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About pathetic goddesses and… Masters!

About pathetic goddesses and… Masters!

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What’s wrong with the new Goddesses Wannabe? They keep contacting me asking to be their slave, as if all i need to become someone’s slave is for her to ask me (or to order it to me). Do i look that stupid? Do they think i spend what i spend just for charity, with anyone that comes up to my door asking for it?

Jeez….i even got a few requests from masters! LOL! Guys i’m NOT into that ok? If i look at you acting as a master, i will just LAUGH as loudly as i can. To me, there is no such thing as a “Master”. We are inferior creatures and we simply can’t compete with women. Masters shouldn’t even exist in my opinion!

Look..it’s that simple:

If i don’t come to you begging for your attention, it means i am NOT interested.

And you asking (or “ordering”) for that only makes you look pathetic in my eyes. So it’s pointless. Maybe there are slaves that start serving anyone coming to them demanding it…but i doubt the real, good slaves (like myself) are like that.
I spend a lot (at least compared to what i earn for a living) but i DON’T give my money just to anyone.

Is it clear? Hope so…but i’m sure those requests will keep coming…

Why camgirls are so hated in the BDSM community

Why camgirls are so hated in the BDSM community

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Recently i had quite a few discussions about this, and i still can’t understand all this hate. Some people in the BDSM world (both slaves AND Goddesses) simply… hate camgirls being findoms. They call them cheap, fakes, prostitutes…and many many bad words more. They say a Findom Goddess should NEVER ever use her body to attract a slave, that She can’t be called a Goddess because it’s just a job for her, that she’s there in front of everyone doing everything slaves ask her to do.

To me, this is just total IGNORANCE of what a Findom Goddess in cam really does and, moreover, a way to cover the fact that they don’t do cams because they simply can’t….they need photoshop to look good.

As you all know, i’ve always served in cam…and there is just one simple reason: beauty makes me weak…and a webcam doesn’t lie (till a certain extent). You can’t post fake pictures, you can’t edit your image with Photoshop. It’s You, Your beauty, Your attitude…in front of me, in real time.

And that’s why i don’t think this is for everyone: the web is full of “cam findomme wannabe”, girls that i can probably visit once, maybe twice…then just stop forever even considering visiting them…because they don’t have “that something”.

And that’s probably why many “non cam Goddesses” hate Goddesses like OneGreatDiva, Alexya, Ishtar or  MsClassy (to name a few that built their EMPIRE through cams): they know it’s impossible for them to be as gorgeous, as irresistible, as naturally dominant…so they prefer to hate them and say nasty things about them.

What do you think?

The dumbest message i ever got

The dumbest message i ever got

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Basically, i am no one… so i don’t really receive messages often from the “contact me” page here. But sometimes i do, usually from others sharing the same experience of me, writing me to exchange opinions or just talk. Other times i get messages from “dommes” that say “i’m the best bla bla bla spoil me” (and that’s just not what a domme should do)… but what i got yesterday… was surreal. So DUMB that i couldn’t even believe it was real.

So i get this message:

I don’t really know what all this crap is. All I know is that I’m a female and I want money for doing nothing. I’m a student who needs to pay off some things like books and all that.

At first i just thought this was a joke… wanted to ignore that…but i thought on answering, just to see if it could go on…

Good luck with your studies then

I thought it was over.. but then i even got another reply!

So you’re going to pay me?

How can you be SO dumb? Can you even read english? Can you even TRY to understand what is this all about???
I might not be the most intelligent person ever…but at least, before contacting someone, i try to read a bit more…i try to avoid looking like a complete IDIOT.

Oh well..what can i say…at least she put a smile on my face

The 5 Major Turn Offs For Slaves

The 5 Major Turn Offs For Slaves

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A while ago i wrote a post about how a slave should approach a Goddess online and I still believe that’s very accurate and, at least, a good starting point for any “slave wannabe”. But..what about all those “Goddesses wannabes“? Would it help them know the things they need to avoid, in order to keep people with them? I don’t know…but I feel like putting down this list so…here are the 5 major turn-offs for slaves (at least for one like me)

1. Bad English

I am sorry, but if you just can’t type in proper English… don’t even bother to pretend You are a Goddess. You are not…or at least, if you are, try to be one with guys from your own country…because as for me, your bad English will just be a huge turn-off.

2. Brain smaller than mine

You can’t control a slave’s mind just because you are wearing some boots and stockings, or because you are wearing a fake cock. You need to have something inside that brain of yours. You need to show me that you are way more wise and intelligent than me. You need to show me that I can also admire you for your culture, not just for your beauty.

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3. No listening

Lots of Goddesses (even successful ones) always say “I don’t care about what a slave wants, I am the Goddess”. I can understand this in part…but if the slave tells you, for example, that “pantyhose make me weak”…why would you ignore that? If he tells you “i am excited by blackmailing”, why would you ignore that? If you don’t listen to what I say and don’t even try to do things to put me in trouble…well…I won’t be in trouble: I’ll be looking for another Goddess as soon as possible.

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4. Cheap setup

We are in 2014: an HD webcam doesn’t cost a fortune, and putting up some nice furniture and lighting in a room shouldn’t be a big issue for someone that wants her slaves to pay 12$ a minute to see her. If your setup looks cheap, you look cheap to me… and I surely won’t feel weak for long in front of you.

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5. Broken nylons

Ok…this is just for the nylon fetishist that I am… But it can relate to the point above: if you break your nylons…put a new pair on. Are you so cheap that you can’t even afford a new pair of nylons? Really?

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So that’s it… that’s what I felt like writing tonight… hope I didn’t offend anyone by writing it…but if I did…well…perhaps it’s because you are just a… “Goddess wannabe”

No, i don’t WANT to be your moneyslave

No, i don’t WANT to be your moneyslave

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Article originally posted on January 10th, 2012

No Yelling

 

Why, with all the gorgeous Mistresses that are already raping my wallet on a regular basis, do some “so called Goddesses” think they could just message me, coming out of nowhere, and ask me:

“Do you want to be my moneyslave?”

No, i don’t WANT to be a moneyslave, i don’t WANT to be a moneyslave of no one, especially if i don’t even know who you are or where you are coming from. You are supposed to be a Goddess, someone up there waiting for slaves to come to her, you are not supposed to need to ask for it.

If you ask for it, then you simply are NOT a real Financial Domination Mistress. Simply as that. NONE of the gorgeous women that brought me all these problems these years ever asked me if i wanted to be their moneyslave. It was always me to contact them first and, most often, after that i usually needed to…wait in line, for my turn.

If you ask me if i WANT to be your moneyslave, it simply means you are NOT a Goddess. Simply as that. So you may as well STOP asking me that.

I’m sick and tired of all those so called Mistresses that believe all i need is them to ask me if i WANT to submit to them… again, i don’t WANT to be your moneyslave.