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Why camgirls are so hated in the BDSM community

Why camgirls are so hated in the BDSM community

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Recently i had quite a few discussions about this, and i still can’t understand all this hate. Some people in the BDSM world (both slaves AND Goddesses) simply… hate camgirls being findoms. They call them cheapfakes, prostitutes…and many many bad words more. They say a Findom Goddess should NEVER ever use her body to attract a slave, that She can’t be called a Goddess because it’s just a job for her, that she’s there in front of everyone doing everything slaves ask her to do.

To me, this is just total IGNORANCE of what a Findom Goddess in cam really does and, moreover, a way to cover the fact that they don’t do cams because they simply can’t….they need photoshop to look good.

As you all know, i’ve always served in cam…and there is just one simple reason: beauty makes me weak…and a webcam doesn’t lie (till a certain extent). You can’t post fake pictures, you can’t edit your image with Photoshop. It’s You, Your beauty, Your attitude…in front of me, in real time.

And that’s why i don’t think this is for everyone: the web is full of “cam findomme wannabe”, girls that i can probably visit once, maybe twice…then just stop forever even considering visiting them…because they don’t have “that something”.

And that’s probably why many “non cam Goddesses” hate Goddesses like OneGreatDivaAlexya, Ishtar or  MsClassy (to name a few that built their EMPIRE through cams): they know it’s impossible for them to be as gorgeous, as irresistible, as naturally dominant…so they prefer to hate them and say nasty things about them.

What do you think?

A session with the best Findom ever: One Great Diva

A session with the best Findom ever: One Great Diva

It has been a long time since i’ve posted something about Her, the one

that started it all, the one that scared the hell out of me as no one else…One Great Diva. And not because i didn’t have sessions with Her, but because She didn’t want me to write about Her on this blog. I actually had to beg Her tonight to let me do this… but i couldn’t resist. It was one of the best sessions i’ve ever had with Her.

Why? Because She’s just the best. And because She had a pair of Loubotin shoes on…and a fantastic pair of tan pantyhose. She didn’t even have to do much to drive myself crazy…just Her incredible beauty was more than enough for me to stay there…stare…and pay.

How much did i end up spending? more than 400$…in about 20 minutes…you do the math. But i don’t regret it…because what i feel when i’m at Her feet is just worth all those money…and even more….

 

This is a repost of an old article. In September 2016 i had a server crash and all site content got lost, since then i’ve been trying to repost some of the old articles

A session with the best Findom ever: OneGreatDiva

A session with the best Findom ever: OneGreatDiva

It has been a long time since i’ve posted something about Her, the one that started it all, the one that scared the hell out of me as no one else…One Great Diva. And not because i didn’t have sessions with Her, but because She didn’t want me to write about Her on this blog. I actually had to beg Her tonight to let me do this… but i couldn’t resist. It was one of the best sessions i’ve ever had with Her.

Why? Because She’s just the best. And because She had a pair of Loubotin shoes on…and a fantastic pair of tan pantyhose. She didn’t even have to do much to drive myself crazy…just Her incredible beauty was more than enough for me to stay there…stare…and pay.

How much did i end up spending? more than 400$…in about 20 minutes…you do the math. But i don’t regret it…because what i feel when i’m at Her feet is just worth all those money…and even more….

It’s over. I’m done

It’s over. I’m done

It happened quickly, with no warning or any sign that could lead me to think it could have happened. I was just out with my wife and She was dressed in the way i love: short tight dress, black pantyhose. She was stunning. I looked at her…. and suddenly i got “hit” by the thought:

“do i really need anyone else in my life?”

The thing is that, till i met Goddess Adriana, i’ve always been a slave for “fun”, or anyway not a loyal slave…i mean i wasn’t really letting any of those Goddesses enter my everyday life. Well ok, there was one exception, and that was One Great Diva…that didn’t come into my everyday life just because She didn’t want it, She thought i wasn’t ready (…and She was right, as always)….because otherwise i would have been in serious danger with her…

Anyway, generally speaking, i have always lived this situation in a way that, even if still dangerous and difficult to handle, it didn’t really make me feel too guilty with my everyday life. Because, till recently, i always managed to separate the two worlds.

I was a slave in certain moments, and the usual perfect family man the others.

And so when i realized that this was going out of control, that i was letting Goddess Adriana actually interfere my everyday life…it didn’t feel right. And so, today, i am saying it.

It’s over. I’m done being a loyal slave. 

 

Does it mean i will stop visiting those Goddesses in videochat? No. But i won’t let anyone of them come too close to me. It would be wrong, too much wrong, and would make me feel awful.

And what about Goddess Adriana? Well, she was the first one i spoke with about this, and she understood it all. She said she knew i wasn’t ready, and she was the one suggesting me to stop seeing her (a decision i already took by myself actually).

I don’t know what this blog will become from now on… but if i look at it now…it just looks plain wrong. It’s more like a Sanctuary dedicated to Goddess Adriana. I was totally nuts, totally crazy, totally out of control. But it’s over now. I won’t be the slave of anyone from now on….yes i will keep behaving as a slave because that’s my nature…but this has to be a form of entertainment for me…nothing more than that.

More than 22.000$ spent on Financial Domination

More than 22.000$ spent on Financial Domination

And so this year comes to and end. And more or less nothing changed since last year: my financial domination fetish is as strong as ever.

A few minutes ago i’ve updated my expenses record and i saw two things: in december i’ve spent less than usual…and in total, in 2013, i’ve spent 22.025$ on financial domination… that’s a hell of a lot…and something i’m ashamed of but…something i just can’t avoid it seems. Maybe the fact i’ve spend less in december could make me think that i’m improving…but how long will it last? How long till one of those Goddesses will contact me on messenger saying one of the things that excites me most?

I’m wearing nylons, and i’m going to rape your wallet tonight

I don’t know. My journey continues…my fetish isn’t stopping…and my money keeps going away from my pocket.

And while i’m writing this, i just saw one of One Great Diva’s latest pictures…

I look at these pictures…and stop thinking

I look at these pictures…and stop thinking

Sometimes… all i want is to stop thinking…and let the power of these Goddesses reduce me more or less like a zombie, unable to do anything else but submit and surrender… that’s what being a slave is like: you have a normal life, you have brain too…but then… you look at one of these pictures and something in your brain just… snaps.

And you stop thinking.

There is NO ONE like OneGreatDiva

There is NO ONE like OneGreatDiva

If you follow this blog, most probably you are going to say now “Her? again? Oh come on!”….but that’s the way it is. I can’t define myself as a loyal slave, i keep visiting new Goddesses online…but Her, OneGreatDiva, just can’t be compared to anyone else.

It’s not only her beauty (which i don’t even need to speak about)…it’s Her attitude, Her brain. As i think i said many times, for me the domination starts in the brain. I am quite an intelligent person, and i don’t fall easily as it may seem reading this blog. Yes i can fall once or twice for someone just because of Her beauty but… to keep falling deeper and deeper, to keep acting like a puppet… She needs to be smarter than me, She needs to be wiser than me, She needs to be more intelligent than me.

And that’s Her. OneGreatDiva always knows how to push my limits, always knows my weaknesses, She seems to be able to read my mind, and knows in every single moment my limits. One time she will make me spend a lot (like a few nights ago, 850$ in videochat), another time she will just refuse to even accept me on cam… it’s like She knows how much i can spend each and every time… and when i’m not around… She knows how to “call me”…by just posting some pictures on Her Twitter account

This is a repost of an old article. In September 2016 i had a server crash and all site content got lost, since then i’ve been trying to repost some of the old articles

So, is it blackmail now?

So, is it blackmail now?

Looks like something inside myself is changing, lately. I really thought financial domination would have been the deeper i could have fall regarding my fetishes, but recently i’ve started to be more and more fascinated by BlackMailing.

Blackmail is an act, often a crime, involving unjustified threats to make a gain or cause loss to another unless a demand is met [Wikipedia]

A few weeks ago i bought a Clips4Sale video from Lady Suzanne, but didn’t exactly do what she ordered in the video…most probably because it didn’t get too much into my brain (although she’s amazing, but that video probably wasn’t her best). I bought it and waited for something to happen. Of course nothing did, probably because she doesn’t get customer’s data when they buy their clips (or because it’s all just a game). But i was excited by that, i really was excited by the idea of a gorgeous and mean woman like her being able to track me down… scared and excited at the same time.

After that, i’ve started to play with the idea, started to give “hints” to the Goddesses i’ve visited online and, so far, always ended up either giving fake details (or partially fake), or just totally explode before giving them (when the Goddess was really, really good, as in some cases).

Blackmail-Shutterstock

To be honest, a couple of years ago i had a (bad) experience about blackmail, but as soon as it started (and i didn’t want that to happen that time!) i blocked the involved Goddess in any possible ways and, after a while, i got out of it….but i really didn’t like it at that time, not at all! Even OneGreatDiva once started a bit of it…but being wise as She is, She stopped as soon as She saw my reaction.

So what now? Wasn’t i a moneyslave? What’s this blackmailing thing all about? Why should i be THAT excited to give someone else the ability to totally screw my life? And then…there is this teamviewer thing… but i will tell you about it another day… it’s late, i’m in office, and i’m supposed to be going home now…

TeamViewer: blackmailing in modern times

TeamViewer: blackmailing in modern times

I’ve been reading a lot about blackmailing, as i was (and still am) fascinated by this kind of thing..there’s literally tons and tons of articles to read online, and the more i read, the more i become more or less obsessed by the idea of letting a Goddess take control of the place where all my personal data information is stored: my personal laptop.

If you look on Google for “Teamviewer blackmail” you will find lots of results, and i’m sure more and more pages will come up in the future. Basically, Teamviewer is the best software around to offer remote help on a computer. The one in need of help just run the software, gives to the other person an ID and a password, and the other one can get the full control of that computer. You will see your mouse moving by itself, the other party will be able to work on your computer exactly as he/she would have been at your side…and, even more, you can actually see eachother in a videochat inside of it.

 

It’s easy to see why this has become the main tool for blackmailing these days. The slave doesn’t actually give informations to the Goddess, he doesn’t even answer questions or anything… as soon as the Goddess order him to give her TeamViewer ID and Password…that’s it. The slave is totally screwed. No way to hide informations from her, no way to give fake details. She has complete access to your entire digital life.

And that’s exactly the most scary and exciting part of it. That’s why, so far, i have never been able to do that last step… as soon as i start giving those details…i explode. The excitement is huge, my heart start beating faster and faster and…yeah..i come.

Needless to say, OneGreatDiva is the one that got closer to that to happen…because She is just amazing and incredible powerful…but even in Her case i wasn’t able to go all the way through… i’m scared. Teamviewer is here, on my computer (i use it daily for work!)… and i’m afraid sooner or later i’ll really be…screwed.

Update 11th February 2016

I’ve met another Goddess amazing in doing this…read more here

 

This is a repost of an old article. In September 2016 i had a server crash and all site content got lost, since then i’ve been trying to repost some of the old articles

An outstanding video from OneGreatDiva

An outstanding video from OneGreatDiva

Since i first joined OneGreatDiva personal site i was always stoned (literally) by the quality of photos and videos inside the members area. She is gorgeous of course, and that helps a lot (!!!), but i was really impressed by the overall quality….well..today i almost stopped breathing when i saw the video she just put on that site homepage and on YouTube.

And also…what the video says…it’s…so damn true…

And, in case you are wondering, i am not trying to advertise Her site or anything…if you know me a bit, you all know that i write a post only when something inside myself “clicks” and make me write it…. and this video really made it for me.

It’s another reason why… i will never ever stop being One Great Diva ‘s moneyslave. She is the one. She will always be THE one.