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In depth reflections on psychology, motivation, desire, control, and the mental aspects behind financial submission.

Can Findom and a Committed Relationship Coexist?

Can Findom and a Committed Relationship Coexist?

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Over the past 16 years, my journey in financial domination has taught me countless lessons—not just about findom itself, but about relationships, balance, and what it means to live authentically. One question I’ve often seen asked, and one I’ve grappled with myself, is this: Can you enjoy findom while being in a committed relationship? Now, to be clear, I’m not talking about relationships where findom is openly discussed, accepted, or even part of the dynamic. Those are rare in my…

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Exploring the Nature of Findom Sessions: Pleasure or Punishment?

Exploring the Nature of Findom Sessions: Pleasure or Punishment?

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During a recent conversation with a fellow paypig, I came to realize the diverse ways in which individuals approach Financial Domination sessions. Personally, I view findom as a treat, while others perceive it as a means of escape or relief from life’s pressures. Let’s delve into these two distinct approaches and their implications. Approach 1: Financial Domination as a Reward In my case, I engage in findom sessions as a form of self-reward when things are going well in my…

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The Findom Cycle

The Findom Cycle

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I have been a moneyslave for more than 10 years now, and sometimes I like to sit back and take a look at my actions from an “external” point of view: it’s interesting to find common paths that happen over and over the years, some common sequence of events that characterize me as a moneyslave.  There is one in particular that I can see repeating itself over and over, almost daily in some periods, it’s the one I like to call: The Findom Cycle. It’s…

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Money is meant to be spent, don’t hold back

Money is meant to be spent, don’t hold back

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Everything about Financial Domination starts (and ends) with money. This is quite an obvious fact: we get excited when we pay the Domme, when she takes money from us or when she abuses our weaknesses to bring us in giving her more and more. The dilemma is always the same: how much should we spend? Giving her everything In a perfect financial domination relationship, the slave gives everything to his Goddess, leaving her all the control on what he can or cannot spend. If he…

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Sex is overrated.

Sex is overrated.

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Did the title catch your attention? I hope so, because I will try to explain better what I mean, and I do hope to have your full attention. Not sure if many slaves will agree on me about this, but I’m kinda curious about it. What does excite me? That’s where this all idea started. I started questioning myself what is that gets me going, what excites me, what…well…what makes me hard the most. And you will probably say “Come on,…

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Money slavery: here’s how I found my balance

Money slavery: here’s how I found my balance

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As you probably all know, I’m a moneyslave for ages now (five? six? I lost count). At first, I tried to fight this fetish of mine. Let’s face it, this is probably one of the worst fetishes when it comes to its interference into your everyday life. You end up spending a lot of money that you could have been used in other ways (for your life, your family, whatever). So it’s obvious that i first tried to fight it, to…

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Everything you think you know about addiction is WRONG

Everything you think you know about addiction is WRONG

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Today i stumbled across this TED talk from Johann Hari, a british journalist that spent three years researching the war on drugs, trying to understand if what we know about drugs and addiction is correct…or wrong. I won’t spoil the video too much, but it’s rather interesting for all those people that thinks to know everything about addictions….and especially for all those people coming up with “you should just stop, this is stupid”. And yes, financial domination can be quite…

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Here’s why staying away from Financial Domination is worst than embracing it

Here’s why staying away from Financial Domination is worst than embracing it

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This is a lesson I’m learning through time and huge mistakes: if I stay away from financial domination, I’m always ending up spending more when I get back to it (because I always do). The same thing happened last night when, after about a month of low expenses, I saw a Goddess was online and I couldn’t stop myself from visiting her again. Again, She was absolutely stunning. After a while that we were just talking (well I was trying…

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