She is so gorgeous that I totally lost track of time (and money…actually).
How many Goddesses did I serve? Well, it would be improper to say that I’ve really served all those I’ve paid a visit to (many times I visited them only once, and left unsatisfied)…but I can tell you that I visited 444 different Goddesses in these 10 years. And you all know which Goddesses I really served and spoiled for good, as I spoke about them over here.
And yes…there is one number I’ve left out so far. In the end, Financial Domination is (mostly) about spending money, and You all know I’m not shy to admit how much I spend. So I got the total from all my spendings.
In 10 years in Financial Domination, I’ve spent 174.137$
I don’t know if it’s too much or not, and I honestly don’t care. I know I didn’t make any harm to the people I love for this, I know I was a good moneyslave to many Goddesses, and I know I’m working my ass off in order to keep my Financial Domination fetish alive.
It has been 10 years, and I’m quite sure it won’t stop anytime soon. Financial Domination is a part of who I am.
Remember when I wrote about me finding the balance, that would let me live happily with my Financial Domination fetish?
In this post I described how I managed to keep spending without hurting my real life or people around me: finding another job was enough to cover my Financial Domination expenses.
Well, turns out EveSchwarz disagrees with that. And She showed that to me the other night.
I was already on a tight budget this month, and I was totally determined in keeping things under control. But then…EveSchwarz showed up wearing a new pair of tan pantyhose I’ve never seen before Her wearing.
Lately, I learned She was actually wearing Wolford Naked 8 pantyhose, Agent Provocateur bra and panties…. and a beautiful pair of Prada Heels.
At first She didn’t pay attention to me (kinda normal, as She has dozens of slaves waiting to serve Her), but…after I made a few simple comments about the outfit…She knew She had me.
Dangling her heel in front of the camera She just said:
Come to me, You’ll spoil me properly tonight
And that’s exactly what I did. Like a zombie, I went into her private chat, and like a zombie, I started spending my hard earned money.
She was absolutely magnificent: her legs and feet looked even more perfect in those smooth Wolford Pantyhose. Her shiny heels were like a magnet to my eyes, like an instrument to hypnotize me. Her perfect lips moved slowly as she spoke in the most sensual and powerful voice.
I was in heaven. Or so I thought.
When the session ended I gave a look at to how much I had spent: 1000$. In a matter of minutes.
My budget? Destroyed. My balance? Lost. My money? In the right place: her pockets.
I always knew EveSchwarz was dangerous… and last night I just had another proof of that. I should certainly try to stay away from her chatroom now…but I already know I will fail. It’s impossible to avoid temptations for me.
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