Reply To: Are you a loyal slave?
all of you guys thoughts are valid, i can relate to them.
i was extremely loyal to one domme for many years, only occasionally chatting to anyone else. when we ‘drifted’ it wasn’t due to me (much).
i then found it very difficult to find any women i could get aong with and, as you say, the time that it takes to get to know someone. i’ve often thought i found someone special only to find that i’ve lost interest after a few days or weeks.
other times, i’ve been in ‘that state’ and been flitting around trying to chat with dommes to find someone suitable. usually they are new to it or too young to get it or not interested in taking the time to know a sub. deeply unsatisfying when you get in that mess. i suspect that this is the reason why you have ‘a few favourites’ and will go to another if your current favourite is not online. i don’t think that is disloyal but no doubt your dommes do. timing and availability is very important indeed for them to catch you in the right mood. especially if they are not able to create the mood because they don’t know you well enough.
smuk