Not all Goddesses are born equal: there is a large variety of them out there. Some may appeal to a certain type of slaves, some to another. Some may have a certain kind of beauty, some others a different one. It’s the beauty of life: to each his own.
But there are some kinds of Goddesses that I really can’t stand. They just get on my nerves, making me almost want to kick them in the ass. I thought of writing a list here and, just as we are clear, I’m talking about those that are part of a larger group, identified as… InstaGoddesses!
The InstaOrder
I don’t know if they had problems when they were kids, or if they are simply angry with the whole world. But how the fuck do you think to get ANY sort of attention from a slave if you contact him, out of nowhere, with messages like “Spoil me, stupid pig” or the infamous “Pay me, loser!“. I mean COME ON! I know you are in a rush to become rich in the easiest possible way, but could you at least say “hello” first? You know, just to be A BIT polite…just to show there is some life in that brain of yours! Brainless.
The InstaBeg
Chats with them usually are a bit longer, as they seem to have a more cautious approach. I don’t know, it’s like they are trying to guess if the one they are talking to has money to throw away…or if they are trying to be a bit nice to gain better results. Anyway, they will always end up saying things like “I’m broke, I need money” or “Please, I need some money“. Sometimes I even got “I’m hungry and don’t have money for food”. All of them, of course, having names on twitter like “Goddess”, “Queen”, “Royal” and so on. It’s as if Donald Trump would call himself Greta Thunderg while still saying the shit he says about climate change. It just doesn’t make sense! Call yourself differently… don’t know.. “hungry puppy”, “cute by broke”, “broke kitty”…perhaps you’ll get better results. No, you won’t, I’m kidding. Pathetic.
The InstaHi
These are just plain idiots. I’m sorry but that’s what they are. They will send you a “Hi” message…then if you answer after, say, a few hours…they will completely forget they contacted you first and answer again with a “Hi”. I swear a few times I managed to go back and forth like 3 or 4 times before she would finally realize and act all angry with a very dominant and intelligent “so who are you”. Hopeless.
The InstaInsult
Well, I believe in this case we are facing probably just the least educated form of a human being. Because I don’t know how else anyone would believe the correct way to approach anyone (not just a slave) is with things like “hey bitch”, “hey piglet”, “hey dickhead” and so on. If you do get results like this please tell me because I need to learn from you. Rude.
The InstaSpam
Not very different from the usual spam we all get into our inboxes daily. They have a message that says everything (like “pay me bitch use this and that method or this other one, see my pics here, get in touch with me like this” and so on) and they simply can’t be bothered to have real conversations. They just send that message to everyone, hoping some idiot would end up sending some money. Again…there surely is an idiot between me and them. Either I’m the one and they are some sort of findom-marketing geniuses or…. else. Boring.
The InstaTeen
They are honestly almost scary. It doesn’t matter how they contact me or what they say: when I check their profile and I see that they are like 16 years old… I just freeze. Not even sure of what to do. Usually, I just block them and run away from my PC screaming “I’m not a pedophileeee”…just in case, you know. Dangerous.
Damn…that made me feel better! Now that I’ve written them all down here…I feel relieved! And you? Which type of instadomme gets on your nerves?
If you read this blog since a while, you know how I HATE instadommes, especially for the waste of time they are for me and other real slaves that get flooded with identical messages on Twitter.
Why I hate instadommes
One of the things I hate the most about them is how they are acting ALL in the SAME way, like if there would be a rule “do this and slaves will magically pay you”.
A typical instadomme will:
Approach you without you even knowing who She is
Treat you like shit
Demand for money after not even 2 messages
Block you if you refuse
Sometimes it may happen that they don’t contact you, but you stumble upon them while browsing Twitter…it’s kinda easy to spot them.
About the middle finger and the “L” sign
Do you know what’s the easiest way to spot an Instadomme? Just view her content posts one by one: most probably in every video she shoots, she will end up with an “L” sign or a middle finger…or even both!!! And I mean EACH AND EVERYONE.
Now, don’t get me wrong. I know Financial Domination, sometimes, it’s also about humiliation and some slaves want to be treated that way…but you are acting ridiculously by doing this in every single video!
First of all: not every slave wants to be treated the same.
Second: a REAL Financial Domination Goddess is, first of all, a Lady with capital “L”. She’s well educated, elegant, smart, intelligent. How many of those words do you think go well with her doing a middle finger or the “L” sign? Exactly: NONE.
I mean… would you ever imagine Goddess Ishtar showing her middle finger or making the “L” sign in every single video she makes?
How many times have you seen her doing it?
And now answer this question: is she a successful domme, that submits slaves of every kind? Let me answer this one for you: Yes, She’s one of the best out there because She KNOWS what she’s doing and She’s not here just for the money.
A message for instadommes
Financial Domination can have many forms, and surely no slave is equal to another (to a certain extent). By doing all the same damn thing, all the dam time, you are just showing that you know NOTHING about this world and you are here just to grab some money.
My proposal to you? Go back where you came from, you are just an annoying waste of time for all of us, real slaves and real dommes.
It has been a while since I last interviewed one of the amazing Goddesses I’m lucky to know (and spoil), so I asked the amazing Goddess Ambra to do one. With great happiness and honor on my part, She agreed!
I’ve sent her the questions a few days ago, and when She got back at me with the answers I was totally excited: needless to say, Her answers are absolutely smart and interesting. Be sure to don’t miss any bit of this because there are a few things that I’m pretty sure will come up as a surprise to you.
One of the things that distinguish You from lots of other Financial Domination mistresses, is your very active modeling job. Could you tell me a bit more about it? How long ago did you start? Which companies have you worked with so far? What do you specifically like about being a model?
True indeed, I am an active model and not just in the Fetish/BDSM world but also outside of it. I started working actively in this domain since 2016 when one of my good old friends became a photographer and asked if I could help him with his work and pose for his portfolio. Obviously, it was about casual, outdoor shooting, nothing related to nudity. From his work, I have been remarked by a few makeup artists and by the largest modeling agency in my city. Currently, I have 2 image contracts running with a makeup artist and a clothing boutique and a collaboration with the modeling agency mentioned above which involves professional shootings, catwalks and occasionally event hosting. so this is what I do whilst being offline. In front of the cameras I ”unleash” Myself, I love having all eyes on Me, all the attention and the spotlights empowering My beauty. In the online world, I bring to life all My darkest fantasies wich inspire Me into filming FetishBDSM clips and hosting sessions and with this, I must mention that I am very HAPPY about the fact that I am a fetishist, a kinky Woman and that I have the freedom to explore all My dreams and desires.
Catch your breath guys, I know all this made you jump on your seats (as I did)… You didn’t expect all this, did you? Neither did I! But let’s go back to the interview…
Back to Goddess Ambra as a Woman (with capital “W” obviously), I’m sure most of our readers will be curious to know a bit more of the “unknown” Goddess Ambra… so I’d like to ask a few personal questions.
On what do you spend the most? Shoes, Lingerie, hi-tech, or else?
Well, the benefits of being a Goddess is that I mostly never spend My own money into self-pampering. I have My devotees taking care of this aspect and they are doing a great job. But I must admit that one thing I am obsessed with shopping is pantyhoses :)))) also shoes, designer or not, if I like them, I will own them. And in what I most invest is in My biggest fetish and that is Me, My image, face, hair, body, feet, nails. I am a slightly narcissistic person.
What kind of music do you like?
My favorite type of music which I enjoy listening too in all circumstances is a deep house, electro music. It relaxes and in the same time it ”activates” Me.
Do you like to sing? If so… are you more a shower or a car singer? Or else?
No, this is an aspect on which I have no attraction towards, even though My devotees always say that My smooth, calm voice is like music to their ears. 🙂
I know You are a wonderful and smart woman but… Is there anything you are really bad at?
I am bad at time management, due to the fact that I am that type of ‘fixating’ person, I often find Myself being completely ”caught” into something and focussing too much on tiny details. But this is what helps Me perfection everything around Myself.
Judging from the videos you do as a model, your approach to BDSM surely involves many different kinds of kinky activities. Which one, if any, do you like the most?
Although Domination comes into many forms,strictly BDSM related, I have a very big attraction towards CBT (non stop teasing / denying, slapping, scratching and many others kinks related to torturing the male sexual organ:)….and all the above mentioned combined with a role-playing and spiced up with some Taboo..oh well, I will stop because there are soo many fetishes and kink I enjoy.
Do you prefer to see the slave during an online session?
Yes, I definitely prefer seeing My submissives while being engaged in an online private session. What’s the point on giving tasks if I don’t see the slave following them? In the end, it’s all about pleasing the Superior Lady in front of you, right?
What’s the worst thing a slave can do to you…something you will never forgive him for?
Honesty and loyalty, these are the MUST have ingredients once I have engaged in a Ds relationship. All Ds relationships vary a lot from one subject to another, each submissive needs different approach and behavior. I am not a jealous neither a possessive type of Woman unless the male in the cause is My property. Failing into being totally honest and loyal will automatically bring everything to an end and I don’t like being begged into forgiveness, I prefer being bribed into it, so if you’ve done a mistake you must PAY for it in its true meaning.
Imagine you are offered a trip to outer space, but you must go with a slave and have a session there. What kind of slave would you bring?
This is a very funny question.:))) How did you came up with it?:)))))) Not really certain of the answer as I’ve never imagined such a scenario but I might use a moneyfoot fetish slave to massage and pamper My feet non stop as I comfortably empty his credit cards or amuse Myself at making him count and guess the money bills in his hands while being blindfolded….weird question, weird answers;)
As this blog is about Financial Domination, there is one thing that I care a lot about: Financial Domination becoming too mainstream or, better said, too many people approaching this without really knowing what this is about. Every girl thinks she can be a findomme, every girl thinks she can easily make money with this. What’s your advice for them?
Real Financial Domination comes along with the ability of high-class manipulation skills and sensuality. From My point of view, it is not about ‘send for My coffee’ (though My close devotees cover it without Me mentioning it), it involves a psychological approach and a deep power exchange, the ability to use a submissive’s weaknesses into My advantage, transforming him into a real-life pleasing object for My comfort. Sometimes a male is not even into Financial Domination, but after breaking his limits and seducing him ”correctly”, he will automatically react to all My existing demands, and all this to please the Woman of his fantasies and dreams, his Goddess/Mistress.
Now, before closing this awesome interview, is there anything you’d like to say to those reading it? And also, what’s the best way a slave can get in touch with you?
First of all, to those who don’t know Me and would be interested into exploring unimaginable depths of sensual,refined and strict Domination, I recommend to visit Me on My online profiles (CamContacts, SkyPrivate) for online sessions or approach Me by Email, IWantclips or Twitter, obviously with a tribute before engaging into conversations scheduling real 121 sessions. I am polite and high educated so I expect this in return from My potential new submissives when approaching.
So that’s it guys: I really hope you found this interview interesting as much as I did, as it really revealed a few things about Goddess Ambra I wasn’t aware of…making Her even more attractive and powerful in my eyes.
Thanking once more Goddess Ambra for this opportunity, let me add down here all the ways You can use to be in touch with Her (and spoil Her):
After about one year since my first (and only, so far) real-time financial domination session, I can surely say that my experience that night could be helpful to others who are considering having a real-time session.
It’s not like I can consider myself like an expert in real-time financial domination, or someone who knows everything about it. On the contrary: I only had one experience (this one), and I was lucky it all went amazingly with Goddess Ishtar. Many things could have gone wrong, many things I didn’t expect to happen as they did. I wish I would have been prepared somehow…so I can write down here a few things that could perhaps help others before their first real-time financial domination experience.
Remember the first day at school? The first date with the girl of your dreams? The first day in a new workplace? The tension, the nervousness, your hands shaking, your breathing getting heavier and more difficult, your sweating increasing. Well, multiply that by a hundred times and you’ll be closer to how you will feel.
You can be the most self-confident man ever, you can try to be prepared to that moment for as long as you want…but when you’ll look at the clock and the time of your session with Her will be approaching… you’ll feel nervous. And it’s not like that feeling will go away easily even after she arrives. You won’t know what to do, what to say, how to move, how to stand or sit down. The moment you’ve been waiting for since a lifetime is right there, finally happening. The Goddess of your dreams is there with you. You can hear her, you can look at her, you can see her as you’ve never been able before. And that, trust me, is a sensation like no other.
So what do you do? Easy…let her guide you. If you selected carefully the Goddess to have this first real-time session with, she will surely be way more self-confident than you. She will most probably be having fun, a casual fun that she had many other times. She won’t be nervous at all, just enjoying that moment as one of the many similar moments she had before. Even if, perhaps, she’s not that used to real-time sessions, for sure she will be way more confident than you. Let her do the talking, let her guide you that night. Do what She asks, and as time goes by you’ll learn that this will help you relax a bit, and finally starting to enjoy the moment as you should.
You won’t be able to escape her
Forget about switching your computer off. Forget about pretending your wife is approaching and you have to go. Forget about all the excuses you created ever since you started having online sessions. It’s just you and Her now. If you run away now, rest assured that she won’t have anything to do with you anymore. You want to stay there with her, You want this moment to never end. There is no escape this time, no escape like never before. This is different from any sessions you ever had as there is literally no escape whatsoever.
It will be expensive
If you’ve read my post about that night (and how I managed to convince Her) you already know how expensive that was for me. I spent that night more or less the same I spent in one year only. And believe me…it will be the same for you. If your Goddess will ever agree to meet you, it will also be because She will get something special in return. We are money slaves remember? Money is what we crave to give Her. And if She gives us the privilege to meet Her…well then we must show Her our appreciation. Trust me, it will be the most expensive experience you ever had.
It will be intense
It took me months to start enjoying online sessions again after that night. No online session can ever be as intense as a real-time financial domination session. Nothing can be compared to being right there, in front of Her. Nothing can be compared to Her whispering in your ear “give me more”. Nothing can be compared to Her having your own smartphone in her hands while taking money from your bank account. Or your own wallet, your own credit card. Nothing can be as intense.
You will want to do that again
This is something I didn’t expect. I really thought that, after such an intense and expensive experience, I would have thought “ok it was just a one-time thing, not gonna happen again”. Well…ever since that day, I have been craving for that to happen again. Of course, I know that it will be almost impossible to do that again (way too expensive)…but the craving for it won’t stop. I did start enjoying online sessions again, and surely I’m back spending and having fun online…but that night. That night with Goddess Ishtar can’t be compared to anything else. The only thing it can maybe be compared with is…another real-time sessions.
I won’t stop thinking about that night, now or never. But these are all the things that came to my mind after one year. And I do hope some of you guys will find them useful, especially if you are considering having your first real-time financial domination session with the Goddess of your dreams (whoever she might be).
Are you considering having your first real-time session? Did you already have one? Feel free to share your thoughts here in the comments.
Not my usual post this one but… thing is that I like Manga, Anime and related stuff…especially when it’s about Femdom.
A few days ago, I came across the work of an artist that caught my attention for his unique style and for the subject of his work.
Neocorona is his name (check out his profile here on Hentai Foundry), and he basically draws only about femdom. His style is, as I said, rather unique: I would say middle way between Anime and Videogame art… wouldn’t really know how to better describe it, since I’m really not an expert but just a fan.
I took a few of his pictures that made me dream the most, wondering if they will do the same to you.
Receiving a footjob in pantyhose in a public place…isn’t that hot?
An office, a business meeting, feet in pantyhose…what else?
This is a bit more extreme but still… isn’t that hot?
This website uses cookies so that we can provide you with the best user experience possible. Cookie information is stored in your browser and performs functions such as recognising you when you return to our website and helping our team to understand which sections of the website you find most interesting and useful.
Strictly Necessary Cookies
Strictly Necessary Cookie should be enabled at all times so that we can save your preferences for cookie settings.
If you disable this cookie, we will not be able to save your preferences. This means that every time you visit this website you will need to enable or disable cookies again.
