Erotic Fiction: How Amanda became a Findom Goddess

Erotic Fiction: How Amanda became a Findom Goddess

There was a woman named Amanda who was conscious of the allure of her legs and feet. Knowing full well that wearing pricey pantyhose or stockings and high heels enhanced the attractiveness of her legs, she delighted to do so. She also liked how her heels could be used to dangle from the tips of her toes, grabbing the gaze of any male who saw her.

On a train one day, Amanda met a man named Jack who was traveling for work. Jack was focused on his task and carrying a sizable amount of money. Amanda decided to take advantage of the circumstance because she saw an opportunity to use her attractive abilities to get Jack to do anything she wanted.

Amanda started by wearing a pair of high heels and crossing her legs, allowing Jack to get a glimpse of her silky pantyhosed legs. Jack was completely captivated, and Amanda could sense the attraction he had towards her legs. She then took things to the next level by slowly dangling her heels from the tip of her toes, making Jack even more captivated by her.

Amanda was aware that she had Jack exactly where she wanted him, since he was entirely under her spell. She asked him to massage her feet, and Jack gave into her charms and did what she asked. Amanda was pleased with the result and decided to take things even further.

While others were observing, Amanda and Jack were doing footsies under the lunch table when Amanda ordered Jack to kneel in front of her. Still in her trance, Jack complied with her demands. With complete control over the situation, Amanda was having a blast.

Amanda then stated her most important request. To her surprise, Jack gave her every single penny when she asked for all of his money. Her attraction was too strong for Jack to resist, and he was totally under her spell. Amanda was satisfied with the outcome and stepped off the train with a big sum of cash.

Since then, Amanda has vowed to use her seductive abilities to manipulate any man into giving her what she wants. She first realized the actual power of her legs and feet on that particular day. Now that she was in charge, no man could resist her charm.

Author: Sonny

10 New Year’s Resolutions for the Devoted Paypig: A Lighthearted Look at Life as a Financial Submissive

10 New Year’s Resolutions for the Devoted Paypig: A Lighthearted Look at Life as a Financial Submissive

As we enter a new year, many people are thinking about their resolutions and what they want to accomplish in the coming months. But have you ever considered the resolutions of a paypig?

I doubt anyone reading this would need an explanation of what a paypig is, but for the sake of this article…here it is.

A paypig, for those who may not be familiar, is a submissive individual who derives pleasure from financially supporting a dominant partner, often in exchange for attention, affection, or other forms of psychological gratification.

So, without further ado, here are the top 10 new year’s resolutions for a paypig:

  1. “I resolve to send even more money to my Goddess because nothing brings me greater joy than making her life a little easier.”
  2. “I resolve to learn more about the financial interests of my Goddess so that I can better cater to her needs and desires.”
  3. “I resolve to be more attentive to the requests and commands of my Goddess because her pleasure is my top priority.”
  4. “I resolve to save up for that special gift that my Goddess has been hinting at because making her happy is worth any financial sacrifice.”
  5. “I resolve to be more proactive in finding new ways to serve and support my Goddess because nothing brings me greater satisfaction.”
  6. “I resolve to work harder and earn more money so that I can offer even greater financial support to my Goddess.”
  7. “I resolve to be more creative in my financial tribute because my Goddess deserves the best and most unique gifts.”
  8. “I resolve to be more patient and understanding when my Goddess tests my limits because I know it’s all part of the dynamic we share.”
  9. “I resolve to communicate more openly and honestly with my Goddess about my financial limits and boundaries because honesty and transparency are key to any healthy relationship.”
  10. “I resolve to embrace my role as a paypig and embrace the joy and fulfillment it brings me because there’s no better way to start the new year than by embracing who you truly are.”

So there you have it, the top 10 new year’s resolutions of a paypig. Whether you’re a paypig yourself (and if you are, you should click here and start acting on this list) or a Goddess reading this post, I hope you enjoyed this little bit of lighthearted fun.

The biggest frustration

The biggest frustration

This won’t be a long post, but I want to put it here to see if others ever felt the same frustration when what I’m about to describe happened. To me, this is by far the biggest frustration as a slave, one of those nights where all you can do is hit your head on the wall.

Imagine this: you haven’t had a chance to have a session with that special Goddess for a long time. The reasons behind it are not important, they can be money, lack of privacy, lack of free time, or whatever. What counts is that you haven’t seen her for a long time, and you are craving to serve Her again.

The chance

Then, one morning, she posts something on Twitter: she says that she will be online that night, and the time she says she will be there perfectly matches your free time. You know you will be online at that time, you know you will have your chance.

You dream about that moment the whole day: at home, in your car, in the office. All you can think of is what is going to happen at night. You will finally be able to serve her again, you will finally be able to let yourself go and be her slave. The moment you have been dreaming of for months.

The frustration

The night comes. You log in. You load her profile and she is offline. You stay there and refresh the page countless times. You even check your internet connection, fearing something could go wrong. Minutes pass. An hour. Two. You have been waiting for two hours, and you look at the clock and realize the worse is happening: she is not coming online. Your chance is wasted. You don’t know when you will have another one, but it’s not going to be tonight. 

That’s the biggest frustration.

Financial Domination: hated, loved, studied… and here to stay.

Financial Domination: hated, loved, studied… and here to stay.

Guest post by Sonny

A few years ago we could have said that Financial Domination was the newest trend in the BDSM scene, but today things are radically different. Financial Domination is now a quite popular part of BDSM, even though many professional dommes still don’t consider it to be “proper” BDSM and, actually, insist to say it’s all just a big scam. But did Financial Domination change the BDSM scene? And how? Let’s find out.

A brief history of Financial Domination

What started as a few wealthy men hiring “submissive” women to give them cash gifts is now a multi-billion dollar industry, with thousands of women around the world doing this as a full-time job. As we have seen, the exact moment when Financial Domination started to be a thing is hard to identify. The late 1990s and early 2000s saw an increase in this phenomenon, with websites like My Path to Financial Domination gaining a large following. Around the 2010s, the scene had already changed noticeably. Forums like Fetlife were buzzing with discussions about Financial Domination and the number of women doing this as a profession was increasing. This is when it became clear that the phenomenon was here to stay.

How popular is Financial Domination today?

It’s still hard to say how long Financial Domination will last since it’s a fairly new trend in the BDSM scene. The most significant thing about BDSM is that it thrives on constant change and evolution, with people constantly trying to outdo themselves and come up with something new. But even though Financial Domination is still something new, it’s been around for long enough to change the face of BDSM. It has become a very popular part of the scene, with many submissive men making this their primary source of income. This is a clear sign that Financial Domination is here to stay and that it has become a significant part of the BDSM world. It has even become such a popular choice that some people have even called it the “new normal” of BDSM. It’s interesting to note that this is also the title of a book about Financial Domination and BDSM written by professional dominatrix and sex educator Princess Paris.

Why Financial Domination is so hated in the BDSM scene

As we have seen, BDSM is a pretty wild and controversial scene, with many people condemning it because they don’t understand it. But even so, it’s surprising that the Financial Domination part of BDSM is so hated. Because BDSM, in general, is supposed to be all about consent, communication, and mutual pleasure, abuse and exploitation are not supposed to be part of the scene. Things are especially tough for women dominating men financially, as, unfortunately, the world is full of men with toxic masculinity who are quick to say that being exploited by a woman is not BDSM at all. But why is it that men being exploited and abused by women are the only ones unable to see the beautiful BDSM relationship that is implied in all of this? Why are they the only ones who are unable to appreciate a woman’s desire to dominate them and to make them feel happy and satisfied as part of a consensual game? The answer is simple: toxic masculinity.

How BDSM changed because of Financial Domination

New trends are emerging all the time, and this keeps the scene interesting and exciting. But every now and then there’s a paradigm shift, and we find ourselves in a new world. And this is exactly what happened when Financial Domination became a significant part of BDSM. This wasn’t a mere trend or fad – it changed the very rules and principles of the BDSM scene. The number of women doing this as a profession grew so much that many men who used to get their pleasure by being submissive and serving their female dominants started receiving their pleasure and satisfaction from having their female paypigs give them money. And as we have seen, many people condemned this, claiming it to be a scam. But as all things in life, BDSM is dynamic and highly changeable. Even if there are a few scammers, most people are doing this as a part of their relationship, in which both partners get off on the act of domination and submission. And this is how the BDSM scene changes and evolves: with new trends, new fetishes, and new ways of enjoying sex and intimacy.

The future of Financial Domination

Many people condemn BDSM because they don’t understand it. We’ve already seen that it’s a pretty wild and controversial scene. But even so, it’s surprising that the Financial Domination part of BDSM is so hated. But as we’ve also seen, BDSM is dynamic and ever-changing, with new trends, fetishes, and ways of enjoying sex and intimacy emerging all the time. And as such, it’s unlikely that Financial Domination will ever go away completely. BDSM will always be there, and it will continue to evolve and change the face of society. And as long as two consenting adults are getting their pleasure from it, there is no reason to condemn BDSM and its many manifestations.

About the author
Sonny is a BDSM enthusiast who has been experiencing many different kinds of BDSM practices in his over 20 years of experience. He loves to go deeper into the understanding of fetishes, and from time to time enjoys writing about his passion. After he discovered YourMoneySlave.com, he offered to write some guests posts every now and then

Inside the Secret World of Financial Dominatrix

Inside the Secret World of Financial Dominatrix

At first glance, financial domination or findom may seem like a niche aspect of the BDSM world. However, for those who participate in it, it is an intense and psychologically charged experience. The whole point revolves around an exchange of financial control between a submissive and a financial dominatrix. 

Findom has grown dramatically thanks to online communities, such as Findommeet, Fetlife, and a subreddit that’s dedicated to this topic. These platforms allowed experienced dominatrixes and curious subbies to explore this niche in a discrete and safe way. 

In this article, we will dive deep into the secret world of financial dominatrixes and uncover the secrets of findom. Secrets that you need to know if you’re curious about this world (either as a submissive or a dominatrix). 

What Is Financial Domination? 

Financial domination (shortened to findom) is a power exchange where a submissive (referred to as a “paypig” or “finsub”) willingly gives up control of their finances to a dominant individual. This dynamic usually revolves around a submissive individual who provides financial tributes, gifts, and even access to bank accounts to their dominatrix. In return, the submissive derives pleasure from the act of submission and the psychological control that’s exerted by the dominatrix. 

Contrary to popular belief, the interaction between the financial dominatrix and the submissive doesn’t generally involve physical contact. In fact, the majority of relationships take place entirely online. However, some may include real-life meetings, especially in cases where the submissive accompanies the dominatrix on shopping trips and pays for their purchases. 

It’s Not “Easy Money” 

One of the biggest misconceptions about being a financial dominatrix is that it’s easy money. Many who are curious about the findom world may think that it’s as simple as posting their PayPal or CashApp link and waiting for the money to roll in. 

As one findom, you need to understand that It’s not just free money. A lot of girls ask about getting into findom and expect it to be a walk in the park but it’s not. You first need to establish yourself as a successful financial dominatrix, which requires significant effort to build an online presence, promote relationships with submissives, and understand the psychological elements that make this kink so appealing. 

Consider the platforms that we listed above to learn more about this kink and its different aspects. These communities provide insights from both dominatrixes and submissives, which aids newcomers to understand that financial domination is much more than a simple request for money. It involves other aspects, such as control, respect, and mutual understanding. 

The Key to Success is to Craft Your Persona 

One of the most important aspects to become a successful financial dominatrix is to create a powerful and captivating persona. Many findoms choose titles like “Goddess,” “Mistress,” or “Queen” to assert their authority and dominance. This persona is indispensable as it communicates to potential submissives that you are confident, in control, and worthy of their submission. 

For instance, Fetlife is a platform where dominatrixes can demonstrate their personas, connect with submissives, and build an online presence. So, make sure to share content that reflects your personality, your values, and what makes you unique as a domme. 

Focus on the following aspects: 

·       Post photos 

·       Share stories 

·       Create content that aligns with your dominant persona 

The Psychology Behind Findom 

For many finsubs, the appeal of financial domination lies in the psychological aspect of the power exchange. Submissives will get a thrill from giving up control of their finances. This is an area that is generally viewed as one of the most personal and important aspects of their lives. This surrender can be very erotic and satisfying for the submissive who may view their financial tributes as a form of worship or devotion to their dominatrix. 

An example of findom is when a submissive individual consensually gives up their credit card to their dominatrix (e.g., a professional worker, his wife). Another example is the need to ask for snack money from the domme. The denial of financial autonomy is a vital part of their fetish as it reinforces their sense of powerlessness and devotion. 

This psychological control is what differentiates findom from other forms of BDSM. The exchange is mainly emotional and mental. This is one of the reasons that findom has found a large audience online, where distance and anonymity can heighten the experience for both the financial dominatrix and the submissive. 

The Ethics of Findom 

We know that this field is all about kinks and fetishes, but you still need to consider the ethics of findom. The most important aspect is to emphasize consent and clear communication between the dominatrix and the submissive. 

Seasoned dommes explain that when you get consent, you won’t feel guilty about taking money from men. These men are willing to give up control and provide the submissives with the experience they crave. Also, don’t forget to encourage your sub to clearly define their boundaries. 

It Takes Time 

Similar to other types of relationships, you need to build trust and rapport between a financial dominatrix and a submissive, which takes time. Patience is a vital factor in findom. You see, both parties need to feel comfortable with the power exchange and the financial tributes. 

Experienced findoms recommend that you start slow. First, get to know your submissives and understand what their limits are. You must create a dynamic that works for both parties. Otherwise, failure is guaranteed. Over time, the relationship between a findom and their submissive can grow stronger. 

Takeaway message 

The world of financial domination is complex, psychologically charged, and shares a beautiful dynamic of power and control. If you want to make it in this field, remember that findom provides an opportunity to explore power exchanges that go beyond the physical to touch on the emotional and financial aspects. 

Whether you want to become a financial dominatrix or are curious about the submissive role, it’s important to approach the practice with respect, clear boundaries, and an understanding of the psychological nuances that are involved.