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The Post-Skype Chaos: One Month Later, Where Are We Now?

March 24, 2025 YourMoneySlave Comments 0 Comment

a laptop with skype on it is switching off, as Skype is being discontinued

As I promised in my latest article, it’s time for a little update on the Skype situation. It’s been a month since Microsoft announced the end of Skype, and I’ve been closely watching how things have been evolving, especially in our little world of Findom and private communication.

Let’s go over what’s been happening, where people are moving (if anywhere), and how this so-called “migration” is going.

Microsoft Teams: Not the Replacement We Hoped For

When Microsoft dropped the bomb about shutting Skype down, they followed it with something vague like:

“By logging in to Teams Free with your Skype account, your chats and contacts will appear in the app so you can pick up where you left off. This capability will gradually roll out over the coming days.”

Now tell me—why announce it if it’s not ready? I spent weeks trying to log into Teams with my Skype account, and for days: nothing. Zero. Then, a few days ago, it finally happened. I logged in, and boom, my Skype contacts and chat history were there. I thought, “Great! Let’s move forward.” So I uninstalled Skype.

But no, it’s not all great. Far from it. Here’s why Teams is still a mess for what we used Skype for:

1. Only One Personal Account at a Time

With Skype, you could switch between multiple personal accounts. Maybe one for friends, one for work, one for Findom, whatever. Teams? Nope. You can only be logged in with one personal account per device. If you want to use another one, you have to sign out, remove the old one, and start all over again. Every. Single. Time.

2. You Can’t Rename Contacts

Seriously. How is this still a thing? With Skype, I used to rename contacts based on how I knew them, especially useful when Goddesses go by different names across platforms. In Teams? Not possible. You’re stuck with whatever username they’ve got, which makes searching through your list a real nightmare.

3. The Mobile App Doesn’t Sync Properly

Try logging into Teams mobile with your Skype account, and… surprise! Your chats and contacts aren’t there. And if you start a new conversation, it opens up on your desktop as an entirely separate chat thread. Confusing and disjointed. Basically, it’s still broken.

Telegram? Seems Promising, But…

At first, I really thought Telegram could be the next best thing. It’s fast, loaded with features, highly private… sounds perfect, right?

But there’s a major issue: you need a phone number to register. That alone makes it really hard to keep your Findom life separate from your personal or work one. Unless you go the route of burner numbers or second devices, which… come on, we’re not all James Bond.

So for now, Telegram is off the table for private one-on-one Findom sessions, at least for me.

Discord: A Possible Alternative?

Someone in the comments of my previous post mentioned Discord. I gave it a try. Technically, it works. You can chat, call, send media: just like Skype. But here’s the thing: it doesn’t feel right.

I haven’t found any Goddesses I follow using Discord as a primary tool, and honestly, it feels more like a place for gamers or communities, not private one-on-one sessions. Maybe that will change. Who knows.

So… What’s the Actual Replacement for Skype?

Right now? There isn’t one.

For me, Skype is gone. If you want to send me a message (I will answer when I can, since at the moment I am not really using any of these as a Skype replacement), I’m reachable on:

X
Reddit
BlueSky
Discord (but only if you’re already using it…)

Teams doesn’t work because I need multiple personal accounts. Telegram doesn’t work because of the phone number issue. And for the moment, nothing really replaces Skype. At least not properly.

Side note: The Findom Alerts Telegram Channel stays active, obviously (and it is actually growing fast!). That’s a different story, broadcast-only, not for personal chatting.

What’s Happening With SkyPrivate?

SkyPrivate is the site that allows paid Skype video sessions. As soon as Microsoft made their announcement, they said they were working on a replacement integration with Teams.

One month later? Still no news. None of the Goddesses I follow have enabled the Teams option, and the site still features Skype links front and center.

If you ask me, this is going to hit them hard. Which is a shame, because the service was actually useful for pay-per-minute live sessions.

Final Thoughts

It’s been a month, and we’re still in limbo. Personally, I’m navigating through various platforms to stay connected, but there’s no real, solid alternative to Skype yet, at least not for the kind of use we need in Findom.

So I’ll throw the question back to you:

What are you using now? Have you found a platform that works as well (or better) than Skype? Are you just sticking with the old tools until the last minute? Or are you as lost as the rest of us?

Let me know. This isn’t over yet.

The End of Skype: What’s Next for Findom?

February 28, 2025 YourMoneySlave Comments 0 Comment

nd of Skype – A businesswoman in stockings lounges confidently in a dimly lit office, with a laptop displaying alternative messaging apps and cash on the table. 'Skype Discontinued' is visible in the background, symbolizing the shift in online communication.

Today, Microsoft dropped a bombshell: Skype will be officially discontinued in May, with users encouraged to migrate to Microsoft Teams instead. While this news sent waves of shock across the internet, for many in the Findom community, it felt like the ground beneath us had suddenly shifted.

Skype has long been the go-to platform for private, unrestricted conversations between PayPigs and Goddesses. It’s where real connections are built, where financial submission happens beyond the limits of traditional cam sites, and where Findom relationships thrive away from the prying eyes of censorship-heavy platforms. So, what now?

A Look Back: When Skype Took Over

I still remember the early days of Findom, more than 15 years ago. Back then, MSN Messenger and Yahoo Messenger were the kings of instant messaging. Most Goddesses preferred Yahoo Messenger, and I was hooked on it myself. But things changed when Microsoft took over Skype, MSN was phased out, and Yahoo Messenger faded into obscurity.

For years, Skype was the place for private sessions, financial drains, and deep one-on-one interactions. But let’s be honest—this moment has been coming for a while. The lack of real updates, the slow but steady decline of its features, and the push for Microsoft Teams made it clear that Skype was living on borrowed time.

Where Do We Go From Here?

Right now, the best move is to wait and see where the majority of Goddesses and PayPigs migrate. It’s possible that some will simply move over to Microsoft Teams. But let’s be real—Teams is far from ideal for Findom. If you already use it for work (like I do), having a second Teams account dedicated to Findom is a nightmare. It’s heavily integrated into Microsoft’s ecosystem, tied to email and calendars, and running multiple accounts on the same device is nearly impossible.

A more likely contender? Telegram.

Feature-rich & private – It has all the tools needed for Findom, with strong privacy settings.
No censorship fears – Unlike Skype or traditional cam platforms, Telegram offers more freedom.
Findom Alerts – If you know, you know.

But again, it’s too early to tell. The announcement just dropped, and most people are still figuring out their next move. The only thing that’s certain? This isn’t the end of private Findom sessions—just a shift into a new era.

Oh, and let’s not forget the elephant in the room: SkyPrivate. What does this mean for them? That’s a whole other discussion—one I’ll definitely be writing about soon. Stay tuned.

The biggest frustration

December 6, 2022 YourMoneySlave Comments 2 comments

This won’t be a long post, but I want to put it here to see if others ever felt the same frustration when what I’m about to describe happened. To me, this is by far the biggest frustration as a slave, one of those nights where all you can do is hit your head on the wall.

Imagine this: you haven’t had a chance to have a session with that special Goddess for a long time. The reasons behind it are not important, they can be money, lack of privacy, lack of free time, or whatever. What counts is that you haven’t seen her for a long time, and you are craving to serve Her again.

The chance

Then, one morning, she posts something on Twitter: she says that she will be online that night, and the time she says she will be there perfectly matches your free time. You know you will be online at that time, you know you will have your chance.

You dream about that moment the whole day: at home, in your car, in the office. All you can think of is what is going to happen at night. You will finally be able to serve her again, you will finally be able to let yourself go and be her slave. The moment you have been dreaming of for months.

The frustration

The night comes. You log in. You load her profile and she is offline. You stay there and refresh the page countless times. You even check your internet connection, fearing something could go wrong. Minutes pass. An hour. Two. You have been waiting for two hours, and you look at the clock and realize the worse is happening: she is not coming online. Your chance is wasted. You don’t know when you will have another one, but it’s not going to be tonight.

That’s the biggest frustration.

When you need your “fix”

September 2, 2022 YourMoneySlave Comments 2 comments

Let’s face it: we, slaves, keep spending money on Goddesses because we need it, we crave it, we want it. Some call this a disease (a word that I hate) or, perhaps better said, an addiction. Maybe we can stay away for a while (usually just a few days), but then we always end up needing a session, needing to send a tribute, needing our “fix”.

According to the Oxford Dictionary, an addiction is “the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance or activity“. That kinda describes well what we are all going through…

And it even better fits when we look for the word addicted: “physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance”. Now, of course, we are not talking about a substance here, but for sure we keep doing this because it brings us pleasure, it gives meaning to our lives, and it makes us feel better.

So that’s why I think that a session (or a tribute) can actually be our “fix” for those moments when we start feeling down, even nostalgic about the last great session we had. We have all been through that: a few days passed since that fantastic session we had, and we start feeling in a bad mood, with a bit of sadness too. It’s like the world doesn’t smile at us anymore, it’s like nothing can make us feel better. That’s precisely when we need that medicine, the “fix” that can make us feel good and happy again with our lives. And a session with the right Goddess can greatly serve this purpose: She knows what we need, She knows what will make us feel better.

So there we are, in the end, we have one reason more to thank and appreciate what our Goddesses do: they really offer a social service in a way, for guys with this magnificent, unique, overwhelming illness that’s called Financial Domination.

Do you need your fix right now? Head over to the who’s live page, I can guarantee that ANY of the Goddesses listed there will take good care of your needs 😉

The PayPig Chronicles – Episode 1: “Too bad she started talking”

February 14, 2022 YourMoneySlave Comments 0 Comment

Introduction

I had my first financial domination session online back in 2009 and, during all this time, I have been enjoying (or not) a TON of sessions (more than 1.500 when I wrote about it on my 10 years anniversary, back in 2019): good and bad, awesome and horrible, expensive and cheap.
In this series of posts, I will describe some of those sessions. Each time I will talk about a different one and, most of the time, I won’t tell you the name of the model involved. Why? Because I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings: I want to be able to describe freely what happened, with no “filters” whatsoever. It will be an interesting journey, trust me…

Episode 1 – Too bad she started talking

I have been watching her on PayPig.cam for quite a while in her free videos, fascinated by her look and style. She is the classic blonde bombshell: huge boobs (not sure they are natural, don’t know and don’t care), big lips in which I’m sure she invested some money, blonde long curly hair, always perfectly dressed and, always perfect makeup.

Clearly, she works in one of those big-end studios, which take care of everything for Her. To be honest, this doesn’t usually bother me that much as long as she is naturally dominant and knows what she is doing, I don’t really care much where she learned that from.

Another thing that caught my attention, is that I had seen her a few times wearing expensive pantyhose. Women wearing pantyhose always have a “plus” on my weaknesses, and the way she was dressed a couple of times made me start fantasizing. I had noticed she never used her voice in free videochat, and I thought it was fine. Better don’t use your voice than show off bad English, right?

One night, when I saw She was wearing pantyhose, I decided to move forward and contact Her. Her answer was right on spot, she looked confident and dominant, the few first answers were those I would have expected from someone who knows about Findom, domination and, pantyhose fetish. Nothing too original of course, but all perfect to build up my excitement.

So we started the session, and She was exactly what I thought: a bomb. Damn sexy, elegant, dominant. Perfect moves, perfect teasing, perfect outfit. Nothing was wrong in the session, all was going super great and I was feeling like She might have been one I would have been addicted to for a while.

Then she decided to start talking.

The effect her voice and her English language had on me was more or less the same effect a pin has on a fully blown balloon. If everything on her look was right on spot, everything about her voice was painful, to say the least.

A super bad English (which is ALWAYS a huge turnoff for me), combined with a tone of voice as sexy as the one of a goose angry at you because you are passing by her house.

To be honest, I don’t know how it is even possible to write in somehow correct English and have the worst English EVER when talking. Does your brain disconnect when you open your mouth? Do your fingers follow different directions than your lips? And before you say it, it wasn’t one of the classic situations where someone else is typing instead of her (which happens a lot in those studios), I can spot that from a hundred meters. Her English was BAD, the tone of her voice was IRRITATING. What could I do?

Telling her to stop talking looked way too offensive, and the least I want to do is be nasty to a Woman. So I had just two more options: end the session and be left with blue-balls, or keep going and focus more on her look than her voice.

I opted for the second since she was really HOT and she was doing a great job at teasing me.

And, to be honest, I’m quite proud of it all ended: I managed to have a quite satisfying session and went to bed happy, with empty balls and…well… a quite empty wallet too. Which, for a PayPig, is always a sign of a good session.

Did I visit her again? You bet I did, she is way too hot not to. But for sure she never will be one of those I feel addicted to or one of those I feel like losing control with during the session: even just the thought of her voice will always be a “wake up call” for my brain. You know… like “Hey, wtf are you doing man? Stop acting weak and vulnerable: wank and stop this session, remember that she sounds like a goose!“