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The Post-Skype Chaos: One Month Later, Where Are We Now?

March 24, 2025 YourMoneySlave Comments 0 Comment

a laptop with skype on it is switching off, as Skype is being discontinued

As I promised in my latest article, it’s time for a little update on the Skype situation. It’s been a month since Microsoft announced the end of Skype, and I’ve been closely watching how things have been evolving, especially in our little world of Findom and private communication.

Let’s go over what’s been happening, where people are moving (if anywhere), and how this so-called “migration” is going.

Microsoft Teams: Not the Replacement We Hoped For

When Microsoft dropped the bomb about shutting Skype down, they followed it with something vague like:

“By logging in to Teams Free with your Skype account, your chats and contacts will appear in the app so you can pick up where you left off. This capability will gradually roll out over the coming days.”

Now tell me—why announce it if it’s not ready? I spent weeks trying to log into Teams with my Skype account, and for days: nothing. Zero. Then, a few days ago, it finally happened. I logged in, and boom, my Skype contacts and chat history were there. I thought, “Great! Let’s move forward.” So I uninstalled Skype.

But no, it’s not all great. Far from it. Here’s why Teams is still a mess for what we used Skype for:

1. Only One Personal Account at a Time

With Skype, you could switch between multiple personal accounts. Maybe one for friends, one for work, one for Findom, whatever. Teams? Nope. You can only be logged in with one personal account per device. If you want to use another one, you have to sign out, remove the old one, and start all over again. Every. Single. Time.

2. You Can’t Rename Contacts

Seriously. How is this still a thing? With Skype, I used to rename contacts based on how I knew them, especially useful when Goddesses go by different names across platforms. In Teams? Not possible. You’re stuck with whatever username they’ve got, which makes searching through your list a real nightmare.

3. The Mobile App Doesn’t Sync Properly

Try logging into Teams mobile with your Skype account, and… surprise! Your chats and contacts aren’t there. And if you start a new conversation, it opens up on your desktop as an entirely separate chat thread. Confusing and disjointed. Basically, it’s still broken.

Telegram? Seems Promising, But…

At first, I really thought Telegram could be the next best thing. It’s fast, loaded with features, highly private… sounds perfect, right?

But there’s a major issue: you need a phone number to register. That alone makes it really hard to keep your Findom life separate from your personal or work one. Unless you go the route of burner numbers or second devices, which… come on, we’re not all James Bond.

So for now, Telegram is off the table for private one-on-one Findom sessions, at least for me.

Discord: A Possible Alternative?

Someone in the comments of my previous post mentioned Discord. I gave it a try. Technically, it works. You can chat, call, send media: just like Skype. But here’s the thing: it doesn’t feel right.

I haven’t found any Goddesses I follow using Discord as a primary tool, and honestly, it feels more like a place for gamers or communities, not private one-on-one sessions. Maybe that will change. Who knows.

So… What’s the Actual Replacement for Skype?

Right now? There isn’t one.

For me, Skype is gone. If you want to send me a message (I will answer when I can, since at the moment I am not really using any of these as a Skype replacement), I’m reachable on:

X
Reddit
BlueSky
Discord (but only if you’re already using it…)

Teams doesn’t work because I need multiple personal accounts. Telegram doesn’t work because of the phone number issue. And for the moment, nothing really replaces Skype. At least not properly.

Side note: The Findom Alerts Telegram Channel stays active, obviously (and it is actually growing fast!). That’s a different story, broadcast-only, not for personal chatting.

What’s Happening With SkyPrivate?

SkyPrivate is the site that allows paid Skype video sessions. As soon as Microsoft made their announcement, they said they were working on a replacement integration with Teams.

One month later? Still no news. None of the Goddesses I follow have enabled the Teams option, and the site still features Skype links front and center.

If you ask me, this is going to hit them hard. Which is a shame, because the service was actually useful for pay-per-minute live sessions.

Final Thoughts

It’s been a month, and we’re still in limbo. Personally, I’m navigating through various platforms to stay connected, but there’s no real, solid alternative to Skype yet, at least not for the kind of use we need in Findom.

So I’ll throw the question back to you:

What are you using now? Have you found a platform that works as well (or better) than Skype? Are you just sticking with the old tools until the last minute? Or are you as lost as the rest of us?

Let me know. This isn’t over yet.

The End of Skype: What’s Next for Findom?

February 28, 2025 YourMoneySlave Comments 0 Comment

nd of Skype – A businesswoman in stockings lounges confidently in a dimly lit office, with a laptop displaying alternative messaging apps and cash on the table. 'Skype Discontinued' is visible in the background, symbolizing the shift in online communication.

Today, Microsoft dropped a bombshell: Skype will be officially discontinued in May, with users encouraged to migrate to Microsoft Teams instead. While this news sent waves of shock across the internet, for many in the Findom community, it felt like the ground beneath us had suddenly shifted.

Skype has long been the go-to platform for private, unrestricted conversations between PayPigs and Goddesses. It’s where real connections are built, where financial submission happens beyond the limits of traditional cam sites, and where Findom relationships thrive away from the prying eyes of censorship-heavy platforms. So, what now?

A Look Back: When Skype Took Over

I still remember the early days of Findom, more than 15 years ago. Back then, MSN Messenger and Yahoo Messenger were the kings of instant messaging. Most Goddesses preferred Yahoo Messenger, and I was hooked on it myself. But things changed when Microsoft took over Skype, MSN was phased out, and Yahoo Messenger faded into obscurity.

For years, Skype was the place for private sessions, financial drains, and deep one-on-one interactions. But let’s be honest—this moment has been coming for a while. The lack of real updates, the slow but steady decline of its features, and the push for Microsoft Teams made it clear that Skype was living on borrowed time.

Where Do We Go From Here?

Right now, the best move is to wait and see where the majority of Goddesses and PayPigs migrate. It’s possible that some will simply move over to Microsoft Teams. But let’s be real—Teams is far from ideal for Findom. If you already use it for work (like I do), having a second Teams account dedicated to Findom is a nightmare. It’s heavily integrated into Microsoft’s ecosystem, tied to email and calendars, and running multiple accounts on the same device is nearly impossible.

A more likely contender? Telegram.

Feature-rich & private – It has all the tools needed for Findom, with strong privacy settings.
No censorship fears – Unlike Skype or traditional cam platforms, Telegram offers more freedom.
Findom Alerts – If you know, you know.

But again, it’s too early to tell. The announcement just dropped, and most people are still figuring out their next move. The only thing that’s certain? This isn’t the end of private Findom sessions—just a shift into a new era.

Oh, and let’s not forget the elephant in the room: SkyPrivate. What does this mean for them? That’s a whole other discussion—one I’ll definitely be writing about soon. Stay tuned.

Best PayPig Type: What Kind of Man Spends the Most in Findom?

February 21, 2025 YourMoneySlave Comments 0 Comment

What is the best PayPig type? What kind of man is most likely to send large tributes consistently and stay devoted for years?

After more than 15 years in Financial Domination, I’ve spoken with countless men who have indulged in this fetish. From college students barely making ends meet to successful professionals and retired men, I’ve seen it all.

Some send recklessly, others disappear after a few months, and then there are those who never stop giving. But what separates a high-spending, long-term PayPig from the rest?

The Relationship Between Money and Findom

The best PayPig type isn’t necessarily the one who earns the most—it’s the one who has the deepest emotional connection to money. Their attitude toward wealth determines whether they burn out quickly or remain enslaved for years.

Let’s break down the three main types of PayPigs and see which one truly stands out.

The Broke PayPig

Some PayPigs struggle financially but still can’t resist the thrill of giving. They live paycheck to paycheck, constantly choosing between paying bills and sending tributes.

For them, the ultimate fantasy is being completely financially destroyed—to hit absolute rock bottom for a Goddess.

But the problem is obvious: how long can they last?

A PayPig with no financial stability will inevitably disappear. The fantasy is powerful, but reality catches up. Eventually, they stop serving—whether due to bankruptcy, fear, or necessity.

A desperate man at his desk, surrounded by unpaid bills, staring at a laptop screen as he prepares to send money to a dominant woman — Even with nothing left, the Broke PayPig still feels the irresistible urge to send more, sinking further into financial ruin.

The Careless PayPig

This PayPig has enough money to spend, but he doesn’t truly value it. He enjoys the thrill of submission but doesn’t see findom as anything deeper than entertainment.

He spends impulsively, sends large tributes, and may even look like a dedicated sub. But there’s one problem—he lacks emotional investment.

Once the novelty wears off, he moves on. He never builds a true addiction to the power exchange, and eventually, he quits findom altogether.

A relaxed man in a luxury setting, throwing money in the air while a dominant woman watches from her throne, unimpressed. — The Careless PayPig spends without thought, enjoying the thrill for now, but his devotion won’t last.

The Greedy PayPig – The Best PayPig Type

Now, here’s the category that creates the best, most consistent PayPigs—the ones who last for years and send the most money.

These men love money. Not just having it, but making it, chasing it, and accumulating more of it. They take pride in wealth, constantly striving to earn more.

And yet, they also have an insatiable need to give it away.

For them, financial domination isn’t just about losing money—it’s about the psychological rush of surrendering something they deeply value. The contrast between their obsession with wealth and their need to be drained makes findom an endless addiction.

These PayPigs enter a self-sustaining cycle:

Work more → Earn more → Tribute more → Repeat.

They will always find a way to come back because money is central to their identity. The more they make, the more they crave financial domination.

A wealthy businessman in a sleek office, torn between his obsession with making money and his addiction to tributing a powerful Goddess. — The Greedy PayPig—the ultimate findom addict. He earns more, spoils more, and always comes back for more.

Why Greedy Men Make the Best PayPigs

They constantly chase money, ensuring they can keep tributing without going broke
They experience deep psychological satisfaction from findom, making it an addiction rather than a phase
They thrive on status and power, which makes them seek higher levels of submission
Their greed makes them want more of everything—including the thrill of serving

This is why the best PayPig type is almost always the one who understands and values money the most. Their love for wealth fuels their obsession with financial domination, keeping them locked in a never-ending cycle of submission.

Which Type Are You?

So, where do you fit? Are you a broke PayPig chasing the fantasy of ruin? A careless PayPig who will eventually move on? Or are you the greedy PayPig—the one who will always return, always send more, always be owned?

Or do you believe there’s another type of PayPig worth discussing? Let’s talk.

Dominating Your Earnings: A Findom Guide to Maximizing Online Income

February 6, 2025 YourMoneySlave Comments 0 Comment

A luxurious and seductive scene featuring a dominant woman’s legs in sheer black nylons and high heels, elegantly resting on a lavish desk. Stacks of cash, a sleek laptop, and glowing financial data visuals surround her, symbolizing power, wealth, and financial domination. The bold text overlay reads 'MAXIMIZE YOUR FINDOM EARNINGS,' emphasizing control and success in the online findom world.

Beyond my journey in findom, which started 16 years ago, I’ve also been deeply involved in the world of online camming for over 20 years. I started back when live streaming was nothing like what it is today—when video feeds were choppy, image quality was a far cry from even the lowest-resolution photos, and yet, the thrill of interacting with a model in real time was already something that fascinated me.

Over the years, I’ve not only been a viewer and a paypig, but I’ve also had the chance to develop close relationships with some of the models and Goddesses I’ve served. Some of them turned to me for tech advice, others shared insights about their struggles and strategies for succeeding in this industry. Through these conversations, I gained a deeper understanding of the challenges a model faces when building her online empire.

That’s why I feel confident in offering some advice to models who are either just starting or looking to optimize their earnings. One of the biggest mistakes I see—time and time again—is models relying on just one platform and having little to no presence on social media. If you’re serious about this business, that’s one of the worst things you can do.

Why Relying on Just One Platform is a Risk

I’ve seen it happen so many times: a model finds success on a platform, money flows consistently, and she becomes comfortable. Since she’s doing well where she is, she doesn’t see the need to expand elsewhere. The problem? No platform is forever.

Platforms shut down overnight. Just look at what happened with iFriends, one of the biggest cam sites of its time—it disappeared from one day to the next, leaving thousands of models scrambling.
Platforms lose traffic or become less profitable. The site that’s bringing in good money today might suddenly introduce policy changes, payment cuts, or technical issues that drive customers elsewhere.
Platforms force changes that impact your brand. A few years ago, a well-known cam site suddenly required all models to use a first and last name (even if fake). Many models who had built strong brands using unique nicknames lost recognition overnight.

If you’re only present on one platform and it goes down, changes rules, or loses traffic, you lose everything. Your audience is gone, your income disappears, and you’re left starting from scratch. That’s why you need a multi-platform strategy.

More Platforms, More Exposure, More Money

If you want to build a sustainable career in this industry, you need to be present on at least two or three platforms.

Yes, it can be overwhelming at first. Yes, some platforms will be less profitable than others. But you never know where your next big spender—your next whale—will come from. I’ve personally witnessed high-paying customers appear out of nowhere on a platform a model was barely using.

Being present on multiple platforms protects you from unexpected changes and maximizes your earning potential. The key is to find the right mix of platforms that allow you to balance live camming, passive income, and direct engagement with your audience.

Why You NEED a Fan Site

A fan site is one of the smartest ways to diversify your income. Unlike cam sites, where income is tied to your live presence, a fan site allows you to make money even when you’re offline.

Here’s why every serious model should be on at least one fan site:
✅ Recurring Income: Subscription-based models ensure you have a steady income every month.
✅ Multiple Revenue Streams: From PPV (pay-per-view) content to one-on-one messaging, there are so many ways to get your audience to spend.
✅ Freedom to Post What You Want: Unlike cam sites, where you’re tied to live streaming, here you can monetize pictures, videos, voice notes, and even simple interactions.

That said, simply joining a fan site isn’t enough—you need to actively use it. Models who succeed with fan sites:
🔥 Post exclusive content for subscribers so they have a reason to stay.
🔥 Offer a mix of free content to attract new followers and premium content to monetize.
🔥 Regularly send private messages to subscribers, as direct engagement often leads to more spending.

If you don’t have time to manage this daily, spend just 1-2 hours per week uploading content and messaging followers. The long-term benefits far outweigh the time investment.

The Power of Social Media: Control Where Your Fans Spend

A conversation with a very successful Goddess opened my eyes to a major advantage of being active on social media. If you have a strong presence on social media, YOU control where your fans spend money.

Think about it:
🔹 If a fan follows you on social media, he’s invested in YOU—not just the platform you’re on.
🔹 You can direct him to whichever platform benefits you the most—whether it’s your cam site, fan site, or even direct payments.
🔹 No cam site or fan site will ever allow you to send users to another platform, but social media gives you that power.

Social media isn’t just about visibility—it’s about owning your audience. If you lose access to one platform, but your fans follow you on social media, you won’t lose your customers.

My Personal Recommendations

Based on my experience as a paypig and conversations with successful models, here’s what I recommend for a well-rounded online presence:

🔴 Live Cam Platforms:
💎 Jasmin – One of the highest-paying cam sites, great for premium clients.
💎 SkyPrivate – Allows models to charge per minute via Skype, giving more control over earnings.

📸 Fan Site Platforms:
💎 LoyalFans – A great subscription-based fan site with multiple monetization options. (I’ve written a detailed post on why I believe it’s the best – read it here)

📱 Social Media:
💎 X (Twitter) and BlueSky – Best platforms for adult content promotion.
💎 Instagram & TikTok – Can be useful but should be non-adult to avoid bans.

Final Thoughts: Think Like a Businesswoman

If you’re serious about making money in this industry, you need to think long-term. The models who make the most money aren’t just beautiful—they’re smart. They understand that camming is a business, and businesses need multiple revenue streams to survive and grow.

Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Be present on multiple platforms.
Leverage a fan site to build passive income.
Use social media to control where your fans spend their money.

Yes, it’s more work. But it’s work that pays off. In an industry where platforms rise and fall, being adaptable and in control of your brand is what will make you successful.

Can Findom and a Committed Relationship Coexist?

January 29, 2025 YourMoneySlave Comments 0 Comment

Over the past 16 years, my journey in financial domination has taught me countless lessons—not just about findom itself, but about relationships, balance, and what it means to live authentically. One question I’ve often seen asked, and one I’ve grappled with myself, is this: Can you enjoy findom while being in a committed relationship?

Now, to be clear, I’m not talking about relationships where findom is openly discussed, accepted, or even part of the dynamic. Those are rare in my experience and not something I would personally pursue. I’m talking about someone like me—a sub deeply drawn to findom who also happens to be in a long-term romantic relationship or marriage, where findom is entirely off the radar for their partner.

Is it wrong? Is it cheating? Should you choose between findom and your partner? And if you want to keep both, how can you do so without causing harm to your loved ones? These are heavy questions, and while I don’t claim to have all the answers, I hope sharing my experiences and thoughts can help others navigate this delicate balance.

The Inspiration for This Post

Before diving in, I want to acknowledge something: part of what inspired me to write this post was the discussions I’ve seen in the paypigsupportgroup subreddit. This space has been a source of reflection and new perspectives for me, and I thought it was time to share my story in the hopes it might help others.

Is Findom Cheating?

Let’s address the first—and often most debated—question: is findom cheating?

If we stick to the textbook definition of “cheating” as acting dishonestly or unfairly for personal gain, then yes, findom qualifies. Engaging in findom often provides a kind of sexual or psychological gratification, and doing so without your partner’s knowledge could be considered a betrayal of trust.

But—and this is a big but—not all forms of “cheating” are equal. There’s emotional cheating, physical infidelity, and then there are fetishes like findom that occupy a different space altogether. For me, it’s not just about the dictionary definition; it’s about the impact my actions have on my partner and family.

Addiction or Part of My Sexuality?

This is a question I’ve wrestled with for years. I’ve often found myself torn between the guilt of engaging in findom and the undeniable need I feel to include it in my life.

I’ve tried quitting findom multiple times, sometimes for months at a stretch. But every time I stopped, I noticed the same pattern: I wasn’t happy. I became irritable, disconnected, and less present for my loved ones. It wasn’t just about missing findom—it felt like I was denying a part of myself.

Some might say this is evidence of addiction, and I won’t dismiss that entirely. But I’ve come to see findom as an integral part of my sexuality. It’s not something I can simply “turn off.” Instead, I’ve learned that I need to balance it with the other aspects of my life—work, family, and love—to feel whole.

Love Comes First—Always

No matter how much I enjoy findom, my partner and family will always be my top priority. Their happiness and well-being come first, and I ensure they never feel neglected or second to anything in my life.

This means being present, attentive, and fully committed to their needs. It also means maintaining trust—a trust that has been built over years of consistent love and care. If my family trusts me completely, they’re less likely to question my actions, which makes balancing findom and family life a bit easier.

Money and Trust: The Foundation of Balance

Findom isn’t cheap, and keeping it separate from your family finances requires discipline and effort. To make this work, I’ve taken on three jobs, working 11+ hours a day to ensure I can indulge in findom without taking anything away from my family.

Weekends are strictly for family time, and whatever money and time remain after fulfilling all other obligations are what I dedicate to findom. This approach ensures that findom never interferes with my responsibilities.

But money isn’t the only requirement. Trust is just as crucial. Your loved ones need to feel secure in your relationship and know they can rely on you completely. Building and maintaining this trust takes effort, but it’s essential for keeping findom in your life without causing harm.

The Lisbon Experience: A Hard Lesson

Even with years of experience, mistakes can and do happen. One of the most challenging moments in my journey was the infamous Lisbon experience, where I ended up spending €20,000 during a real-life session with Goddess Ishtar.

The session itself was unforgettable, but the aftermath was a harsh wake-up call. Scrambling to cover my tracks and ensure my partner wouldn’t discover what had happened was both stressful and complicated. The trust I’ve built with my loved ones over the years made it slightly easier to navigate the situation, but it was still a chaotic mess to manage.

I share this because it underscores the risks inherent in findom. It’s not without consequences, and experiences like this serve as powerful reminders of the need for careful planning, self-awareness, and unwavering financial discipline to avoid jeopardizing the trust you’ve worked so hard to build.

So, Can It Work?

For me, the answer is yes—but only with the right balance and priorities. Over the last 16 years, I’ve found a way to incorporate findom into my life while ensuring my loved ones never suffer for it.

That said, it hasn’t always been smooth sailing. There have been ups and downs, moments of clarity, and times when I felt like I was failing. But through it all, I’ve learned how to navigate this complex dynamic in a way that works for me.

Would my partner be hurt if they found out? Of course. But the goal here isn’t to justify deception—it’s to share how I’ve managed to reconcile this part of myself while prioritizing the people I love.

What About You?

This is my story, but I’m curious to hear yours. Have you found a way to balance findom and a committed relationship? Do you think it’s possible, or is it a line that shouldn’t be crossed? Let’s discuss.