Frequent errors that can push submissives away, limit long term engagement, or weaken perceived authority.
First of all, let me say that I’m not quite sure if I already wrote about this matter in the past, but I’m simply too angry to go and check. I just NEED to cool it off by writing it down. If you want to be considered a Goddess online, don’t look f***ing cheap. Don’t ACT cheap. Don’t DRESS cheap. Don’t TALK cheap. Don’t THINK cheap. Let’s stop looking at this from the slave/Goddess perspective point of view, and for…
Not all Goddesses are born equal: there is a large variety of them out there. Some may appeal to a certain type of slaves, some to another. Some may have a certain kind of beauty, some others a different one. It’s the beauty of life: to each his own. But there are some kinds of Goddesses that I really can’t stand. They just get on my nerves, making me almost want to kick them in the ass. I thought of…
If you read this blog since a while, you know how I HATE instadommes, especially for the waste of time they are for me and other real slaves that get flooded with identical messages on Twitter. Why I hate instadommes One of the things I hate the most about them is how they are acting ALL in the SAME way, like if there would be a rule “do this and slaves will magically pay you”. A typical instadomme will: Approach…
here are we going? When did Financial Domination start being some sort of mainstream shopping? WHY?!?!? It’s black friday today…and surely we are all looking for any kind of offer..but… i never expected to read a Goddess saying “Buy me a 20$ gift card and get a video for free” Darling… i am NOT shopping. I am NOT looking for offers. I am looking for YOU taking money from me in the most sexy way, in a way i can’t say no……
I am into financial domination sice a few years now (6, if i’m not wrong) and, in all this time, i have seen our fetish grow in popularity. These days, almost everyone who’s into any kind of fetish or involved in any kind of adult work speaks and knows about it. And that’s BAD. Why is that bad, you might say? Because now every girl thinks she can be a Financial Domination Domme…so she opens up a facebook or twitter…
What’s wrong with the new Goddesses Wannabe? They keep contacting me asking to be their slave, as if all i need to become someone’s slave is for her to ask me (or to order it to me). Do i look that stupid? Do they think i spend what i spend just for charity, with anyone that comes up to my door asking for it? Jeez….i even got a few requests from masters! LOL! Guys i’m NOT into that ok? If i look…
Recently i had quite a few discussions about this, and i still can’t understand all this hate. Some people in the BDSM world (both slaves AND Goddesses) simply… hate camgirls being findoms. They call them cheap, fakes, prostitutes…and many many bad words more. They say a Findom Goddess should NEVER ever use her body to attract a slave, that She can’t be called a Goddess because it’s just a job for her, that she’s there in front of everyone doing everything slaves ask her to…
Basically, i am no one… so i don’t really receive messages often from the “contact me” page here. But sometimes i do, usually from others sharing the same experience of me, writing me to exchange opinions or just talk. Other times i get messages from “dommes” that say “i’m the best bla bla bla spoil me” (and that’s just not what a domme should do)… but what i got yesterday… was surreal. So DUMB that i couldn’t even believe it…
Article originally posted on January 10th, 2012 Why, with all the gorgeous Mistresses that are already raping my wallet on a regular basis, do some “so called Goddesses” think they could just message me, coming out of nowhere, and ask me: “Do you want to be my moneyslave?” No, i don’t WANT to be a moneyslave, i don’t WANT to be a moneyslave of no one, especially if i don’t even know who you are or where you are coming…